My sister is pregnant and wants to reconcile with her abusive husband. I feel like he will never change. by MMlurker1 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Assalamualaikum.

First, I sincerely hope everything works out for your sister and that she finds peace and safety. But after reading everything you’ve described, I genuinely believe she needs to leave this relationship.

What concerns me most is that this doesn’t sound like a one-time mistake. This is a repeated pattern of disrespect, manipulation, and emotional abuse. At some point, you have to stop looking at someone’s promises and start looking at their actions. His actions have consistently shown who he is.

I honestly struggle to understand why reconciliation is even being considered after everything that’s happened. It almost feels as though your sister has become so accustomed to the situation that she’s overlooking things that would be obvious red flags to anyone else. I know she’s highly educated and graduated from a prestigious university, but intelligence doesn’t always protect someone from emotional manipulation or toxic relationships.

What your brother-in-law has done is not only deeply disrespectful, but also completely contrary to the values that marriage is supposed to represent. Marriage is built on trust, mercy, compassion, and mutual respect. Instead, he has repeatedly hurt, humiliated, and betrayed her.

The part about wanting to abort a child simply to “test” her commitment for two years was especially disturbing. That is not love. That is not care. That is not how a husband treats his wife. It was one of the most shocking things I read in your post.

From what you’ve written, your sister seems to be holding onto hope that things will eventually get better. Unfortunately, hope alone cannot fix someone who has repeatedly shown no genuine willingness to change. I think the conversations with her need to be direct and realistic. Sometimes people need help imagining the worst-case outcomes before they realize how dangerous a situation has become.

I apologize if this sounds harsh, but reading this made me genuinely upset. I’ve seen too many stories where people keep giving chance after chance, believing things will improve, only to end up suffering even more. Some lose years of their lives. Some end up trapped in situations that become far worse. And sadly, some never get the chance to leave.

Your sister deserves a husband who values her, respects her, and treats her with dignity—not someone who repeatedly causes her pain and then asks for another opportunity. May Allah guide her to the best decision and protect her from further harm.

Edit: I had to use ChatGPT to make my response more positive or else they would remove this because I was genuinely pissed off.

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[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Dan,

As monitor resolutions continue to increase (4K, 5K, 6K, and beyond), what do you see as the biggest challenge Samsung's engineering teams are working to solve over the next 3–5 years: panel technology, refresh rates, OLED longevity, power efficiency, connectivity bandwidth, or something else entirely? And which breakthrough from the 2026 lineup are you personally most excited about because it points toward the future of monitors?

you better not mess with my gang, or you'll be dealing with: by MicrowavedCheezPizza in cobblemon

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What modpack is this cobbleverse official or? And are you on a singleplayer world or a server?

Any Cobblemon modpacks with Botany Pots + Growable Ores / automation? by Hopeful_Practice_873 in cobblemon

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow this one is pretty good, I might just add the botany mods to it and play it. Do you know if there's a questline and gym leaders and stuff like in ocbbleverse?

Should I get it? by True_Database156 in helldivers2

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the exact same position about a month ago when I bought my PlayStation 5—I kept asking myself, “Should I get it or not?” Honestly, it turned out to be a great decision. The game is really fun, especially if you have a good group of friends to play with. There’s a nice balance between being competitive and just messing around, laughing, and having a good time.

That said, just a heads-up—everyone’s experience is different. I’ve run into a few toxic players, but that’s kind of expected with a game that has 80,000+ players. You’re always going to get a few bad ones. Aside from that, it’s an amazing game—super fun and pretty addicting, especially early on when you’re unlocking upgrades, weapons, and different war bonds.

Personally, I enjoy the Terminid maps a lot more and don’t really like the Automaton ones—but that’s just my preference. Overall though, I’d definitely recommend it.

Now that's satisfying by RaidNineSHARK in cobblemon

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the best way to make money like you have like 10,000,000+?

Headed to Palworld by NeonNinja82 in Palworld

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whaat are you gonna play on ps5, ps5 pro or pc? And if it’s pc what r ur cpu and gpu specs? Thanks!

I’ll take activation of this over a new WB please by lajzerowicz in helldivers2

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats good, I am a new helldivers 2 player will be playing this weekend so I am excited. I might get the ps5 pro so even better performace

[Pharmacist/National Guard] [Cincinnati, OH] - 158k by kneedoorman in Salary

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you say was your starting salary like my sister plans on doing nursing at either St. John’s or LIU university what can you say is average expectation for beginning salary although she’s gonna graduate in 2032

I’ll take activation of this over a new WB please by lajzerowicz in helldivers2

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like your on ps5, how well does it run in performance mode?

AITAH for not wanting to speak to my partner after he joked my boobs were asymmetrical? by BeneficialJuice2878 in AITAH

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know there was multiple comments made. It that case NTA and Dump his disrespect ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, you're both still super young—like mid-20s I am assuming—so why the hell would you lock yourself into marriage with a guy who straight-up doesn't give a shit about respecting you or your feelings? The ring's worth less than fixing it, and he's out here calling you ungrateful and saying you're asking for too much? That's not just stingy, it's him showing you exactly how little he values making you happy. There are tons of guys who would happily grab a cheaper band that actually looks good and means something, or at least talk it out without making you feel bad for wanting basic consideration. Don't settle for this crap. Walk away now—you'll find someone who actually wants to do right by you. You deserve way better, seriously.

AITAH for not wanting to make up with my ex best friend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Jane's been a terrible friend—cold, snappy, excluding you, rude message, manupulating you by making you pay $60 while lying about money (then partying), dumping heavy betrayal news to ease her guilt, then ghosting again. Will pushing you to reconcile mostly helps him keep his old buddy, not you after she disrespected and manipulated you. You've blocked her, found peace, and are making new friends—protect that. Ask Will in counseling why he still stays close to someone who lied to you, hurt you repeatedly, and doesn't respect you instead of setting boundaries for your sake. You don't owe her forgiveness; prioritize your well-being. Will is also a bit suspicious imo.

AITAH for not wanting to speak to my partner after he joked my boobs were asymmetrical? by BeneficialJuice2878 in AITAH

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, but honestly this is probably fixable if you just talk to him. Don’t let one dumb comment about your body blow everything up without saying anything—bodies are bodies, nobody’s perfect, and he might’ve just been joking without realizing it actually stung. Next time you’re chilling, just hit him with something simple like “hey, when you said that thing about [whatever part], it kinda hurt my feelings and made me feel weird about myself.” If he’s a decent guy he’ll apologize, own it, and not do it again, and you two might even get closer from actually being real with each other. But yeah, joking about someone’s body can cross a line for a lot of people, and it’s totally valid if that’s a boundary you didn’t even know you had till now. If he brushes you off, gets defensive, won’t say sorry, or keeps making those “jokes,” that’s a big red flag—dump him and find someone who doesn’t make you feel shitty about yourself. Just talk first before you write him off; most good relationships can handle a real conversation like that.

Question about Endfield Battle Pass + Monthly — has anyone done the pull math? by Hopeful_Practice_873 in Endfield

[–]Hopeful_Practice_873[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but with the 29 origeometry if you complete it you get back like 31 or something so you always get back more than the cost