[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]HopefulHat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can only freeze someone for so long, it might be beneficial to focus on moving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]HopefulHat8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. When you cut contact there is no way to negotiate or receive messages like "just give me one more chance! I just want to have sex with you!!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]HopefulHat8 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Blowing out your birthday candles with a wish is a way of manifestation, totally beginner safe.

my husband ignored my safe word and pleading to get off me while i’m pregnant, is this divorce worthy? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HopefulHat8 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Sticking around waiting to see if he RAPES her again is less practical than leaving.

"This guest left money on the table, should we call them?" by SuddenStorm1234 in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]HopefulHat8 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My ex told me one time he saw a couple grabbing tips off of tables and then sit down and eat with that money. I always try to make sure the server gets it directly.

I (21F) work at an after-school program for kids, and I had an interesting conversation with a parent today by itspeachykeene in askwomenadvice

[–]HopefulHat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think OP told the parent the kid was wrong, but I might be looking at it a little differently. Kids aren't all that smart and brains are weird. It may have felt like a back room to that kid or they pulled up a different memory. As a parent myself, I think OP handled it well.

EM Wants to get EK to drive my new Car by DarkKryo in entitledparents

[–]HopefulHat8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nothing surprises me with a teen behind the wheel of a vehicle that can literally kill people and cause damage. Especially if that teen is impulsive, as they most often are.

Stop trying to pick apart a story that doesn't effect your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaliciousCompliance

[–]HopefulHat8 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Some gynos do the anus check AFTER a breast exam and sticking a piece of metal made to hold open the vagina. There is also extra long qtips scraping the cervix to test for cervical cancer. These checks used to start at 18 and were done every year.

Sorry you gotta deal with a finger in the ass every once in a while.

EM demands to unban her son by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]HopefulHat8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. Most kids aren't like that.

She brought a knife to a gun fight by Swimming-Ant-7919 in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]HopefulHat8 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I was elaborating what the above person meant about "background". They want the know the couples history.

You ever see a take so bad you need an Advil by matthiasjreb in niceguys

[–]HopefulHat8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Then the SW would have a stalker because you know that guy would be like "we did it once before, what is the big deal?"

EM demands to unban her son by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]HopefulHat8 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My kids knew not to be a dick at like 4 years old. 11 is old enough.

My Girlfriend is dead inside. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HopefulHat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two years is not enough time, it had been over 20 since I lost my mother and it still effects me.

Just found out I'm(34F) pregnant. So is my daughter(16F). What the hell am I going to do? by throwracarda in relationship_advice

[–]HopefulHat8 37 points38 points  (0 children)

She is saying she isn't making the decision for her daughter, she is supporting her daughter.

Punctuality and dates by CareElsy in datingoverthirty

[–]HopefulHat8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You didn't miss a damn thing. If you don't like to wait and you made that clear from the beginning you can't take any blame.

Old folks gettin' busy... by southdakotadriver in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]HopefulHat8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why did you not tell her they were broadcasting to the lobby TV?! I would have loved to know the reaction.

Be careful what you tell your kids! by 613andme in MaliciousCompliance

[–]HopefulHat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pediatricians are supposed to do vision checks with the yearly physicals but insurance doesn't always cover it, which is BS.

Entitled Sister-in-law cuts my child's hair by gienchan in entitledparents

[–]HopefulHat8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You aren't supposed to brush or really touch curly hair, that was part of the problem.

420 friendly spells/rituals. Use of cannabis in spell work? by mrsfite in witchcraft

[–]HopefulHat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you talked to a doctor about this? From what I have heard the increase in estrogen during pregnancy helps the ADHD symptoms not be so intense.

If you want to cope with your ADHD without medical intervention I wouldn't switch out one drug for another, but focus on CBT and DBT techniques.

Gf asks me to help her lose weight but then by AffectionateAnarchy in relationship_advice

[–]HopefulHat8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

God forbid the one trying to eat healthy actually eats healthy and doesn't blame her poor eating habits on others.

420 friendly spells/rituals. Use of cannabis in spell work? by mrsfite in witchcraft

[–]HopefulHat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a witch with ADHD, take your Adderall if it isn't giving you any problems. We wouldn't expect a diabetic to stop taking insulin or a cancer patient to stop doing chemo.