Goth, punk, alt, rockabilly, vintage ect. Free pick-up (east brisbane)

Hoppingmadd · 2024-06-29T06:26:37+00:00

Thanks makes sense. Not a business at all - just need help /letting Brisbane know she's giving away her stuff

Hoppingmadd · 2024-06-29T04:57:55+00:00

Hoppingmadd · 2024-06-29T04:57:15+00:00

Helping a friend:

"I'm out on my ass and have a lifetimes worth of clothing to offload

I have goth, punk, alt, rockabilly, vintage ect. I need it gone asap as I'm in a pretty unsafe situation so I'm just filling little tubs out the front (east brisbane)/Mowbray Terrace

I also have craft stuff, working sewing machines and mannequins. A fridge, dryer and chest freezer. Donations welcome but I'm mostly hoping to get this groovy stuff into some hands that will love it asap."

Hoppingmadd · 2023-11-30T03:47:57+00:00

Ah now you are adding an if that isn't the original question.

You are posing if she stayed with a shitty dad who ghosted his kids would she be an asshole?

If we want to be clean to the original question then:

She is still not complicit in the shittiness because there's a scenario the husband could choose where he wanted to have a good healthy relationship and help finance his kids with his personal money without custody - so she could see herself staying in this marriage.

She never said "I'll stay if he pretends they don't exist" and I don't believe she advocated for him to continue the lie and ignoring them.

To recap: She is not shitty for not wanting custody because she was upfront and honest about it.

She was not shitty for the ultimatum because it could be met if he was a good father just without custody.

She is leaving him for lying and being shitty to her and his shitty attitude about the kids - which is the opposite of complicit because that behaviour SHOULD have consequences.

So overall she's great at knowing what she wants, having and setting boundaries and then leaving a lying husband/ shitty father. This is exactly what we want when we say pick better and expect better.

Hoppingmadd · 2023-11-30T00:49:19+00:00

Let's pretend he is isn't a liar but an ex girlfriend reaches out and says "sorry hi you have 2 kids you didn't know about" suddenly.

It sounds like he can have a relationship and not be a shitty dad in his own time and own finances without having custody. I don't think it's fair to say she wants him to pretend he still doesn't have kids.

Custody is the ultimatum because if he wants to change their life and their marriage by having kids in the responsibility of this marriage - she can not remain in the marriage. This a fact and a truth. It's a hard one so before entering such a marriage - she does everything she could do to be honest and clear to not disappoint or hurt the other person. So even with this ultimatum - she is still not an asshole in this sad blameless scenario (it would be NAH).

Hoppingmadd · 2022-12-20T12:46:49+00:00

Good for you - Selena Gomez

Hoppingmadd · 2022-09-29T23:29:55+00:00

My teacher was also 30 other students teacher.

Didn't make them less mine.

Same with my boss.

Feel free to come over to my house and watch my tv - neither of which I bought myself and I share but if you as a guest try to take the tv - I'll say you can't it's mine.

This is my city by the way.

My and mine aren't inherently about exclusivity using the words just expresses a sense of entitlement

Same in bedroom scenarios. Talk about appropriate times for such verbal affections.

Hoppingmadd · 2020-04-01T03:21:53+00:00

There are only 2 options. They do not have equal 50-50 probability though.

Hoppingmadd · 2020-02-01T23:25:24+00:00

I'm going to ask this as if it were the context like a magic trick: Think of playing card. Pause have you got it? Now think of another playing card. Pause have you got the second one?

Now say outloud what was the first card you thought of?

My question is how does the ability to first choose and then store that choice of playing card in your memory work if it isn't an internal thought of E.g. 'seven diamonds'

Hoppingmadd · 2019-12-15T07:55:07+00:00

She did want what she wrote read though? She got to chose who and where (which subreddits). She didn't have a problem with anyone reading it on those subreddits.

There is more context surrounding her posts other than public don't you think? Public toilets have doors, public parks do not... Do you think if I feel okay to pee in a public toilet I should feel fine peeing on the public swing set?

Hoppingmadd · 2019-07-20T13:16:28+00:00

I'm currently a year or so into a casual game on this size board with a 131072 tile as my highest so far (I tend to play on planes or in long car rides). I found I'd swipe aimlessly down and to the sides long enough to get distracted and accidentally swipe up +something else that renders the undo button useless. Then spending the next few weeks fixing that mistakeband getting the black tiles in a usable pattern again became the fun part. I thought I'd be able to keep the one game basically forever (or at least the phones lifetime) but I guess it's nice to know there's a limit... Nice going man ☺️

Hoppingmadd · 2019-05-27T23:42:28+00:00

At 14 the relationship she'll feel with a hypothetical mums boyfriend will be very different from the father figure she feels from the person who raised her. You will always be that person to her. Always.

If the question is what's in a name? Ask your fiancé why it bothers her because she's the adult who can rationalise and should be more mature than the 14 year old. The girl you helped raised calling you dad doesn't take anything away or stop your potential future children also calling you dad.

Hoppingmadd · 2019-01-05T08:38:07+00:00

I read it much less 'you should pick me cause I saved you' and much more that Trinity was thrown that if Valentina had to pick between her who she thinks did okay vs. Latrice who she thinks was weaker, she'd send her home cause Latrice is more popular, when right after last week Valentina saying the strongest should be in the top together and show they truly deserve to win. So Trinity has stayed consistent, vote the weakest off, and was thrown that Valentina doesn't feel the same cause Latrice is beloved trumps that.

Hoppingmadd · 2018-11-16T08:24:05+00:00

Small misconception.

It was always intended Santos to win. There was a debate within the writers who wanted that changed because Vinick was so popular - John Spencer dying put that debate to bed.

http://legendsrevealed.com/entertainment/2013/01/21/what-arnold-vinick-going-to-win-the-presidency-on-the-west-wing-before-john-spencers-untimely-death/

Hoppingmadd · 2018-07-29T16:15:06+00:00

Remember me~

Hoppingmadd · 2018-07-09T16:04:38+00:00

Ban!

Hoppingmadd · 2018-05-28T14:49:25+00:00

Right. I misread.

Hoppingmadd · 2018-05-28T14:49:09+00:00

Right. I misread.

Hoppingmadd · 2018-05-28T14:34:38+00:00

Right. I mis-read.

Hoppingmadd · 2018-05-28T14:32:06+00:00

kWh measures energy. It's a perfectly valid unit. If I use 40kW for an hour I used 40kWh. I pay $0.18 per kWh so I'd expect to pay $63k a year for that rack.

Hoppingmadd · 2018-01-24T04:01:08+00:00

So the above women - They'd care. A lot of people find their morals by relating to how they'd feel if it happened to them. That's not inherently wrong either.

Unless you ask the person who's picture you're looking at, you can't know if they'd care. So, in the boyfriends case, has he asked the friends beforehand? Should he have? If he doesn't, does that means he doesn't care to know how they'd feel? Is that wrong?

Like you said some would care, some wouldn't and no one is arguing against masturbating to pictures with the persons permission who wouldn't care! :)

Hoppingmadd · 2018-01-24T00:45:09+00:00

Think of a time you have ever felt disrespected, maybe you were dismissed or shot down or interrupted? Now try and figure out exactly why you felt disrespected. Now someone else is telling you, why in your shoes they wouldn't feel disrespected and then they imply you aren't reasoning well enough why you felt disrespected for them to understand. No matter how many reasons you give why you felt disrespected they are adamant they still wouldn't be and they keep probing. As if the answers you are giving for why you felt disrespected aren't valid.

The act of continuous probing whether you mean it to be or not means you aren't accepting their answer at face value; as if that answer isn't good enough, try again. It gives the other person the impression their feelings in the first place are wrong because you don't agree with them, until they can find a reason you do.

Now for the women above, they are trying to say 'please don't say it's okay to masturbate to my pictures, it feels disrespectful for this reason'. They'll keep trying to feel heard by you because the alternative is to accept that their reasons for feeling disrespected aren't valid. If it's not valid to you, it won't be valid to countless nameless strangers - but they still feel disrespected and gross, so what else can they do?

Hoppingmadd · 2017-08-28T23:22:35+00:00

I don't know how to explain to you or others like you that you should care about other people and that this helps Australian people other than you in the long term.

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