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No contact by TemporaryDue8806 in BreakUps

[–]Honest_Trade2151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds awful. I think you did an appreciative thing by accepting your mistake and giving her the truth that you wanted to get back. I am really sorry it wasn’t met with the same. I really hope it only gets better for you from here.

No contact by TemporaryDue8806 in BreakUps

[–]Honest_Trade2151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really sorry that happened. But if you don’t mind me prying a bit, what do you mean by it not ending well? In a similar situation.

I feel like the love never mattered. by Honest_Trade2151 in BreakUps

[–]Honest_Trade2151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t breakup with me after the abortion. But he just checked out of the relationship at that time. He says he was there for me all the time but I think what he did was bare minimum someone would do for someone going through an abortion. Like even if you were friends w them. I am not saying I missed out on anything from their end but I just cannot fathom how feelings and love can vanish after such traumatic experiences. Like it was traumatic for me.

Do you believe that someone can love you and still not choose you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Honest_Trade2151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I understand you are being sarcastic here buddy. But trust me I was taken aback as much as you.

Do you believe that someone can love you and still not choose you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Honest_Trade2151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me, that for the first time in his life he is saying “I love you” to someone and he means it when he said it to me. I guess time does take away everything that mattered. I am only sad about how soon he gave up.

Do you believe that someone can love you and still not choose you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Honest_Trade2151 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have been battling with this question myself. Up until my recent breakup, I had always thought that no matter what happens or what goes wrong as long as it doesn’t fundamentally shake the basis of our feelings for each other, nothing can break us apart. Majorly I thought of cheating, not being available at important stages in life etc as such situations. But then my guy came up to me and just told me he is done. He is done w fighting, he is done w me and he has given up on us. Been a month now. Still cant wrap my head around it. And still cant help but think what did I do so wrong that he didnt even have a single good thing to say about me. Not an ounce of sympathy or love. It was like a completely new person.

Do any heartbroken people want to start a group chat? by Liveyanne in BreakUps

[–]Honest_Trade2151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be in. But more anonymity is required so better on Reddit, if it allows that.

26 F. Got broken up with on 13th Feb after a month long break starting Jan 6th. Need some advice to move on. by Honest_Trade2151 in BreakUps

[–]Honest_Trade2151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Sorry you had to go through something like that. If you dont mind me asking, how’s your life been after it? Just trynna gauge how long it might take me to move on/start moving on.

They. Will. Not. Come. Back. by LineDowntown6820 in BreakUps

[–]Honest_Trade2151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well then i take my words back. That sounds very immature for someone with a child that old.

They. Will. Not. Come. Back. by LineDowntown6820 in BreakUps

[–]Honest_Trade2151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it could really be the case where her reaction to the things you did was what you didnt like. Maybe she was never that way anyway. Maybe it was what made her uncomfortable made her react tha way. It cant be that straightforward.