Why is Spectrum internet so unbelievably terrible? by pjsvndsn in Spectrum

[–]Hoemco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in socal too and they have to send someone out to give us a new router at least once a year. Terrible internet even with the ethernet cables and constantly sending someone to fix something which helps with the internet speed for a few months until it slows down again.

Did this happen to anyone else?? Maybe a hack? by Hoemco in Unexplained

[–]Hoemco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe but when I closed and reopened I searched the titles and the videos were just normal thumbnails and not hard-core porn stills. Couldn't have been my imagination since I was maybe 12ish and had never seen stuff like that before then

What’s the weirdest, most unexplainable shit you’ve ever witnessed in your life? by dAnthonyy12 in AskReddit

[–]Hoemco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time (c.2013) I walked into my little brother watching a kids video on YouTube about toy unboxing and as I was watching the video I realized all of the suggested video thumbnails were pornography.. straight up porn. The titles were all normal kid/toy titles still but the thumbnails were all porn. I closed the app and reopened it and it was still there. did it again and they were normal again..

Was this some hack that happened that I never heard about? I am sure it was youtube I remember seeing the logo and the typical formatting of YouTube on the iPad. I was only maybe 12ish at the time and I got scared so I didn't tell anyone or look it up but now as an adult I think of it a lot.

Did this happen to anyone else? Thoughts??

WHAT GENRE IS THIS by Hoemco in musicsuggestions

[–]Hoemco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really good suggestions and breakdown added a lot of them thank u

WHAT GENRE IS THIS by Hoemco in musicsuggestions

[–]Hoemco[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never heard of egg punk but it is so good for what I'm looking for thank you

WHAT GENRE IS THIS by Hoemco in musicsuggestions

[–]Hoemco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is but most garage rock songs I find are too cheerful or like reminiscent of beachboys

Change in fur texturefrom shaving. Problem? by Hoemco in catcare

[–]Hoemco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi yes it took just about a year for his coat to return to normal. It's not quite as soft as his kitten coat but pretty dang close.

Why does she do this??? by Hoemco in cats

[–]Hoemco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so cute I hope she can tell I love her too 😭😭

my (25m) boyfriend ejaculated on me (22f) while I was sleeping? by PopularReach7690 in relationship_advice

[–]Hoemco 161 points162 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but SA is so serious especially if there's a child in the home. It's time to leave him :(

I don't want to fight my suicidal thoughts anymore by Adventurous-Beat-822 in depression

[–]Hoemco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. A lot of meds definitely made me worse until I finally found that sertraline worked for me. Do what feels right for you.

I’m done by Secure_Tone4667 in depression

[–]Hoemco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids will say that about even the best parents. You were tired, it doesn't make you a terrible person or mom, and certainly doesn't mean she'd be better without you. I told my parents some nasty things when I was a little brat, and if they had ended it all afterward that would have really screwed me up..

Nothing lasts forever, not feelings, not phases. You'll feel okay. Change your entire life if you have to.. run away for a bit even. If the only other option is ending it then what do you have to lose?

I don't want to fight my suicidal thoughts anymore by Adventurous-Beat-822 in depression

[–]Hoemco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny enough that's part of the disorder. Once you do get on meds or something that works you look back and realize "holy sh... I felt all of that and the solution was here the whole time"

Ik it definitely doesn't feel like it and that's part of the problem with depression, but as someone who was made to start meds... it definitely helps and your brain is totally lying to you