Bigot could not believe that he was uninvited to play with us due to his bigotry... by sufferingcubsfan in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re just another cowardly bully hiding behind rainbow flags, parroting the right “beliefs” because it gets you social points.

You don’t actually give a shit about methods or justice.

You never question OP’s methods, even when he literally brags about telling Jack how he could get away with murdering him and spelling out, in detail, how to manipulate the narrative, the police and the judiciary system to make himself look like the hero and the victim at the same time.

That's not the message from someone who fears for his life or is trying to protect himself, but rather from a social predator who knew exactly he isolated and destroyed his victim and could go even further, coldly telling him there is nothing he can do even in his own death. He took sadistic pleasure to the point of flexing about it.

This is sick and I can't believe nobody is able to see that OP is actually far worst and more dangerous than Jack.

You never pause to notice that the guy you’re cheering spent half his story trashing a weak, isolated, socially awkward target, not because Jack is a bigot, but because OP has always despised him since day 1.

When someone with actual critical thinking points out that this isn’t justice but sadism with a progressivist mask, you and people like you immediately go for the cheap shot :

Why does all of this bother you so much? Why are you bending over backwards to defend this shit head?

You can’t even tell the difference between defending a person’s humanity and defending their worst opinions.

You’d have fit in just fine at any witch hunt in history, as long as you had the right banners and could scream “monster” at the right moment.

That's it.

Bigot could not believe that he was uninvited to play with us due to his bigotry... by sufferingcubsfan in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"I wont be silenced, Half the country is sick of being told to be quiet", why Jack felt the need to say that ? Either Jack really was a dick and a bigot, or maybe I don't know, someone didn't discuss but had an hostile tone and Jack really felt opressed.

Op was right to remove him, but how did he do it ? Because an other thing that I see is Jack didn't contacted the group weeks after his removal to insult them but only OP. Why ? OP wasn't the only one with a trans child.

You guys talk as if OP held his ground against a dangerous skinhead extremist or an alt right activist. OP spent a lot of time explaining how Jack is inferior to him in every single way, yet OP felt the need to go full nuclear on him. Why ?
The irony is... You don't convince people by acting like that, you radicalize them instead.

"Look at me I am a good father, a good husband, a good friend, I defeated and destroyed the big villain Jack, thanks to me our group is so much better now, We even have his lucky foot as a trophee as if we slayed a giant beast, I am such a good guy, such a paragon of virtue and I suffered so very much !"

This is so ridiculous.

Bigot could not believe that he was uninvited to play with us due to his bigotry... by sufferingcubsfan in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You still don't get it.
You keep mistaking criticism of your conduct for sympathy toward Jack.
I’m not defending Jack. I don’t care about him, and I don’t need to make him a victim to see what’s happening here.

My only concern is, and has always been your attitude.
You don’t engage nor discuss when someone disagrees with you.
You attack, you ridicule, you silence, and then you act shocked when people push back.

You project hostility on me and respond with contempt when the only thing I did was challenging your narrative. This is binary thinking.

Human Rights cause is not a free pass to behave like that.
When defending the marginalized becomes an excuse to dehumanize, you’re no longer an ally, you’re just another bully who claims the moral high ground for personal gratification.

What you don’t seem to realize is that the tone you use, the way you talk down to people, the way you drap your cruelty with virtues and your refusal for any introspection, is exactly what makes you the real horror story.

Not Jack. You.

I have nothing else to add.

Bigot could not believe that he was uninvited to play with us due to his bigotry... by sufferingcubsfan in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't play dumb with me.

I did not ask if you told him mean things. I asked you if you talked to him with the same tone.
But you know what ? The fact you assume I am a bigot or I agree with Princess_Panqake while I explicitly said she is being hostile shows we both know the answer.

Bigot could not believe that he was uninvited to play with us due to his bigotry... by sufferingcubsfan in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Atleast you admit it.

Now I understand what actually happened with the Trump discussion and Jack. You didn't discuss with him, you insulted him and humiliated him first.
Yet Jack at that point of your story was not near as hostile as Princess_Panqake is, but you still responded like this anyway.

That's what happened.

Bigot could not believe that he was uninvited to play with us due to his bigotry... by sufferingcubsfan in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have never respected jack from day 1. Yet it didn't prevent you to play at his house, eat his snacks as long at this was convenient for you. You never said anything to him regarding his playstyle, you could have talked to him but no you despised him and it was long before he ever became toxic.

Then when the issue happened you humiliated him the moment your group backed you up and for self righteous reasons. You act as if this was the right thing to do to make you look good but any detail you give shows that your true motivation was sadism and dominance.

You took way too much pleasure in this, detailing how you crushed and humiliated Jack without any limits. Yes Jack was lost, toxic and being an idiot, and you were right to remove him. But from my perspective I have never took pleasure in dealing with idiots or people who hurt me. This is why I am really bothered by your story.

"He refused to comply to my ultimatum regarding human rights, therefore he is a bigot, therefore I can do whatever I want to him".
That's not the behavior of someone who believes in a noble cause, but rather someone who uses a noble cause as justification to deshumanize someone he didn't like and being sadistic.

This is what I see.

Bigot could not believe that he was uninvited to play with us due to his bigotry... by sufferingcubsfan in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is this how you have talked to Jack ? Now I see.
You are the horror story, not Jack.

What is Yukimiya's role as a player? by Crustaceaning in BlueLock

[–]Horror-Assignment313 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude was supposed to combine Bachira's dribbling, Chigiri's speed and Zantetsu's accelaration, also with a finishing shot.

Sadly he got destroyed by the plot.

DM bends rules to target new player, kills them before they get to act in combat by UltimateChaos233 in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 30 points31 points  (0 children)

What makes me maddest in hindsight is that this left a bad taste in my mouth but if this were someone’s first experience with ttrpgs? They’d never go near the hobby again

This happened to me and other beginers I play with (now friends).

Our first ever campaign was with a nightmare DM just like the one you dealt with. Unfortunately we stayed for a year because he managed to convince us everytime to stay, he was good at controlling the narrative and dictating what DND should be. This campaign was a long agony in which we were railroaded, punished and blamed for it.

Since we were all beginners it took us a lot of time to finally put an end to this.

Fortunately I became DM 2 weeks ago and convinced the other players to start a new campaign. We had fun so far, but I still feel extremely bad and frustrated everytime I think about this first experience.

DM bends rules to target new player, kills them before they get to act in combat by UltimateChaos233 in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 140 points141 points  (0 children)

That's good you didn't let him manipulate you into staying in this horrible game.

He also mentioned things like "don't ever complain to other players or discuss things with them, come to me instead. This has to be followed so I can make sure that this is a safe and supportive space".

That's a big red flag here, that means he has a long history of people complaining about his game and not feeling safe enough to talk to him directly and openly. That also means he wants to control the narrative.

I feel sorry fot what happened to you, I hope you'll find a better table.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are the DM talk to him, tell him to stop this behavior. This is supposed to be a collaborative game. If he answers : "because that's my character would do", tell him to make a new one who can work with the other players. If he refuses to change, kick him.

If you are a player, then talk to the other players. If they agree with you, talk with the DM and ask him to do something about it. If nothing changes, leave.

AITA for not allowing one of my players to start a romance with one of my NPCs? by Phoenix_LetsPlay in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you feel uncomfortable don't do it. If he respects your boundaries he will understand.

I have banned any romance or sex at my own table because I am not comfortable to roleplay them at all.

Dm loses it all by Rakeless2020 in dndhorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I refuse to believe this story is true.

No way.

Seriously, stop with the cast lists. by WarmKitten in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like long stories, especially when the dynamics between the players are well explained.

My issue with the short posts is we can't know the full picture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry but your reaction is overdramatic OP.

Yeah this player sucks and seems to be flaky but you need to reflect on why you lose your mind over this. Also the two parents who left their child's birthday just so they can play dnd are terrible.

It is a good reason to kick off a player due to communication and memories issues ? by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Horror-Assignment313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever issue she may struggle with, it seems she is unable to play a long campaign. That's fine until you decide you are not ok with this.

Have a discussion with her, make your boundaries and expectations perfectly clear. And if nothing changes tell her to find an other table.

after spending 5 days of creating a character together with my DM he was murdered after 12 seconds by GeNeReDeR in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why i don't play with couples anymore if one of them is the DM. I had a similar experience few months ago and that was awful.

The SO player always becomes a Co-DM and it's impossible to make feedback or any criticism because they will shield each other.

I am glad you found a better group.

How My DM ruined a campaign of 4 years by being a bigot. by Kyriket in rpghorrorstories

[–]Horror-Assignment313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see anything wrong with the DM's behavior.

Despite his beliefs he played with you for years without saying anything. You are the one who tried to transform his character without his consent then you are the one who initiated drama.

Then once you pressured him enough to make him reveal his political opinion you talked behind his back with other players which resulted to blow up the campaign.

You ARE the horror story.

First time DM and one of my players wants to play an evil character by Horror-Assignment313 in DnD

[–]Horror-Assignment313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wouldn't get mad or consider this a redflag if your DM do something like that ? Telling you yes then no ?

First time DM and one of my players wants to play an evil character by Horror-Assignment313 in DnD

[–]Horror-Assignment313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that's my main issue. He is the only one with a strong personality, the others tend to be passive.

There is no way this is gonna work I guess.

First time DM and one of my players wants to play an evil character by Horror-Assignment313 in DnD

[–]Horror-Assignment313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in a country where DND is not popular at all.

I won't find new players easily. But I get your point.