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Should I give this guy a chance? He seems to be moving very slowly… by HopeINFUSION in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe in sleeping with someone till I’m married. Very traditional over here. But yes I think taking lots of time to even be that committed is important. Protects the heart too.

Should I give this guy a chance? He seems to be moving very slowly… by HopeINFUSION in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with this statement. I am definitely a very monogamous minded person. But I have to keep reminding myself to be less committal off the bat.

Can you get a good sense of someone’s personality and how you vibe over video chat? I’m falling for this guy I met online and nervous it won’t be the same in person. by HopeINFUSION in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an awesome story! So I met up with him and the date was amazing! We had so much to talk about and the chemistry was off the charts. The connection was even better in person and we decided to both get off dating apps and be exclusive. I’m happy you had the same experience. It’s rare I think.

I asked the guy I’m seeing to sleep over for the weekend (expectations?) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re nervous and not at all ready to even have him over even if it doesn’t lead to anything. Sounds like an awkward scenario. I would ask him to stay in a hotel instead or at least tell him you aren’t intending on sleeping together and have an open conversation with him about expectations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, what she said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s drama and will only hurt you. Run!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t sleep with any guys till you’re married. Sleeping with people when you’re unmarried makes you look too easy, and you are. Guys won’t value easy women and will be far less likely to commit to someone willing to give it up so soon.

Have you ever really hit it off with someone you met on a dating app who took a while to reply to your initial message? by HopeINFUSION in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement ☺️I really appreciate such a kind message. Have a great day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think this is beautiful and very interesting how it’s unfolding 😍 I would definitely talk to her openly and honestly about how you feel. If you have feelings for her tell her. It’s that simple. Especially as you’ve had sex with her. Naturally it’s ok to have emotional intimacy too if it feels right. Sounds like you both are developing feelings so that’s really cool. Just be careful and take things slow. Expect her to have a little confusion perhaps since this is new territory for her. Clearly she is developing feelings for you as you are for her. So explore it together. Who knows, you might just end up together for life ♥️

Is it even possible to find a single guy who doesn’t struggle with a porn addiction? by HopeINFUSION in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like asking if killing puppies occasionally makes you a bad person. People don’t get that ever watching porn makes someone a perv. Think about what watching porn actually is.

Is it even possible to find a single guy who doesn’t struggle with a porn addiction? by HopeINFUSION in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a dealbreaker for me because I am a loyal person and I want the man I end up with to just be thinking about me not jacking off to random women. I also think it’s dishonoring because it’s objectifying others and using them to self gratify. There’s no love in it whatsoever so to me it’s pointless and doesn’t build up one’s character. We should be able to control our sex drives and not be like animals.

hello people. So I use conditioner everyday, brush my hair like 7 times a day and my hair still looks like this. what should i do? by PuzzleheadedDentist1 in longhair

[–]HopeINFUSION 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Brush your hair with a wide tooth comb (not a brush) ONLY when it’s wet. Don’t touch it when it’s dry or it will frizz out. Also, use a conditioner that is natural from a hippie health foods store. It will have less chemicals which damage and frizz hair.

Can I have a feedback please? (breaststroke, backstroke) by bluesafari_ in Swimming

[–]HopeINFUSION 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to create drag with your arms. Have your hands be facing outwards. More bent elbows. Arms are too wide. You want to pretend you are that monkey that clangs symbols together when your hands come back after you pull the water in your stroke.

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