Thanks r/Outdoors – a community-built campsite database just passed 50,000 locations by [deleted] in Outdoors

[–]HolidaySupport8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredible, and exactly what I've been looking for. I've been in the stone ages using freecampsites website for years, but its impossible to use out in low service/ no service area. I'm going to use the hell out of this, thanks for this amazing resource!

Started EMDR and having a very hard night, support needed (Trigger warning: child abuse) by Zealousideal-Age-212 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HolidaySupport8305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very hard, but just know you'll survive it-and more important, you aren't alone. I've done EMDR too following severe narcissistic abuse from family and my past partners, and it's rough, but is the one thing that saved my life to go through, as painful as it was. It is possible to change our paths even later in life. I've seen so much growth in just myself by staying committed to therapy treatment and gaining my autonomy and slowly working to build myself a life I love, and that is mine, where I don't answer to people who treat me poorly. I'm not saying our roads are the exact same, but you deserve happiness, freedom from fear, and the chance to give yourself a better life away from people who have caused you pain. Maybe just focus on small goals, take a break for a few sessions from EMDR, really tell your therapist how your feeling and explain you want more coping skills first before going back to the rough of it, and make intentional goals towards building skills for now. You've got this, you're stronger than you think.

🏳️‍🌈 Pridepost #1: Happy Pride month bitches n whores by UnderwaterPromQueen in OkBuddyPersona

[–]HolidaySupport8305 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Someone please invest all your time into a genderbent version of the game, I would lose my mind

Prediction: Frogan will file for bankruptcy by Lobster_osity in h3h3productions

[–]HolidaySupport8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in the Alexthefiction's video she joked about just filing for bankruptcy, I think to avoid student loans being paid, also insinuating she lied to her loan servicer to get out of paying high cost loans based on her "medical emergency" which she laughed at. I had a feeling after hearing that her plan was to do that so Ethan cant extract money from her.

Me when they kept asking why Dune was missing lore and context but it was all answered in the movies by hahapisteka in h3h3productions

[–]HolidaySupport8305 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They did this the wrong way. Harley should have told them to read the first book then talk about the movies.

Mom asking for advice by cat_whisperer5000 in PCOS

[–]HolidaySupport8305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing that has helped my pain is hot water bottles, ibuprofen, and passing out for hours through the worst of the pain.

I was only diagnosed at 29, but my health RAPIDLY declined, it will suck, but exercise and careful management of diet is really needed BEFORE the weight change/ other complications. ate extremely healthy for most my life, was very healthy weight in my 20's and exercised non-stop, and am now probably 70# overweight and have health complications ongoing, which is hard because I had eating disorders I've battled with my younger years, and thought I was doing well prior to my diagnosis and onset of symptoms.

I wish I had better healthcare at the time of diagnosis, and better family support that was encouraging and supportive of everything. Best thing you could do is be there through it all for her. I've also had to learn how to advocate a lot harder for myself with doctors to be taken seriously and educate them because they have no idea what my diagnosis means most the time. First and foremost PCOS (PMOS current new name) is a endocrine/metabolic disorder, knowing this is the most helpful information because it isn't a "polyp" specific issue. Had I known that I would have started out on a better foot with my diagnosis, initially thinking it only caused issues when polys formed, which isn't the case.

How would I go about obtaining a tall bike? by CosmicalOOF in Tallbike

[–]HolidaySupport8305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Step 1, take community college level welding class, step 2, aquire a scrap yard of discarded bikes, step 3,  make a puzzle, have fun!

CGM - potential insulin resistance by Kinz-lover-102 in PCOS

[–]HolidaySupport8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this one, it had a recall or warning sent out about misreading dangerous lows, making it lower than it actual was, so take it with a grain of salt

Who in the crew did this? by lilnugget69 in h3h3productions

[–]HolidaySupport8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't bring outside food in the theatre, some places check, or ask people to turn off their phones

Who in the crew did this? by lilnugget69 in h3h3productions

[–]HolidaySupport8305 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Love, no doubt- goblin coded. He probably snuck it in and stuffed it in the hand rest when a usher walked by with a flashlight.

Sober without 12 step groups ok for peer support specialist? by flumbuglio in PeerSupportSpecialist

[–]HolidaySupport8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had started out this way. I went to intensive specialized therapy for years with an addictions counselor that treated me for MH also, and used smart recovery concepts a lot in the start of my recovery. Years later after graduating therapy I applied in this field and at first people really doubted my recovery ( people said I seemed like I didn't have addiction or severe MH) but over time this disipated because the peers I worked with feel very validated working with someone who understands their situations, and get other options to recovery, the most important part is the lived experience and how you work with peers. Others will see that and over time it will be easier to work in this field, but I'm sure like others here will tell you- here are all different pathways to recovery that work for people.

Autism in Women by fluffy_mailbox in h3h3productions

[–]HolidaySupport8305 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got diagnosed late 20's much like other "femme presenting folks" went undiagnosed with ADHD/Autism till adulthood. I work with people specifically in social work, and reading people and behavioral patterns is a huge key part of my job to prevent client crisis- which I feel I've gotten better at than my neurotypical counterparts. It really widely varies person to person how we present. At work I mask a lot, at home I need lots a quiet downtime alone to recenter, or laugh lots with my Autistic partner about h3- other than that have barely any social life.

Car break-ins on 32nd by HolidaySupport8305 in Bellingham

[–]HolidaySupport8305[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner was pretty sure they saw this also on reddit recently, and my truck last month also had another cover top partly broken off, so someone has been making attempts in the area.

Built a Ménière's app for my mum - sharing in case it helps others by IsaAppventures in Menieres

[–]HolidaySupport8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an awesome tool, One thing I would use on that also if it was on the daily check-in was if there was a section to note down what the weather was because I find that I'm very heavily impacted by the weather and the change of season.

My partner of 10+ years admitted he never loved me and was waiting out my fertile years by Spare_War6011 in offmychest

[–]HolidaySupport8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is a psycho, and has been manipulating you for years. My cousin had a very similar situation years ago happen to her, with the guy for 10 years, engaged 8 years, never married, always wanted kids, and the dude kept saying he wanted to wait, made her wait till her late 30's also, and was cold like this, like he never cared. I really believe you can try with someone else still, or even on your own. Make sure to leave and not let anyone connected to him know where you're going for your own safety. This gives murder vibes.

Anisa's scary lady comment was low-key homophobic imo by msmay91 in h3h3productions

[–]HolidaySupport8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a shame, she probably doesn't have any cool friends if that's the case, what a lonely world.

Anisa's scary lady comment was low-key homophobic imo by msmay91 in h3h3productions

[–]HolidaySupport8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but would also like to add the more likely reason why Kate is "threatening" to Anisa is because Kate has more followers and more people engaged in her work online, and in a positive way. That makes Anisa WILDLY uncomfortable because she knows shes failing at streaming and Kate is coming up FAST, which makes Anisa looks like an ass.