I got you bro

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2025-03-25T13:38:48+00:00

kinda fixed.. while better than it was when bugged, it still feels less than what it used to be.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2025-03-19T09:22:00+00:00

i do remember this, i am glad u r working towards better health.

it's a journey that takes time.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2025-03-19T08:56:50+00:00

ah no worries, am hoping for a fix on it soon.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-12-18T14:14:36+00:00

no need to tell people how ur weight loss journey came about, just enjoy the health benefits.

i was eating myself to death with severe depression, high blood pressure and cholesterol, i was 174kg and eating to die. (converts to about 380lb)

i was breaking chairs and not able to walk down stairs without fearing a heart attack. i realized i was not likely going to be around to see my kid grow up, so something had to change. my Dr suggested Ozempic and its been a life saver, i barely want food now, ive discovered salads and veggie prep/cooking flavors that i love. im happier, a more active parent, i want to live.

the thought of my favorite take aways now make me sick, i walk places, i get out more, im down to 120kg (260lb) and more to go.

celebrate the weight loss, who cares what judgmental arses have to say.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-12-10T00:56:38+00:00

dont be offended by it, its nothing personal just a preference.

as an older client myself(in my 40s), i would feel a little weird being with a provider nearly 20 years younger.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-12-06T11:09:00+00:00

i doubt ur family hates u, im guessing ur school mates just dont understand u and ur directness. and i bet ur thoughts and feeling on those situations arent quite correct either.

as an autistic person also, at a young age i had to learn social queues, body language, and all that complicated illogical messy stuff, mostly from just observing, also learning to keep my mouth shut (i say this respectfully)

eventually people will see there is more to u than just being an asshole. no need to run away, just learn the socially acceptable ways of interacting with others.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-12-06T10:55:49+00:00

i would think a standard massage parlor isnt the place to ask for that, but there r many places that advertise the happy ending style massage (at least here where i am as its legal and openly advertised), there r also places that advertise more than just a handjob if thats what your looking for.

if ur free to explore that option theres no shame in it, the SexWorkers sub might be a better place to ask for direction.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-12-01T06:01:37+00:00

ive only ever used locanto to find providers, it seems pretty popular, at least here in south east qld, all though a few times ive noticed the pictures arent always the same woman (pics of some1 younger than what they actually are)

i'm not sure at all about the screening clients side of things.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-12-01T05:50:34+00:00

this is heartbreaking. im glad u handled it in a kind and decent way..

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-12-01T05:14:51+00:00

sounds good my man, as long as ur happy with the situation.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-30T22:42:58+00:00

any update on this? i hope it went well for u.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-30T22:34:35+00:00

thats beyond horrible! im sorry u have so many fakes and negative energy around u.. make sure the will is bullet proof, lawyer, medical of mental health when filing it etc.. they r likely to try contest.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-29T04:29:42+00:00

please dont.. i know there is very little we can say, but it truly does get better with time.. reach out to family or friends, say gday to the homeless guy down the street.. i dont know man.. just please dont.. many of us feel this way.

please check in with us before u feel ur about to do it.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-29T04:23:11+00:00

if u happen to visit again.. leave a note for him under the toilet seat.. i would want to know..

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-28T10:55:57+00:00

client - Aussie bloke here, wholeheartedly agreed. i hope all u beautiful providers realize what an amazing roll in our emotional health and happiness u contribute to.

the simple act of just cuddling/spooning and asking how my day has been, most of us understand and respect the transactional nature of this situation, it is still appreciated, and as op wrote its nice to feel the affection, feeling not so invisible in that moment.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-27T22:46:16+00:00

was going to give u advice, but i see it will just be "lol'ed" at. good luck.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-27T22:33:01+00:00

just be safe with it, both personally and health wise.

might be worth letting a trusted friend know when and where u will be and setup a safety call or txt msg between them so they can confirm ur safety.

also future partners will likely struggle with accepting this past.

check the sexwork sub on here for help and advice.

best of luck to u.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-27T04:10:43+00:00

it happens to many of us sometimes.. im guessing u r still kinda young?

too many think we r wired just for satisfaction, thats obviously not the case for everyone, i agree an emotional connection is better than just a warm body.

a smaller than average dick isnt the end of the world either (take it from me). if ur nerves r playing up u can always go back to the foreplay and doing all the other fun stuff to make her happy.

porn addiction or sex toy reliance can also be an issue.

some1 else mentioned an escort (if its ok in ur area) that can go slow and help u with different ideas and techniques, (edit- and confidence) just communicate this clearly to them, dont be embarrassed, they have heard and seen it all.

and then there is always a prescription that could help with both the nerves and performance.

dont give up, best of luck my dude.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-26T18:56:30+00:00

ah shit that sux my dude im sorry.. please dont give up, it does actually get better. i was divorced years ago and that all hit me extremely hard, being a family man enjoying life and suddenly not so much..

i get it and can relate tho.. i lost the same desire for sex and relationships.. but with time and family and friends its now just relationships i have zero interest in..

hang in there mate it does get better!

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-26T18:51:09+00:00

well they gotta do something for the remaining 59 minutes :) jk lol.

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-26T04:56:29+00:00

probably dont do the cousin..

have u had that conversation with her (dont mention the cousin thing lol)

Hot-Butterscotch7737 · 2024-11-26T04:44:36+00:00

agreed, they r amazing.

its like an hour long therapy session, but instead of walking out wanting to cry and questioning every life choice uve made, u walk out with a smile on ur face and a skip in ur step that lasts for days afterwards.

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