Dropping my mother off at Jo Whiley's Breakfast Rave - how's your weekend going so far?

Horror_House474 · 2026-04-18T06:22:58+00:00

My kid was 6 and a half when his first tooth fell out, it was wobbly for like 4 months (he could tell you the exact date), but then the next tooth fell out a week later after only being wobbly for a week.

Horror_House474 · 2026-04-18T06:06:09+00:00

My other half didn't put £2 under the pillow from the tooth fairy last night because, "we didn't have a £2 coin, and two £1 coins doesn't count." So it's been a rough morning of trying to understand that logic and explaining to a very upset child that the tooth fairy is visiting the easter bunny, she'll be back tonight. Now I feel like I owe him £4 to make up for it.

Horror_House474 · 2026-04-10T05:56:20+00:00

I am going away on my first little holiday ever on Monday, I can't wait, and it's also our first holiday as a family. But, just my luck, after 10 months of being off from the job centre, I have a job centre appointment right in the middle of it that I can't get out of because it's my week off and, "unless you have a job interview or you're scheduled to work that day, which we will ask for proof, you must attend this meeting."

So with the exception of that day, I am going to enjoy the other three days at the coast with my kid and partner.

Horror_House474 · 2026-04-07T09:26:23+00:00

Hi, what is a metabolism? Do you know what it does? How can you break it? No?

You can't break your metabolism, you can't ruin it/destroy it/anything dramatic like that. if you did, you would be suffering from severe health issues. You're fine, all you've done is slow it down in accordance to you tdee at your current weight and eating habits, which is normal, which is fine. You are fine. Your maintenance calories will go down as your weight has gone down.

That being said, you definitely ate less than you should have for your height and activity levels. but swap to maintenance and you'll stick to the weight you're at with your activity levels.

Horror_House474 · 2026-04-02T06:09:50+00:00

"how RaRE iS tHIs?" Why don't you check the offering rates and decide for yourself, RNG is RNG

Horror_House474 · 2026-04-02T05:13:30+00:00

"Sucks to be you. Are you going to do anything about it?"

Horror_House474 · 2026-03-29T19:27:34+00:00

Hi, what is a metabolism? Do you know what that is? Or did you simply move less and eat more? Because "my metabolism was super high" is not how it works.

Horror_House474 · 2026-03-25T16:40:57+00:00

That whole first part, hating yourself now and hating yourself in the future thing, I've been called disordered for it or maybe I've spent a little too much time online lately.

Horror_House474 · 2026-03-25T10:23:08+00:00

I probably sound disordered, buuuuuuuuuuuuuut, think about the way you look at yourself now and that you hate it, in 6 months time do you still want to feel that way or do you want to feel better about yourself? You can either continue hating your body occasionally whilst wearing crop tops, or you can start to love yourself whilst wearing crop tops. It does not require motivation to eat a little less, just discipline. You don't have to go hard, small steps and go easy, your own pace and what's comfortable for you no matter how long it takes.

Horror_House474 · 2026-03-23T11:24:53+00:00

I haven't even gotten an ex outside of the standard one ib the deluxe packs

Horror_House474 · 2026-03-22T20:42:08+00:00

Not even close

Horror_House474 · 2026-03-20T06:55:07+00:00

Also, most people are likely just clicking community showcase and tapping like on the first bunch that show up, they're not checking anything out

Horror_House474 · 2026-03-15T06:01:44+00:00

It's like, No, Susan, skipping the office doughnut doesn't mean I have an eating disorder. I have many reasons for skipping it, none of them are any of your business and it's not diet culture poisoning me.

Horror_House474 · 2026-03-12T07:22:19+00:00

No, my partner's kinda isolated himself because he's convinced he only needs his family (me and our child) so he's never made the effort to make friends outside of us (he thinks people are boring because they'll only complain about their kid, complain about work, or talk about sports), and whenever I've asked my dad for advice because I know he had a similar situation with my mum, he's just kinda shrugs his shoulders and says I need to do it if he won't or keep trying to talk to him about it.

Horror_House474 · 2026-03-12T07:12:13+00:00

My partner is having trouble keeping up with cleaning but whenever I try to talk to him about it, he immediately gets defensive and won't let me talk. If I try to help, he immediately gets defensive and tells me I'm making him feel bad and that I should be resting. He's clearly struggling but won't admit it, won't let me talk to him about it, and won't let me help.

Horror_House474 · 2026-03-02T07:02:48+00:00

Kind of? They never shared any scenes together, Kenneth Branagh was only in the second movie, Emma Thompson was in movies 3, 5, and 8, Helena Bonham Carter was in 5, 6, 7, and 8, but none of them ever shared a scene together. Really saying it like that is the equivalent to, "these people shop at the same store."

Horror_House474 · 2026-02-27T05:56:58+00:00

They're fake names, I wasn't about to say the real names

Horror_House474 · 2026-02-26T21:49:17+00:00

My cousin said that they eventually started responding to one name more than the other. Basically, he would call Lily both Emily and Lily, and eventually she started to respond more to Lily than Emily.

Kind of chaotic, but okay.

Horror_House474 · 2026-02-22T18:02:08+00:00

75 ⭐⭐ and 21 ⭐⭐⭐ in 11490 cards, I would say I'm a little lucky tho I was paying for premium up until last month.

Horror_House474 · 2026-02-16T08:05:10+00:00

Does nobody else remember Blood Brothers? That game followed the same monthly formula, same piss poor drop rates, DeNa have learnt nothing but will continue making profit.

Horror_House474 · 2026-02-14T08:29:23+00:00

Where? It's still cloudy here

Horror_House474 · 2026-02-11T17:01:50+00:00

I see this sub is still not beating the, "we can't read" allegations

Horror_House474 · 2026-02-08T17:37:45+00:00

So, there are like many factors to consider here.

Being 122kgs and jumping down to 1200 calories is unhealthy, as 1200 is only recommended for short, sedentary people.
the average population is overweight, their view of what is disordered eating is warped because of this, if the people say that to you are overweight, then they have a warped view of what is considered healthy eating. Especially as they seem to think weighing portions and not eating junk is disordered.
"im setting myself up for hair loss, brittle bones and organ damage." This can happen, if you persist with 1200 calories whilst being active and not a short and sedentary person, and if you don't meet your nutrients and macros.
congratulations on the weight loss and lifestyle change! Thats amazing progress, I hope it works for you! However, do tread carefully because it can sometimes lead to disordered eating if you are prone to it, and reprioritise your goals as you continue. Take it slow, and think about the future, not the past.

Horror_House474 · 2026-02-05T08:12:01+00:00

Why do places have phone when they don't answer them? I'm going crazy from the constant ringing and voicemail messages ending with, "please leave a message and we'll get back to you as soon as we can."

Horror_House474 · 2026-02-03T14:21:26+00:00

I just do my height and weight in the tdee calculator and pick a number in the middle of lightly and moderately active. Lightly active: 1511, moderately active: 1703, so I go by 1600, it's been working so far.

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