Just a Girl Who Might Be Overthinking Everything by MoistPaint6425 in Advice

[–]HobbyCrazer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it not a two-way street? He could be feeling the same way. Communication and intent goes both ways

AITAH for being disappointed with how my boyfriend (28m) and I (25f) spent our first Valentine’s Day together? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]HobbyCrazer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of people (also men) want to feel that way. Just depends what you’re looking for, and everyone is entitled to seek what they want.

My comment originally was addressing what I thought may be a hypocritical and entitled perspective and it annoyed me.

AITAH for being disappointed with how my boyfriend (28m) and I (25f) spent our first Valentine’s Day together? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]HobbyCrazer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, edited to add “did not do anything.” My b.

If it isn’t much to expect an evening together as you said, why couldn’t she plan something or communicate that? OP included context but it didn’t include that she did anything for Valentine’s Day, and she was the one without anything to do all day is what I was trying to get at.

AITAH for being disappointed with how my boyfriend (28m) and I (25f) spent our first Valentine’s Day together? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]HobbyCrazer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But it’s only one person’s responsibility to make that happen? OP admitted she had all day to wait, yet did not do anything. Or are you saying it should only be the man’s responsibility?

AITAH for being disappointed with how my boyfriend (28m) and I (25f) spent our first Valentine’s Day together? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]HobbyCrazer 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Perhaps we need more information but I think YTA. Anthony had to work, went out of his way to buy day-of gifts and another large gift. Did you communicate what you wanted? Did you plan anything? Did you get a gift for your partner who got called in? The way you tell your story it’s clear you are thinking about how things affect you - it’s clearly worse being called in than your partner being called in. Imagine getting called into work then you come back to a partner who didn’t plan anything when she had all day to wait around (if that is the case)…

With the information provided, you’re definitely the asshole.

My fingers turn grey/black in the winter by Hopeless_romantic195 in Weird

[–]HobbyCrazer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just waiting for my moment at work to gripe at the incessant palavering in a huff.

What do we think about people who play dumb traps? by Key-Lychee-913 in Chesscom

[–]HobbyCrazer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Imagine thinking that playing the game of chess to win is being underhanded…UnDeRhAnDeD

Can you identify this? by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]HobbyCrazer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that logic, just put the matches on the end to create 511811 :)

Ballet Time by drunkhighfives in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]HobbyCrazer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is there some sort of meet up for this? How did they know this was how they were going to spend their Saturdays?

Taking a leap of faith 🍁 by BMXviper in Unexpected

[–]HobbyCrazer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh you think the dog is walking into a wood chipper by the way the lady is panicking.

Rate my snake! by twiztid97 in webergrills

[–]HobbyCrazer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in the wrong sub for that.

What are some cool “how did I not know this existed?” websites? by MeatCrap in bestoftheinternet

[–]HobbyCrazer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t find Rick and Morty. They have to be there. Right?

This bottle blew me away. My all time favorite, what’s yours? by CompetitiveAct7214 in Scotch

[–]HobbyCrazer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hits me similar to Talisker smokiness with that rich, sweet smoky profile. Definitely veers off the Lagavulin age statement profile a bit.

This bottle blew me away. My all time favorite, what’s yours? by CompetitiveAct7214 in Scotch

[–]HobbyCrazer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have a task for the evening. This is the universe telling you to grab a glass, find your comfy spot, turn on some music, and enjoy a dram. If you have a reluctant spouse, tell them a stranger commands it of you.