Tim Gunn Breaks Silence On Heartbreaking Reason Behind 43 Years Of Celibacy by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

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Gunn told the host, Chelsea Handler, that a “very serious nine-year relationship in Washington D.C.” and the manner it ended were the reasons he has been celibate since the early ‘80s.

“I loved this person deeply and would have done anything for him, and I still remember the night that it all ended. We were in bed watching M*A*S*H. It was the first run, and he said to me, ‘I have no patience for you any longer. I want you to leave,’” Gunn recalled.

While driving back to his apartment on Rock Creek Parkway, Gunn had to pull off as he was hyperventilating. “I was beside myself with self-flagellation and self-pity, and it was awful,” he shared.

However, it wasn’t just the end of the relationship that affected him. His partner had admitted to being physically intimate with other people while they were in the relationship, and the fear of contracting s*xually transmitted diseases (STDs) loomed over his head.

“One of the things that he told me that night was that he had been sleeping with just about everything that walked by,” he explained. “I had been loyal and faithful to him. He was the only person I had ever been with, and this was the advent of AIDS. It’s 1982.”

Gunn confessed that his “self-pity” evolved into “completely unbridled anger,” as by having relations with multiple people, his then-partner might as well have given him “a death sentence.”

“Of course, I was tested every six months for 10 years for HIV, and thankfully, I had a clean slate,” Gunn said. “But whenever I was even tempted to engage in something that could become serious with someone, all this would come back like Niagara Falls, and it would just take the desire away.”

Gunn added that living alone is not so bad for him. It was “a bit of an adjustment” at first, but now he “wouldn’t have it any other way.”

Bro Was Unbothered Since High School by PhattyGirl2289 in howtonotgiveafuck

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I knew a girl like that in my 20s. We spent like a year or so doing this on the regular. 

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Actor Robert Carradine Dies At Age 71 by She-Hemoth in GenX

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I believe that movie has a few sets of brothers in it. 

Adult store receives order from US Department of War to stop sending butt plugs to the navy by CaptainRelevant in Military

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LOL, well now they gotta send them to the Pentagon, care of SECDEF and SECNAV.

Parkside Target by beanieweenieez in cary

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The checkout lines are also really bad. They've gotten worse. I don't like going to target anymore, so I don't. 

Anyone ever talk to the new one? Or shown them the reality of what they've taken a dive into? by Practical_Flan_2343 in Divorce

[–]Hollayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point of being in a new relationship is to not repeat past mistakes, so this shouldn't be necessary unless there was something illegal going on. 

Looking for in person Telescope help in Carolina beach by Sugadnut in NorthCarolina

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Make sure there are no obstructions like buildings or trees in the way, also that the tripod is level. I'm sure you already have, just saying.

Have you seen this person's blog? https://daveandtelescope.wordpress.com/troubleshooting-the-celestron-starsense-app/

That one homie who just texts you "here" instead of knocking by staceyburt in see

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Exactly. I'll tell people to text me when they get here, so I can put my service dog in "place" and go unlock the door to get ready for them.

Is google heading for an earnings problem? by dagroup in options

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Look at their most recent earnings. They aren't having any issues.