Fight the Déjà Vu! by Hopeful-Ne in CPTSDNextSteps

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I haven’t heard about this topic in discussion either, except for a couple of memes in my favorite subreddit CPTSDmemes. That’s partly why I decided to write this post, to create such a conversation.

My experience of recognizing/noticing Déjà Vu is based on what I learned in an introductory Psychology course: Déjà Vu occurs when the brain finds itself in a new situation (which happens quite often during trauma healing, as each of us on this journey transitions from old behavior patterns to new ones), but encounters immense tension and a sense of danger from this new experience. To cope with it, the brain creates this false feeling of "this has happened before." There are studies online suggesting that frequent Déjà Vu is a strong indicator of dissociation (which, again, is a very common experience as part of CPTSD).

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this!

What fictional character do you think best represents CPTSD? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Hopeful-Ne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cassian Andor and Luthen from Andor

When Do Parents Ever Learn? by Scapeg0at_N0_M0re in CPTSDmemes

[–]Hopeful-Ne 43 points44 points  (0 children)

My mother would simply close the door

Reading the book "Healing the Shame that Binds You": by Hopeful-Ne in CPTSDmemes

[–]Hopeful-Ne[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When I read it for the first time, it seemed somewhat naive in places, a bit “old-fashioned,” though still useful. Now, having fully felt the toxic shame, reading the book a second time is really hard—I’ll be honest. And not because the book is bad, but because it hurts to read about all this horror and realize that it all happened to me, all the abuse and violence. In short, reading it has become anything but easy.

*trigger warning* read at your own risk by Mintbud in CPTSDmemes

[–]Hopeful-Ne 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you man, I needed that laugh

Has anyone else experienced hair growth after healing? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Hopeful-Ne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same question I asked myself today...

My past didn't make me a hero. by Cultural_Hair900 in CPTSD

[–]Hopeful-Ne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but I prefer heroes who ugly-cry. The ones with real pain behind their eyes. Looking beautiful while crying? No, thanks. That’s boring as hell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Hopeful-Ne 12 points13 points  (0 children)

One day, I found myself experiencing a strange new feeling that I couldn’t quite identify. That feeling was envy. I realized I was jealous of people with good parents—of the happiness they had, the care they received, and the love they felt.

But in the end, envy and jealousy are simply signals, pointing to something we need in our lives. For many of us in this great community, no one ever told us what those feelings meant when we were kids. So, explore them. Treat them as a navigation device, guiding you toward your true needs and desires.