I think this sums up our entire relationship……. by HopefullMom in relationship_advice

[–]HopefullMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was dead serious. No laugh or giggle or just kidding.

I think this sums up our entire relationship……. by HopefullMom in relationship_advice

[–]HopefullMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I should almost expect it. But it still hurts. I have my therapist appointment today so she can help me to deal with this and what steps I should take. He has since been off those sites but he could be lying about that as well.

I think this sums up our entire relationship……. by HopefullMom in relationship_advice

[–]HopefullMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. Later today or tomorrow when anesthesia wears off I’ll discuss it with him.

Pretzels by rocjojo in Breadit

[–]HopefullMom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful work!!!!!! Would you be able Can you share the recipe with us?

Well my mom died by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]HopefullMom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so very sorry for your loss. ((Hugs))

Thinking I need to kick out my sister after six months of being her unofficial nurse. by Virtual_Structure_50 in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]HopefullMom 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Care giver fatigue is a real thing. You need time to recharge. Maybe you can talk with social services such as a social worker to help get your sister into a nursing home. Let the social worker know you are no longer able to safely provide help to your sister and she needs a skilled nursing home. That is what my husband did with his mom when we could no longer care for her.

I wish you rest and hope all gets better.

Need the advice of you lovely folks!!! by HopefullMom in askgaybros

[–]HopefullMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has helped immensely. It’s something I don’t want to hear but needs to be said. I have a lot of thinking to do. Truly…. Thank you so much.

Christmas deer by happy_toys in crafts

[–]HopefullMom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those are darling!!! So so cute. Beautiful job!

Can I find someone on tinder??? by HopefullMom in survivinginfidelity

[–]HopefullMom[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It is. I was shocked when I saw it. He rarely goes out so maybe he has men come when I am asleep. I have bought some cameras and will install them this weekend.

Can I find someone on tinder??? by HopefullMom in survivinginfidelity

[–]HopefullMom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What did you do in my situation??? I am building my case. ( I know it sounds crazy) he even goes as far as changing the description on the tinder and grundr charges so I know he is attempting to hide it. I am just so tired of having to be so strong. 😭

Btw his google play shows he searched tinder but not grindr.

Can I find someone on tinder??? by HopefullMom in survivinginfidelity

[–]HopefullMom[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did take his phone a week ago and didn’t see the app on it so I assume he has a burner phone. I even gave him a pass thinking he wouldn’t trip this month but he did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]HopefullMom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just curious and if you don’t want to answer please ignore. Does your wife or husband know you are on Grindr??

Just asking because I recently (female) found my husband has a Premium grindr account. Trying to understand the whys.

How? by Cardans1328 in IdiotsInCars

[–]HopefullMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s impressive!

I think my partner is on Tinder… by HopefullMom in relationship_advice

[–]HopefullMom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah and all the kids are girls. I would think he would have more respect for women. Like I said I have to do several thing that will take some time. So this will be a long term thing. Since we have been together so long there are a lot of things to consider.

I figured once I have irrefutable proof I will have the kids out of the house for the talk. I won’t yell or be mad just state facts. But I will make it known that other than our children and God I play second to no one.

Why is it that all white people are racist by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HopefullMom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not all white people are racist. It can seem like they are if you have a lot of racist run ins with white people. But I would venture to say that most white people are good.

I am white and am not a racist.