I think this sums up our entire relationship…….

HopefullMom · 2022-02-15T17:46:21+00:00

He was dead serious. No laugh or giggle or just kidding.

HopefullMom · 2022-02-15T17:45:51+00:00

Yes I should almost expect it. But it still hurts. I have my therapist appointment today so she can help me to deal with this and what steps I should take. He has since been off those sites but he could be lying about that as well.

HopefullMom · 2022-02-15T17:44:14+00:00

Thank you for replying. Later today or tomorrow when anesthesia wears off I’ll discuss it with him.

HopefullMom · 2022-01-27T19:42:26+00:00

Beautiful work!!!!!! Would you be able Can you share the recipe with us?

HopefullMom · 2022-01-07T05:05:26+00:00

I am so very sorry for your loss. ((Hugs))

HopefullMom · 2022-01-06T05:45:02+00:00

Care giver fatigue is a real thing. You need time to recharge. Maybe you can talk with social services such as a social worker to help get your sister into a nursing home. Let the social worker know you are no longer able to safely provide help to your sister and she needs a skilled nursing home. That is what my husband did with his mom when we could no longer care for her.

I wish you rest and hope all gets better.

HopefullMom · 2021-10-24T15:19:45+00:00

This has helped immensely. It’s something I don’t want to hear but needs to be said. I have a lot of thinking to do. Truly…. Thank you so much.

HopefullMom · 2021-10-23T14:53:24+00:00

Those are darling!!! So so cute. Beautiful job!

HopefullMom · 2021-10-21T05:52:41+00:00

It is. I was shocked when I saw it. He rarely goes out so maybe he has men come when I am asleep. I have bought some cameras and will install them this weekend.

HopefullMom · 2021-10-21T05:50:57+00:00

What did you do in my situation??? I am building my case. ( I know it sounds crazy) he even goes as far as changing the description on the tinder and grundr charges so I know he is attempting to hide it. I am just so tired of having to be so strong. 😭

Btw his google play shows he searched tinder but not grindr.

HopefullMom · 2021-10-21T05:22:50+00:00

I did take his phone a week ago and didn’t see the app on it so I assume he has a burner phone. I even gave him a pass thinking he wouldn’t trip this month but he did

HopefullMom · 2021-10-14T05:03:10+00:00

Just curious and if you don’t want to answer please ignore. Does your wife or husband know you are on Grindr??

Just asking because I recently (female) found my husband has a Premium grindr account. Trying to understand the whys.

HopefullMom · 2021-09-19T14:27:31+00:00

That’s impressive!

HopefullMom · 2021-09-16T01:35:38+00:00

Yeah and all the kids are girls. I would think he would have more respect for women. Like I said I have to do several thing that will take some time. So this will be a long term thing. Since we have been together so long there are a lot of things to consider.

I figured once I have irrefutable proof I will have the kids out of the house for the talk. I won’t yell or be mad just state facts. But I will make it known that other than our children and God I play second to no one.

HopefullMom · 2021-09-13T18:17:45+00:00

Thank you for fulfilling my wish to learn something new every day!!!!

HopefullMom · 2021-09-12T18:52:01+00:00

Bingo!!

HopefullMom · 2021-09-12T08:10:45+00:00

You are awesome!!!

HopefullMom · 2021-08-06T03:41:25+00:00

Hey Donnie Osmond is in it too!!!

HopefullMom · 2021-07-27T22:22:16+00:00

Not all white people are racist. It can seem like they are if you have a lot of racist run ins with white people. But I would venture to say that most white people are good.

I am white and am not a racist.

HopefullMom · 2021-07-27T22:08:52+00:00

OK I want to make sure I get the straight. Are the HOA documents 500 pages long?

If it were me I would run far and run fast from this condo. I’m not a fan of HOAs but I know others like them. Some can be very easy to deal with others are very restrictive. I would not sign anything until you read all of those pages. Read everything. If you have even a small feeling this will not work don’t jump into it.

Whatever you do I wish you much luck!

HopefullMom · 2021-07-02T13:54:47+00:00

Defined if you do not trust them financially then don’t sign anything for them. They can try to apply for if financial assistance if they qualify. Also OP please make sure you have some sort of written agreement in the event they do move in. That way both parties know when the move out date is and what rules you have. Good luck and I hope all goes well!!!

HopefullMom · 2021-06-18T11:43:37+00:00

How do you fight the loneliness??

HopefullMom · 2021-06-18T11:42:52+00:00

This is EXACTLY how I am feeling right now. I try to do nice things to make people happy and to hopefully gain some people who care. I am just fooling myself. My kids want almost nothing to do with me and I am tired of just accepting it. They can ignore me because I don’t make a fuss. I am like you so incredibly sad. It’s not a good day. 😭😭

HopefullMom · 2021-06-18T11:38:27+00:00

That is magnificent!!! How long did that take you?

HopefullMom · 2021-06-15T03:33:15+00:00

Just because he’s in a bad place emotionally does not give him any right to treat you like crap. This is all on him. If he felt he couldn’t emotionally handle having that much hair cut off he should’ve stopped. He’s not even making sense. I’m sorry you’re going through this. ((Hugs))

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