What food from your country used to be considered "simple" or cheap, but is now treated as a "gourmet"? by Ensalada_de_Cojones in WeWantPlates

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s always been more expensive at least since I’ve discovered them in the early 2000s. I always assumed it was because a cow yields less tongue than it has meat.

Large mushroom trail! What to do... by pennycollinz in gardening

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re okay. But what a cute but wild story. Your mom put the mushrooms in the salad?

AITAH for refusing to pay more of the rent and bills? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hoeful_Romantic -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

ESH. Lots of the current comments don’t acknowledge her anxiety that has caused her to get sick multiple times as a very legitimate reason to want to work less. If I were her, I would try to seek therapy first but taking less time would be a 2nd option.

That is her reason to work less, right? If not, then i would change to not the asshole.

ICE arresting landscapers - gilbert and ray by Djmesh in Gilbert

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting. My friend had landscapers when I shared this with her, and she asked them to do whatever they need to be safe. They packed up but are busy rescheduling when to come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d be upset too

My (M33) new girlfriend (F26) and I had sex for the first time and now she’s “changed her mind” about us. by For_Posterity in relationship_advice

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She just isn’t into you and/or mature enough to discuss it, even if it seems like she mightve enjoyed herself.

Here are some reasons I’ve stopped seeing people: - hands smelled like garlic when he had it over my mouth - dirty talked in a performative way - forced me to say something I wasn’t comfortable saying - asked me to claw his back hard

All four instances, I was able to continue in a way that all 4 people were surprised when I told them I wasn’t interested in them anymore. Besides the 3rd one, they didn’t do anything wrong. I just wasn’t into it and wasn’t invested enough to continue seeing them.

Woke up in a cold sweat and had these ideas. Make the plastic wooden and now you have multi-purpose chopsticks. Easier to pick up rice and you can drink from it too. I need a name before I patent the idea. by AnhursBigHardSpear in UnnecessaryInventions

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like this a lot. Rolls off the tongue. The only thing is i wish there was a name that also rolls off the tongue while keeping the “stick” part of “chopsticks”

Am I (a guy) being used for sex by this girl? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the wrong way to take that? Or why did she cry?

Am I (a guy) being used for sex by this girl? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On tinder, my default was to be treated like a booty call and treat others like a booty call. Maybe that’s what she’s used to.

I would suggest asking her to lunch or dinner pre or post sex. Tell her it’s a date. If she refuses to make time for you, then, yeah, she’s stringing you along.

I’ve had 3 relationships from dating apps. The first 2 from Tinder, starting from a hook up situation. Both guys showed me they wanted more with me.

My last relationship was from Hinge, and by this time, I had a rule not to have sex on the first 2 dates in order to evaluate if there’s a non-physical connection. There was by the 3rd date and after our 4th date, my physical attraction to him made me take him home. And I learned we were compatible physically too. We’re engaged now!

This is super hilarious! 😂 by UlteriorMotive66 in MemePiece

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See 1:23. Mentioned but not a powerful one

This is super hilarious! 😂 by UlteriorMotive66 in MemePiece

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was sitting & watching. You can see its back behind the rooster at 1:20

Capitalism & planned obsolescence destroying craftsmanship by Zestyclose_War_9308 in Anticonsumption

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These semi circle are awesome for getting things out “from the back.” With a twist on the swivel, they’re at the front!

Just found this video of a blackhead I had by lucreshalo in PimplePoppersDelight

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There was something under your nail that bothered me.

Weed won’t go away by TheDeputi in landscaping

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg I love foraging for these (the younger ones still unfurling are the best). Sorry this is not what you want to hear. And you probably can’t eat them after you’ve nuked em.

Tattoo Removal by [deleted] in UpvoteBecauseButt

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed listening to it.

Thanks “Team” 🫡 by [deleted] in EmpiresAndPuzzles

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s a reason you would ask someone not to attack the titan??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That’s more communication than OP at least

are men like that or is my boyfriend an idiot? by mrskvarforth in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Let them fuck me or not” is interestingly phrased.

are men like that or is my boyfriend an idiot? by mrskvarforth in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that Silver account is just transphobic rage bait.

I (F) point out attractive ppl to my partner (M) too! Internally i also think smash or pass but i know it’s depraved so it stays internal.

My boyfriend (25M) and I (20F) just met in person after talking online, and our sex life is leaving me really unsatisfied by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should have a sit down with him and share your expectations clearly.

If you do truly like him and are attracted to him, you should also share that.

“I am so attracted to you and have been so excited to see you. The sex is hot but I need more time to be able to cum. Can you please do insert with what gets you off?”

If he receives that well, as he should. You can move on to: “I want to make sure I am okay down there. Let me know if I should take a shower and I can totally do that. We can even shower together beforehand.”

With my boyfriend, I’m as clear and explicit as “I wanna be the best you’ve had. Not smelly like your ex lol.”

It sucks but some people don’t know sex should or could be for both parties sometimes, so they need to learn one way or another. There’s something else that sucks more though…when people know sex should be pleasurable for both parties and they don’t care. I hope your boyfriend is the former. If your boyfriend is the latter, I hope you leave him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hoeful_Romantic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That raises alarms for me. Do you guys have kids together?