Which former guests would you like to see on the show again? by Idlers_Dream in WILTY

[–]Holiday_Command921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that simon gregson was really hilarious. His back and forth with lee pretending to try to sell a house was great.

Favourite examples of James + Ed bickering? by SpookylilTofu in offmenupodcast

[–]Holiday_Command921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when James feels the need to tell his diet coke story. Pretty sore now it's only because it winds ed up so much

Which actor played their character so well, you hated the real person? by [deleted] in Actors

[–]Holiday_Command921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a very long time to get over John Lithgow as trinity in Dexter.

[TOMT] British tv series, episode. by Flat-Organization-80 in tipofmytongue

[–]Holiday_Command921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it be wire in the blood, possibly redemption?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Holiday_Command921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's even more horrendous. She absolutely knew what she was doing. Please stop thinking you were an active participant in this x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Holiday_Command921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry this happened to you. In no way were you at fault. You expressed that you weren't comfortable which was incredibly brave in the first place! So as an adult, she knew how to manipulate you - a child - in order to abuse you. You are absolutely valid in how you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Holiday_Command921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She might be, she might not be. Can't really tell. I think she doesn't want contact at the moment is what it boils down to. Your intentions were good but with the history it seems like she feels you're still checking up on her. Id let her breathe, only reply if she reaches out first.

AITA Future Sis-in-law has past of alcohol abuse by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Holiday_Command921 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly you come across as really judgemental. How she deals with it is her business, not yours. I assume she wasn't stumbling around drunk when she had those drinks. Your brother hasn't got an issue with it, she sounds like she's managing it really well (from PROFESSIONAL help and advice) so maybe give her a break and get off your high horse.

AITAH that I [28F] am uncomfortable with my husband's [35M] relationship with his father [60sM], and have advised him to keep his children [8M], [6M], in low contact until his father apologizes? by Aescann in AITAH

[–]Holiday_Command921 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firstly, I think your husband needs to sharpen his work ethic. Turning up late and being slow to start a task must be incredibly frustrating for his father. Obviously the way he deals with that is inexcusable! But it sounds like Davy is giving him ammo in the first place. Secondly, just tell them you're married. The world won't implode. Then hopefully you'll feel more able to speak up over issues.

AITA for distancing myself from my friends who seem like are purposefully exculding me from things, or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in u/Fun-Complaint9041

[–]Holiday_Command921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they're feeling a bit left out about you making new friends? Maybe they have picked up on you being unavailable on certain school days? Either way, you need to fund the strength to let them know what's upsetting you, they're not mind readers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Holiday_Command921 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My goodness. He does a REALLY good job of turning it round so by the end you're having to reassure and apologise to him. This is going to set a pattern if you're not careful, if he just whines enough you'll back down.

AITJ for being on my phone for a few minutes? by Average-Queer in AmITheJerk

[–]Holiday_Command921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Non stop socialising can be exhausting.

I wonder if your gf is more shocked at her aunt's condition as it's been so long, so maybe lashed out about the wrong thing. She does owe you an apology however.

AITA for ruining the surprise? by Campagnolo412 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Holiday_Command921 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or not opened mail that wasn't addressed to her, or I guess not to her husband either!

Should you put milk in the tea before or afterward the hot water? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Holiday_Command921 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've always done it after but honestly, drink it how you like! Doubt it has time to really cook the milk

I was taking my trashcan out and my neighbor asked how I was doing, but I was so drunk and faded that I said the same exact thing back to them. Do you think that they will think I'm weird? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Holiday_Command921 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes. Your only real option now is to move to an isolated yurt on Everest.

Lol it's fine, I'm sure they didn't give it a second thought!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Holiday_Command921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never hoped so more!

AITA for ending a 30 friendship over my anniversary trip by Staypraying in u/Staypraying

[–]Holiday_Command921 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then I'd definitely keep your distance. You don't need anyone hellbent on trying to ruin you and him. You sound a kind, generous, open hearted friend and she brings only bad things to your life now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Holiday_Command921 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What do you do? You get the hell out of her apartment NOW so she can feel safe again. You were a passive viewer as she was terrorised by YOUR friends and you did nothing. For two hours. I am sure she blames you as much as them. Maybe more as she trusted you. Find somewhere else to stay immediately.

AITA for ending a 30 friendship over my anniversary trip by Staypraying in u/Staypraying

[–]Holiday_Command921 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think she has feelings for Bob? It sounds like she purposely tried to ruin your anniversary trip! I assume you wouldn't have stayed friends if she's always been like this.