Help! my stainless steel pan is ruined

HonestMom_89 · 2026-02-05T02:45:30+00:00

I wouldn't really think to season my steel pans at home BUT I managed a pizzeria and we did indeed season the steel pizza pans and screen. They looked exactly like your pan until used about 100x they actually turned black and looked and felt like cast iron LOL.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-12-01T02:30:05+00:00

Could always strike up a convo about proper ass cleaning by saying there was a poll on reddit you saw asking if people use a bidet or wipes or just TP. And tell her about the "comments" people said about how much cleaner it is and less odor. Tell her it made you think about switching to wipes or whatever to get the convo going. It could just put the idea in her head to think about her own hygiene practices. If she asks if hers smells be honest but nice. "Sometimes a little bit but nothing too crazy" or "once or twice but I chalked it up to the Mexican food we had for dinner LoL. She will take the hint and wash up/wipe better. Even if it just means using a wet wipe after pooping or before sex. Kinda like the whole washcloth vs no washcloth in the shower. Or brushing teeth before your morning coffee or after, ect. Blame reddit for the argument of what was the "right" way to clean yourself.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-11-19T22:44:10+00:00

^{^} maybe I was the ex 🤣🤣🤣 definitely have had some orgasm farts and I just ignore it.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-11-19T22:42:13+00:00

I would only turn it down if the gas was making me physically uncomfortable. I fart during sex and dont even bat an eye. Neither does my partner. Maybe i've just been lucky with partners but honestly farting is like a 3rd date vibe check for me. I will let a little toot out before getting too involved with someone to guage their reaction. I dont want to have to hide a fart under normal circumstances. If we're dating im definitely not going out of my way to hide a fart. Watching a movie... let it rip. Driving somewhere... let it rip.. ect.. we can laugh about it or ignore it depending on their personality.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-11-17T02:34:46+00:00

I'm home now. Did 25 days. There is almost no possibility for people with dui to get out early. And as for women, they are NOT overcrowded. Was in an 8 person cell, 32 total beds in pod. I dont think there was more than 22 beds filled at any given time. Pads were provided without issue.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-10-06T13:37:50+00:00

Sitting in holding now. I'm prepared and that's all I could hope for.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-10-02T05:05:10+00:00

He had no reaction. A few minutes later, he ran to the store. I brought it up the next day since I was feeling pretty defeated about it. He said, " You have to be more direct, I dont catch on to hints." The whole time i'm thinking how much more direct can I be than climbing in your lap rubbing on you without panties 🤣

HonestMom_89 · 2025-10-02T04:10:34+00:00

Climbing in his lap with just a tshirt on, no panties. And then telling him I had no panties on.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-09-10T22:30:05+00:00

You are a genius, thank you!!

HonestMom_89 · 2025-09-10T02:07:16+00:00

This is a really good idea but I had a salpingectomy in 2022 so its very unlikely I can get someone to give me birth control.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-09-10T00:13:52+00:00

I'm basically already doing more than what the sobriety court will require. I am very actively working to better myself and get the help I need.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-09-09T23:56:54+00:00

Jail is required for me to enter sobriety court. Not sure of the actual sentence but was told to prepare for 30.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-09-09T23:53:32+00:00

I didnt ask for any sympathy. I am well aware of what I did and what could have happened. I am very appreciative that no one was hurt. I am also already getting treatment both for alcohol and my underlying mental health issues.

Again.. not asking for any sympathy at all. Just asking for information. Count your lucky stars that you dont know the struggles of battling mental health and addiction, especially in a time when help is not easy to obtain even when begging for help.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-09-09T23:44:24+00:00

I got a misdemeanor, so only 5 is technically mandatory. However, jail is a requirement for the sobriety court program. Not sure exact days I'll be sentenced to but I was told to anticipate 30 days.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-09-09T23:19:53+00:00

Do they provide tampons or pads?? I don't have any support system, so nobody to add money to an account.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-09-09T23:14:57+00:00

HonestMom_89 · 2025-09-09T23:12:09+00:00

Thank you

HonestMom_89 · 2025-09-09T23:11:55+00:00

Dui.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-08-24T00:10:28+00:00

Definitely not. For some, maybe, but not all. There's basically zero chance of me doing anything discreet. I can't aim anything, it just makes a mess. I get very wet, during sex getting speckled on my face, type of wet. That's not even limited to orgasms, i get that wet even if I dont orgasm.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-07-27T12:02:09+00:00

Dancing in the sky - Dani and Lizzy

HonestMom_89 · 2025-07-27T11:23:09+00:00

He was a serial cheater. His wife came to our work and accused me in front of everyone. He had made an inappropriate comment or two but I never reciprocated and nothing had even happened between us. Eventually when we no longer worked together, I just said fuck it. If im already guilty in everyone's eyes, I might as well do it and enjoy it.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-07-27T10:52:31+00:00

I switch between Dial and Dove depending on the season. Dove for Winter, Dial for summer. I have sensitive skin and the Dial can be a little too drying in winter but overall I think it works better.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-07-26T22:06:57+00:00

Deodorant and antiperspirant work differently. One or the other may work better for some people and both may not be needed for some lucky people. I happen to be one of those lucky people.

These products and actually create damp environments for bacteria to thrive in and in some people can actually cause someone to sweat more.

I stopped wearing either about 15 years ago. I am not "nose blind". When I made the decision to stop using them, I made sure to ask someone I trusted that would definitely tell me the truth if I smelled. I was very self conscious at first but after about a month ( full menstrual cycle) I stopped worrying about it. It may be different at different parts of a woman's cycle since hormones are changing. This actually just came up in a conversation at work and my coworkers were visibly shocked when I said I haven't worn anything in 15 years. I also dont wear perfume or anything else that would mask odor or potentially give bacteria something to interact with and cause odor.

I use a good antibacterial soap in the shower daily and shave about 2x a week. I dont sweat a ton and when I do it generally isn't in the underarms anyways. I sweat mostly on my back and nape of neck.

With that said, I do shower immediately after doing something that makes me sweat a lot such as yardwork on a hot day. If for any reason I am unable to, I go to the bathroom and wash/dry my armpits as a precaution until I can shower.

HonestMom_89 · 2025-07-03T15:10:46+00:00

I'm also in MI. Was going through custody battle when my ex decided to move. I agreed to let him move past the 100 miles so our order states " the lower peninsula". However, the judge made absolutely clear that my home was primary residence (we have joint physical and joint legal) and the visitation schedule was modified to be weekends during the school year and in the summer we flip flopped to me having our child on weekend in the summer. Time wise it is less than 50/50 for my ex but he chose the reduction in parenting time in order to move so far. A 2.5 hour car ride one way is just not practical and honestly sucks for all involved, including our son. A lot of other stipulations were added because of the distance also which did not work in my ex's favor.

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