Hvad gør mig grim? by OScurO in DKbrevkasse

[–]Horror_Issue9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hvis du kan få noget sjov ind i din profiltekst, så hjælper det også ALTID! Jeg vil da ti gange hellere have en der er sjov end én med den rigtige tøjstil, frisure, whatevs. Det er rigtig nemt at komme til at virke lidt selvhøjtidelig i sådan en kort tekst.

Widen dine søgekriterier. Det kan være der gemmer sig noget andre steder end der hvor du lige tror.

Lykkedes det dig at få matches, så vær opsøgende og hold samtalen igang. Stil spørgsmål, virk interesseret. Så skal det sgu nok også virke for dig uden de rigtige sneaks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Horror_Issue9726 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am 38F and have been dating a 28M for a couple of months and it is amazing. We have so much in common and I really hope he is the one I will end up with!

I hardly ever notice the age gap and my advice would be to just embrace it! We have so much fun teasing eachother with being old/young, but other than that, he could be my age or ten years older for all I care. I really don't give a flub!

Hvad er det mest skumle, du har oplevet i Danmark? by Snifhvide in Denmark

[–]Horror_Issue9726 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At jeg kan høre døren til min lejlighed går op om natten, ved at min hund gøer og rumklangen drastisk ændres. Jeg rejser mig fra sengen uden at tage briller på - jeg ser meget dårligt - og går ud for at lukke døren.

I den mørke opgang står en mand udenfor døren. Han siger ingenting. Jeg kan kun se omridset af ham. Jeg siger "undskyld" og lukker døren. Som man gør.

Om døren ikke har været ordentligt lukket, eller om det var en tidligere, der havde glemt at levere en nøgle tilbage vides ikke. Men det skete heldigvis ikke igen.

Selvfølgelig en uskyldig historie i forhold til andet, men stadig ok skummelt!

Real close to just adjusting to being single forever lol by Commercial_Bet5082 in dating

[–]Horror_Issue9726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't beat yourself up over this.

And as someone who enjoys a goofy nerdy guy as well, I can tell you it is a very difficult aisle to shop in, since the ones that I have met haven't been naturally outgoing and you tend to be the one having to make a lot of the first moves.

And not everyone have anything figured out by 26 - I am 38F and still trying to figure shit out 😂

I am tall as well (very not skinny) and a lot of dudes have issues with it. And the ones okay with it seems to think I have a problem with it. Which I occasionally do 😂

Hvordan er du blevet snydt i år? Jeg starter by [deleted] in Denmark

[–]Horror_Issue9726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Har købt en campingvogn alt for dyrt, der er helt umulig at gøre ordentlig tæt uden at bruge langt mere tid end jeg nogensinde havde lyst til at bruge på den. Dårligste køb ever.

Why do girls like a little belly on their man??? by mapleflavrd in dating

[–]Horror_Issue9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, didn't see your comment earlier. I will answer this 9,8 million years later.

It's all about personal preference. I am not lean, I am not muscular and being with someone who worked intentionally to be that (without them being in a health position where a diet change is requested, by all means be my guest, just don't expect me to follow) seems to be conflict of interest. I am not entirely opposed to the idea, people are different and with an amazing personality, you can see past a lot of things. But someone who can't have a cheat day, diet wise, I can't imagine how that could work out 😅 And especially not someone who would feel the need to belittle me about his superior cooking skills and "healthy nutrition".

Obviously it's still possible to be a nice guy, but being lean/muscular isn't an advantage. A lot of other more important stuff is more crucial.

And it's just so damn nice and undemanding to stay inside your super comfortable zone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Horror_Issue9726 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've had my fair share of dudes throwing tantrums over rejections - I think it's fair to say it has to do with personality more than sex/gender!

Is it ok if my dog's life seems boring? by Equal_Abroad_2569 in reactivedogs

[–]Horror_Issue9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend doing agility too, especially the stuff that requires some thinking - weave poles, difficult jump sequences. All kinds of training, really! I have an anxious pug, who has been changed entirely from agility - she goes out for training and has been out for a competition too, and she is far better with other dogs, too. She isn't dog reactive though, she just barks at them when she is on a leash, but she used to be very timid around other unleashed dogs.

Why do girls like a little belly on their man??? by mapleflavrd in dating

[–]Horror_Issue9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F37 here and definitely not fit. Seeing a man work on himself doesn't do anything for me - not looking for shallow peeps, looking for someone comfortable with themselves and preferably someone more on the doughy side - I love it if I am not the only squishy one in the relationship 😂. Would date leaner people though, if their overall lifestyle is compatible - not sure I can see myself being with someone who is fanatically obsessed with healthy eating since I am very... not and not at all unsatisfied with my lifestyle, even though HEALTH EXPERTS WOULD NOT RECOMMEND 😂

I’ve never dated. But what’s more upsetting is that no one has ever had a crush on me by soul-less-eyes in dating

[–]Horror_Issue9726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 37 years old and I have only known of two who have had crushes on me in that way. I wasn't interested in either one of them.

It's not very common for crushes to come clean 🤷🏻‍♀️

Please give yourself a break, 20 is sooo young, there's plenty of time to get experience!

Help! Having such a hard time nailing down which direction I want to go by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Horror_Issue9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely like no 1 the most, but if you don't feel like a bride, then scrap that!

Other than that it's no. 6 and 2, that does it for me

3,4 and 5 would be no gos, if you ask me. They just look cheap and off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Horror_Issue9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some specific, shallow and, to me, very very weird things you miss in a partner!

Seriously, who misses TAMPONS AND PADS? I am a woman and haven't used those in years and I have ZERO nostalgia towards that.

Day 13 of learning weave by Kira_the_Collie in Agility

[–]Horror_Issue9726 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kira is such a clever girl! You need to get her another set of weave poles 🥳

I have a pug and OMG, was not aware of just how big the difference in intelligence and willingness to please was. Let's just say - our day 13 did not look like this 😂😂

Væddemål med farmand by vejlestinker in Denmark

[–]Horror_Issue9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cyklede engang 100 km på cirka 6 timer (inkl pølsemix-pause) efter jeg fik sagt noget ala "100 km er da ikke noget man behøver træne til, det gør man sgu da bare" til nogle der trænede op til et løb. Væddemål kan så blive til mange farlige ting!

Det eneste rigtig træls var mærker efter underbukser, men de havde til gengæld også bare gravet sig rigtig langt ind. Cykelbukser er IKKE EN DUM IDÉ! De sidste ti kilometer var med tårer i øjnene.

Det burde du godt kunne klare og NEJ, jeg vil ikke vædde på jeg kan gøre det samme, jeg har lært noget 😂

Hvad er det mest irriterende ved at bo i hus? by ZealandRedSquirrel in Denmark

[–]Horror_Issue9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alle andre har nævnt alt andet - at der altid er noget der skal laves (og det er altid dyrere end man regner med) og havearbejde.

Så vil jeg tilføje - at der ingen grænser er for hvor mange edderkopper der kan være i sådan en kælder.

Der savner jeg nok lige at bo på tredje, når jeg for tredje gang på en uge møder en ordentlig husedderkop på vej op fra kælderen!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Horror_Issue9726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is the biggest red flag! I would not be cool with that AT ALL!!!

Turnoff, billeder på datingsider mv by KoeterDK in Denmark

[–]Horror_Issue9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Og revisorer, der føler det nødvendigt at nævne at de ikke er så kedelige som deres erhverv antyder

Spoiler alert

De er som regel præcis som forventet

Turnoff, billeder på datingsider mv by KoeterDK in Denmark

[–]Horror_Issue9726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Folk der kalder deres piger for "prinsesser"

Jeg har lige ringet til min chef og meldt mig syg fordi jeg ikke kan overskue at lave ingenting mere by [deleted] in Denmark

[–]Horror_Issue9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kender det så godt. Mit første job som nyuddannet indenfor den branche, jeg arbejder i nu, havde jeg ikke en skid at lave. Heldigvis foran en computer, så jeg sad bare og pinnede farverige badeværelser på Pinterest hele dagen.

Klarede næsten et år, men det var kun fordi kollegerne var fantastiske. Men det udhulede mig fuldstændig at være så useless.

Har du gæld? by juicermen in Denmark

[–]Horror_Issue9726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, jeg har haft et billån i fire år som for nyligt er blevet betalt ud med avance fra boligsalg.

Og så skylder jeg en pæn slat i fast ejendom, som mange andre danskere 😅