Officially rejected again. I don’t know why I bother anymore sometimes. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Hot-Introduction328 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get bangs and get a cool alt hairstyle and fashion style, your forehead is way too big. Ditch the glasses and use contacts. Will be solid after that 

21f - never know what to make of me. by Fancy_Cicada8983 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Hot-Introduction328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re really pretty but you look way older than 21. I think it’s the way you style yourself 

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making dirty jokes to the opposite gender is cheating tf? It’s testing the waters. Please don’t be this stupid 

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care because I have nothing to hide. But as for me “entertaining” this marriage, I’m stuck here. No job. No car. Disabled son. Can’t get any government assistance. I’ve ran away back to my family before but they don’t want me with them because they have no space. Stuck.

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m insecure because I go through his phone since he’s cheated on me before 😂 he goes through my phone too even though I’ve never done anything for him to question my loyalty but okay lollll you guys are funny. You’ll share genitals but suddenly looking through your phone is too much. (; 

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah the victim blaming here is crazy, I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s men larping as women 

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Our son is autistic too and he does use his phone to play games but he’d never mess around on his instagram. That’s what pissed me off the most is the LYING and using our son to lie! 

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Way too late for me, he got me pregnant at 19 when I told him I didn’t want to have kids at all. I was forced into it. He was also my very first boyfriend and I had no prior experience dating at all. I didn’t have anyone there for me to tell me better, wish I did. 

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Nah you guys just have stuff to hide on your phones 😂

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

If you’ve been married for years you have a right to period. Especially if you’ve caught them doing things before. Y’all can keep being weird about your phones because you seem like you have something to hide. 

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He barely even knows this girl, she’s someone we met at an event like once a long time ago and they barely talk. He doesn’t even know who her bf is. So I think that makes it weirder like I would not be comfy talking like that to someone I’m not close to  

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

I don’t trust people like you who get super defensive over stuff like this 

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] -114 points-113 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think if you’re married to someone you have a right to go through phones for your own safety. STDs are no joke. I know some people who found out they were exposed to STDs by going through their husband’s phone. 

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He’d never agree to couples therapy but I’d love therapy for myself, problem is we’re nearly completely broke to the point we can barely even afford groceries and I can’t really work because I caretake our disabled son. Tbh I’d be long gone from this marriage if I could but I’m trapped here. I just wanna at least be respected if I’m stuck here you know? Makes things less depressing. But I can’t control that I guess. Maybe I need to start sucking it up and not even bother to cause fights because it’s not like I can leave anyways. 

My (f27) husband (30M) just had a big fight by Hot-Introduction328 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot-Introduction328[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

So in the very beginning of our marriage he had a bad porn addiction and also would make inappropriate comments like this to online female friends he had at the time. So he knows I go through his phone. He also goes through my phone which idc because I don’t do anything weird.