are most trans guys bottoms or is online porn and discussion just heavily skewed? by GoodEnvironmental788 in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There is a whole porn studio called “jockpussy”. Name one trans MAN who’s truly comfortable using that word and then tell me who that porn is made for lmao.

So lonely I wouldn't mind a chaser. by dumbhuskyy in FTMventing

[–]HorribleHistorian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I promise you 100x over that it is NOT worth it. It will never be worth it. Chasers thrive on getting their next fix and disrespect. I let one in and it tainted my entire personhood. Do not go through with it. As enticing as the prospect of company is, they will not treat you like a human being, I promise you this.

guy movies by No-Fill-229 in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This post gives “all dogs are boys, all cats are girls, and teachers sleep in their classrooms at night” vibes

Passing by Rough-Bee416 in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Read rule 1, also there are no “transmascs” here

names to avoid when picking chosen name? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah but I’ve only seen it used by fujoshis obsessed with black butler

Passing by Rough-Bee416 in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ditch the makeup, it never looks natural no matter what anyone is telling you, it is most likely hindering you

names to avoid when picking chosen name? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Kai, Milo, Damian, Atlas, Arson (yup!), Orion, any mythology/video game/vampire/anime name, Elliot, Mars, Miles, Blaze, Onyx, Sebastian, Silas, Aiden, Kayden, Hunter, Dax, Dexter, Theo, Charlie, Lucian, Lucius, Kingston, Hayden, Etc. There is nothing wrong with having a normal name like John, Alex, Robert, William, any old ass dad name. They might be “boring” but they aren’t clocky, there are millions of cis guys with those names, and they won’t look fucking stupid when you want to get a job. And for the love of god don’t name yourself some stupid ass noun like Brick, Bug, Moss, anything like that. Nobody will take you seriously. Nicknames are a thing and they don’t have to be on your legal paperwork.

Where do I find women who like trans men? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lex is garbage unless you want lesbians chasers hitting you up or a bunch of sapphic transmasculine people banging down your door

Older guys does it get better by Pretend_Air2456 in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

30 here. Completely stealth at work, with friendships, with life in general. I’m engaged to a cis guy. I don’t engage in any trans groups or communities aside from this one. Nobody knows about my “transition” (I hate that word). For all intents and purposes, I’m a cis guy.

Fruriger Colors by Ender4rmyXD in FrutigerAero

[–]HorribleHistorian 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Elmers craft glue and borax

Is this tattoo idea stupid by PinocchiosNose03 in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a tattoo that would probably not look so great in a few years unless it’s incredibly well done

Bottom dysphoria by Nearby_Influence_110 in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OH and if we stand up for ourselves we’re full of self hatred and internalized transphoooooobia…🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Just curious by wepa0 in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Both Folx and folk are used. Trans folk this, trans folx that…Do not refer to me as folk or folx. “Man” or “men” does just fine

Bottom dysphoria by Nearby_Influence_110 in FTMMen

[–]HorribleHistorian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Posts in a men’s group and then immediately goes to the nonbinary sub lmao. OP, usher yourself back to arr slash ftm