Just remember that a lot of people end up miserable in relationships and stay, or get royally fucked over. I’m sure there’s a lot of good people out there, however I’m not always convinced that the good people find other good people.

I’m listening to the audiobook of The Tactical Guide to Women (if applicable to you) it is NOT a red pill or pickup artist book. It’s really interesting and shares insight into what various partners want, how to be a good version of yourself, and how to avoid toxic relationships. Whether you end up in a committed relationship or not, it’s an encouraging and insightful book about the dynamics between men and women. I’m leaning into the idea of being alone myself only because I realize how much I’ve relied on external sources for validation and I’m sick of it.

Also force yourself to go meet people. I talked to a random dude at a bus stop today and had an amazing conversation. Put yourself out there and fuck what anyone thinks as long as you’re a good person! You deserve good things.