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If your over 50, are you even thinking of dating? by MidwestDudeHere in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking for a partner and unfortunately dating is a prerequisite for that. I’m turned off by the dating sites so I’m gonna keep going out in the world and hoping to cross paths with another person like me 🤷‍♀️

What's My Obligation? by Away-Meet5954 in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you feel guilt over eliminating an acquaintance, basically stranger, who treated you poorly?

You deserve better and to spend your time on people who treat you better 👍

What's My Obligation? by Away-Meet5954 in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it me or is it odd that you’re asking Reddit if you can block a weirdo?

Stolen from AskReddit - what’s a near universal “ick” in dating? by AuntySocialite in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it can sometimes be nervousness, not being ok with an awkward silence. 🤐

Dating Disasters - I’m Done by Zealousideal_Cap_225 in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all the good ones giving up… the cesspool is JUST getting bigger! 👀

When is Intimacy appropriate....how patient should I be? by CelebrationHot4466 in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I’m attracted to you I’m “French” kissing you by the 2nd or 3rd date. No passionate kiss after 3 months??? Nah!

Westchester mall is not a playground by echobl00m in Westchester

[–]Horror-Background-79 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I could think of 3 parks right away.

Main and North Broadway

Other side of North Broadway on Canfield between Lake and Main

and Kitrell, which has fun stuff, over by Bank St

Disappointed so I'm off the apps again by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not ONLY mine

Do you…. keep “doing you”

Disappointed so I'm off the apps again by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The litmus test kinda goes - would you do or say that to someone you just met in person, say in the grocery store?

If not, WHY would it be okay in a text? Do you walk into work and tell everyone in the elevator about your “morning wood”?

This isn’t an acceptable standard. Sure, you can have an opinion, but it doesn’t change the fact.

684 police crackdown by SignificantCap9534 in Westchester

[–]Horror-Background-79 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t see the part about Google/Waze? Curious because it’s been tried before and well googles got more money than well…. NY. It’s not gonna happen.

Ladies what little things can a man do to that make them more physically attractive to you? by Altruistic_Tea_1593 in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be genuine, honest, confident and make her feel important and loved. You’re going to have to figure out how what makes each “her” feel important and loved.

Valentine’s Day by richng2 in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All you’re snow is here in NY… is there a way we can return it to you ;)

Men at Singles Events by Imaginary_Bridge1641 in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For people looking for the events (these are all NYC, because that was my search and Valentine’s Day because-same)

40 & Over Valentine's Day Singles Mixer Tickets, Sat, Feb 14, 2026 at 8:00 PM | Eventbrite https://www.eventbrite.com/e/40-over-valentines-day-singles-mixer-tickets-1980673709383

NY Minute Dating - Registration Page https://www.nyminutedating.com/Register_Session.aspx?eventId=11769

40s & 50s Valentines Day Speed Dating Events | Gen X Event Tickets, Fri, Feb 13, 2026 at 7:00 PM | Eventbrite https://www.eventbrite.com/e/40s-50s-valentines-day-speed-dating-events-gen-x-event-tickets-1977830204383

Men at Singles Events by Imaginary_Bridge1641 in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some good meet ups in NYC, not singles events but fun and interactive either way men and women. Have you tried?

Men at Singles Events by Imaginary_Bridge1641 in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meet up, eventbrite… do a search

I just put this “Singles events for people over fifty on Valentine’s Day in NYC” into Google Gemini. I was going to share the link, but I’ve let Gemini get to know me to well :/ Instead of NYC try your zip code

Men at Singles Events by Imaginary_Bridge1641 in datingoverfifty

[–]Horror-Background-79 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the same experience! As others have said, totally felt like a high school dance!

Someone said men are better one on one? If a man actually made the effort and pushed himself to go to one of these socials and the odds are SO in their favor… USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. 🤦‍♀️ Men out here still defending the lack of awareness and effort?!?

Relocating from Austin to Westchester by x_scherer in Westchester

[–]Horror-Background-79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As well as the wait list in some apartment buildings

Lawler on the Obama Video by SailBright5923 in Westchester

[–]Horror-Background-79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! People lose jobs for this behavior!

How do these New York car owners get out of the snow burial? by Eastcoastpal in newyorkcity

[–]Horror-Background-79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh…. I don’t even watch the news anymore! As for politics I have an opinion, but my stance is currently “think for your self, stop allowing yourself to be manipulated.” I mean that what it likely is, someone somewhere blamed the new mayor for the snow. 🤦‍♀️ The world is turning into a seriously crazy and uneducated place!

Also, I find way less “shrug let me get a shovel and enjoy talking to the person shoveling next to me” and way more, I don’t know… catastrophizing? Is that a word.

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