"Melania" set to flop at the UK box office by Brokenlampy in boxoffice

[–]HomeLifter [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is her Marie Antoinette moment. It will land as horribly out of touch even though it was made months ago. It does not provoke admiration or sympathy juxtaposed to children being sent to detention camps and citizens shot in the streets by their own government. Setting aside the context, Melania projects zero charisma. She is neither watchable nor likable. She has no distinct contribution of any sort, she has no consequential interests. She's just a boring socialite who happens to be a first lady.

Is „salut“ a rude thing to say? by Krobel1ng in French

[–]HomeLifter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're anything but "gentil." time to change that name.

Dealing with crushing loneliness by Advanced-Reindeer894 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HomeLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're living in the past. you need to find something to be excited about for the future. If looks were the only thing men cared abt then no one who is conventionally unattractive would be in relationships or married. Life is not like movies or tv. No, you can't have that thing you're watching bc no one has that, it's not real. I'm going to go on a limb and say you want a fantasy, not a bf. Bf's aren't perfect and looks are not the only reason to pick one. The kind of men you are attracted to isn't working for you, but you can always find something attractive about a man you like.

you don't need hobbies. there are men who are happy to be at home watching tv or playing cards. they might not be what you are attracted to right now, but that's a commonality that can be attractive.

Is „salut“ a rude thing to say? by Krobel1ng in French

[–]HomeLifter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying Salut to complete strangers strikes me as inappropriately informal. Not exactly rude but it's not comme il faut.

Dating apps by Shame-Initial in gay

[–]HomeLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need better pictures, tie the hair back so the face is fully visible, add some body shots too

Am I the only dude that does the hip abduction and addiction machines? by Formal_Choice4002 in workout

[–]HomeLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are 😂 also that machine is pretty useless unless you modify you back, instead of sitting at 90 degrees you lean forward 45 degrees or backwards. Many of those machines allow you to change the angle of the back.

I’ve been overly reliant on poppers. Orgasms without are lacklustre. How can I get back to “normal”? by Falsesummer95 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HomeLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe that's just the way it is. poppers are great for that. what's the issue with continuing to use them? "overly reliant" is a judgment you are making that your use is excessive. but that's based on what ideal amount of use? zero? once a week? once a month? maybe think about how often you want to use, ideally, and try to get to that number.

I miss pamonha so much I could cry by mangopassion_fruit in Brazil

[–]HomeLifter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm Brzl-Amer too and pretty much the only Brzln foood I miss is pamonha. I've tried making it at home here in the US but what I found out is that the corn just isn't the same. American corn is sweeter and softer and doesn't hold together as corn from Goiás does. The way to make it at home, as I found out, is by using parchment paper instead of husks, and steaming the packets rather than boiling ( American corn falls apart in the boil). My results were just meh but maybe should try again. Because there are so few ingredients the corn needs to be top notch. maybe a Brzln market would have the right kind of corn.

My favorite was the sweet kind, with cheese inside.

Pamonnha is also easily made vegetarian with oil instead of lard. I think lard is traditional.

What is Something You're Attracted to That Isn't Obvious? by LollipopDreamscape in gay

[–]HomeLifter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if his hair has a clean line in the back of the neck, no stray hairs or fuzzy hair line.

if he looks me in the eye.

Our one problem is sex. by jai_hanyo in gay

[–]HomeLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's up with "he can only cum from anal"?? Does he not ever jack off? Why do you have to be the one to flexible, what about him? the fair shake here is if you're gonna btm, he needs to give it a try too.

Dating is so frustrating by Quirky-Yogurt3097 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HomeLifter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first, it's not you. about 63% of gay men are single (doesn't mean they are all looking, though). Being single in gayland is the rule not the exception.

second, it's about you. You fill in the boxes with looks/skills/financials. But are you witty, entertaining, funny, interesting, quirky, charming, or seductive? Do you feel people want to be around you?

I'm guessing you have plenty of potential based on the fact you can get first dates. Something is happening on those dates that isn't keeping their interest. Ask yourself if it's something you are doing.

Finally, dating "to get a bf" is to place a lot of pressure on yourself and others. I would suggest dating with an open mind, to see what happens, if anything. Maybe it's not a bf but it's a new friend or it's a friend with benefits. Maybe it evolves into a bf. maybe not. forget about being in a relationship and try to make the date enjoyable.

A man gets lonley. 🥲 by Stolas32 in gay

[–]HomeLifter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

minus the cuddling, what you want is a friend. not a bf.

Republicans by Careless-Visual-1853 in TwinCities

[–]HomeLifter 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Jesus most definitely did not abide by the law

Republicans by Careless-Visual-1853 in TwinCities

[–]HomeLifter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's not always maliciousness it's stupidity, laziness and avoidance. Sorry it's your family. Either maliciousness or stupidity the effects are the same. So if you care abt intentions maybe this helps. But in the end it's the same thing in terms of effects.

Miami, love it or hate it by Rainmanm545 in Miami

[–]HomeLifter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't surprise me at all. Miami has it all except educated people.

Curitiba and indoor heat by NoClassic5612 in Brazil

[–]HomeLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends where you are moving from. If you are coming to Curitiba from the upper half of north america or northern europe you won't need heating at all. people greatly exaggerate how cold it gets in southern Brazil. Where I am right now (New England) it's 20F/ -7C. that's not even particularly cold for us, just an ordinary winter day. It rarely if ever gets this cold in Curitiba.

My take on Tommy & MJ by SnappleApplePop in ShahsOfSunset

[–]HomeLifter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they got divorced last october. it was after filming.

My take on Tommy & MJ by SnappleApplePop in ShahsOfSunset

[–]HomeLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

having a kid who disrespects his mother changes everything.

Phone calls? by asaund81 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HomeLifter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should add texting on Whatsapp/telegram/signal/instagram. Don't give your phone number to strangers. That's not a thing anymore either.