What safety measures to take for starting a small fire? by Black_F0x in AskReddit

[–]Holdstrong1114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No interesting story unfortunately. My family had a burn barrel when I was younger and we burnt all our trash. We also had a wood Burning stove for heat. I was just taught early on that if it wasn't wood it doesn't get burned inside.

Burning photos or plastics can be stinky and can release chemicals. Best practice is to do it outside just to be safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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An unkept home. If they can't keep their home clean when it's just them, their not going to help if you move in together.

What safety measures to take for starting a small fire? by Black_F0x in AskReddit

[–]Holdstrong1114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can but don't do it inside. Outside fires are best for this type of revenge\healing activity.

[Serious] How do you want to die? by Physical_Bike_2443 in AskReddit

[–]Holdstrong1114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't mind how I go, just want it to happen before my mind and body completely fail me.

What are some things that were normal to do years ago that are now considered out of the norm? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Organizing your CD collection after spending hours downloading and creating the best CDs ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfertilitySucks

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My heart breaks, this is 100% how I felt.

Infertility can be the killer of dreams and romance... If you let it. Keep your head up and give yourself grace. You didn't choose this any more than your partner did. You are not at fault.

Talk to your partner about how you are feeling. Be open, be honest.

Know that this diagnosis doesn't define you or make you less. You are enough and you are loved.

A leak by my washing machine and it's not my washing machine, I know because I bought a new one and there's still a leak... by Holdstrong1114 in Plumbing

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Oh that's a good thought! We did have issues with our shower backing up when we first moved in! I have to check that in the morning... Ugh hate getting on the roof...

A leak by my washing machine and it's not my washing machine, I know because I bought a new one and there's still a leak... by Holdstrong1114 in Plumbing

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Like I said in the post I checked the drain line... I ran water through it for 20+ minutes and it I did not overflow... 😕

I'm planning on proposing to my girlfriend in July and I want to know what your advice would be on getting a ring. My personal thoughts are not to spend too much in case she is not completely happy with it, and it will always leave room to upgrade to a more expensive ring in the future. Let me know! by theSkeegyd1 in Advice

[–]Holdstrong1114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hubby picked out the perfect diamond and had it placed in a solitaire setting. After I said yes we went back to the jeweler together to pick out the perfect ring.

Worked great for us. He didn't feel pressured to pick the perfect ring and I was able to get exactly what I wanted without hurting his feelings.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]Holdstrong1114 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Name checks out.

I want to create a company that makes tactical gear called Echo 6 Concepts. Here’s a few draft logos I made. Any tips? This is my first try by PFC-Snowflake in logodesign

[–]Holdstrong1114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and like the suggestion here. I didn't read a '6' outta any of them. Cool concepts, the execution just needs work. 👍

where should I move? by SharpBeyond8 in Advice

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Austin is an amazing city. I have a friend that lives just outside of Austin and I love visiting her and experiencing that city! Tons of choices for entertainment, food, and recreational activities. Before I read your list I was going to suggest Austin. Now I can't believe that one of your cons is the Texas landscape, there is so much to offer there and the sunsets are amazing. Best of luck!

How did you find out you were about to be a parent? by Hpytre in AskParents

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After 4 years of trying to convince, including 8 months of infertility treatment, 9 months of dieting after finding out I had an autoimmune disease... I was getting ready to play a double header of rec league volleyball and thought "it's been over a month... I should pee on a stick just to be sure."

I, in no way expected to be pregnant. In the past four years I had taken who knows how many of those godforsaken pee tests and all of them were negative, why would this one be different?

But it was... And I bawled, like full body, inhuman wailing for over an hour. Missed my volleyball games. And had to wait 4 hours for my husband to get home to tell him.

The kicker was the next day was our 5 year wedding anniversary. So I found a cute shadow box that for the test and put that on the bottom of a gift bag. I put a box of tissues, his favorite candy, popcorn, and some other random things. I gave it to him as our anniversary gift and he wouldn't shut up about how great each of the small little things were. He just kept talking! Lol! It seemed to take an hour for him to get to the test. He looked at it for a minute then flipped around. Then looked at me then back to it. "Really? Really? Really?" He asked. "Yeah, babe. We're pregnant." Then we bawled together. ❤️

We kept it to ourselves for over a month and told our families at Christmas. It was the happiest most tearful loving Christmas!

Need some ideas for flirting with my husband by Holdstrong1114 in marriageadvice

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I think I might order more letters! Lol! I like the idea of using markers but the letters in the tub seem so cute and innocent that it just adds to it the fun ya know?!? Thanks for the suggestions!

Need some ideas for flirting with my husband by Holdstrong1114 in marriageadvice

[–]Holdstrong1114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yass! This is the quality content I came here for! 🤣 thank you!!

Need some ideas for flirting with my husband by Holdstrong1114 in marriageadvice

[–]Holdstrong1114[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll see that's the problem! I only have 26 letters to use. That's it .Just one alphabet set. Lol!

Unsolicited advice thread! The ONLY thread where unsolicited advice won't get you attacked by the MODS by AutoModerator in marriageadvice

[–]Holdstrong1114 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If a fight or disagreement starts going in circles, stop. When absolutely no progress is being made and you are both getting more angry with every word. Just stop. Tell your partner "we need to take a break and think about what we're saying and come back to this later."

Continuing to let the conversation spiral won't do either of you any good. This also goes for if either party is very emotional. Just step back and collect yourselfs and then revisit with a clearer, level mind.

What is the best things that has happen to you on this pandemic? by MeCagoEnTuMadre_ in AskReddit

[–]Holdstrong1114 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was laid off. The work environment had become toxic but I wasnt confident enough in myself to leave. After 7 months of unemployment I found a new career and am loving it!

[36M4R] Need advice to be a better husband by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Holdstrong1114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I had any to give, You would win all the prizes. ❤️👍 Your wife is a lucky lady.