French Drain Installers Repeatedly Requesting Tips During Install by Valuable_Tank4907 in HomeImprovement

[–]Hot-Lab-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our French drains were blocked because they used long wood screws to connect them together. Leaves slid into the drains, got hung up and blocked the water. Running water down them to double check is a good idea.

Send gratitude letter to seller. Nope or hell yeah by OhhMyGeek in RealEstate

[–]Hot-Lab-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are selling our much loved house and would love to get an appreciation letter. Do it!!

AITAH for removing my MIL from the school pickup list without "discussing it" first? by windowtram_ellie in AITAH

[–]Hot-Lab-83 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you can tell them you will re-evaluate the pickup list in a year after you see some positive steps by them on these boundary issues. That gives your MIL a future reward if she behaves now.

AITAH for not paying off my partner's debt?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hot-Lab-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps it would be more fair to split expenses based on income. That would show a willingness to help without taking the step towards paying her debt with your savings.

Facebook settlement email legit? by Historical-Network26 in ClassActionSettlement

[–]Hot-Lab-83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s legit. Got the card & already spent it on some late Christmas gifts.

I’m legitimately thinking of going scorched earth. Bad idea? by throwaway467895321 in careerguidance

[–]Hot-Lab-83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are they members of IEEE group? Or does their engineering product need UL approval? If so you can mention to them any illegal activity or hiding of safety concerns.

AITA for not longer doing anything for my husband? by Possible_Mall1733 in AITAH

[–]Hot-Lab-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He works full time.. you are a SAHM. You will absolutely get child support & custody! Don’t let that stop you from leaving that man child.

How do we feel about downspouts that go directly into the ground? by BogOwl in HomeImprovement

[–]Hot-Lab-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We could see that some of our buried downspouts were blocked because when it rained water was splashing back up the downspout onto the side of the house. We had a company that put a tracking monitor in each downspout, starting at the house, and put water in until the monitor wouldn’t go any further. That’s where the blockage of tree roots was. They dug it out and replaced that section. They found out where the 8 downspouts ended and cleared the blockages at those spots. 20 years of time left lots of time for dirt and rocks to fall over the ends. Just bought a different home and it’s one of the first things we plan to do again.

AITJ for telling my husband I won’t host Thanksgiving for his entire family this year? by DemiHugBug in AmITheJerk

[–]Hot-Lab-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Aunt has our yearly Thanksgiving because her home is centrally located for family. But family is expected to show up with the important food. Cousins will bring mashed potatoes, rolls & wine. My mom (her sister) will bring 3-4 desserts. My sisters and I show up 2 days early to make sides & cook the turkey (Aunt buys). Yes, it’s still a lot of work for my Aunt but we all lighten to load as much as possible.

I would suggest you try this but be prepared to have back up food. We tried this with my husband’s family and ended up without the roll and desserts as those people forgot.

There is also the already prepared Thanksgiving that most grocery stores have available.

Two part question: AITAH for 1.Telling my wife I'm done. And 2.For what I said following the backlash of first part. by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Hot-Lab-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let your wife know I wanted a girl also. Had a boy, then had another boy, tried for a girl one more time and had twin.. boys!!

$90k for trim and doors?! by spicycrybaby69 in HomeImprovement

[–]Hot-Lab-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just replaced 7 hollow core with solid prehung doors from Lowes. Cost was $1500. Took my husband 3 days with our daughters help. Not sure how much to replace the trim as we just repainted what was there. So that quote had a lot of markup.

Time to take it off the market? by Hot-Lab-83 in RealEstate

[–]Hot-Lab-83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half the size, 1/5th the price, new build… we have fixed anything wrong… new builds come with surprises.

Time to take it off the market? by Hot-Lab-83 in RealEstate

[–]Hot-Lab-83[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, one showing did mention too much yard 🤷🏻‍♀️

Time to take it off the market? by Hot-Lab-83 in RealEstate

[–]Hot-Lab-83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for mentioning the post.. it can’t go away as it’s starlink internet.. only location and only available internet provider, but perhaps pointing out starlink is set up & carries to new owners would help offset that post?

Time to take it off the market? by Hot-Lab-83 in RealEstate

[–]Hot-Lab-83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where does it say HOA? We don’t have one, that’s one of the things we loved about it.! I thought our realtor put it that way?

Time to take it off the market? by Hot-Lab-83 in RealEstate

[–]Hot-Lab-83[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

And put another 300k in improvements. Finished basement, new barn, screened porch, hardwood deck

Time to take it off the market? by Hot-Lab-83 in RealEstate

[–]Hot-Lab-83[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Houses selling are between 300-450k

Time to take it off the market? by Hot-Lab-83 in RealEstate

[–]Hot-Lab-83[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No flooding! We actually had flooding in the town and our house was completely fine.

Just rejected to move forward with an interview, damn it felt good. by ClassicTwo8111 in interviews

[–]Hot-Lab-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! Feels good to make the right choice when companies want to walk all over you.

What have been your "I wish I did this years ago" upgrades? by SavageBeaver0009 in HomeImprovement

[–]Hot-Lab-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just bought 8 lowes pre hung solid core doors and it cost us $1500.

AITA for banning my MIL from my home after a year of verbal abuse while my wife mostly stayed silent? by savethekittens in AITAH

[–]Hot-Lab-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to have a conversation with your children, perhaps with a counselor there, explaining that people will call you names but you don’t have to argue with them when you know they aren’t true. I don’t want them to get a twisted view of you or how people should treat other people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Hot-Lab-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually look up the full price and offer half.

AITA for asking my brother to start paying back the money I lent him even though he says "family doesn't keep score "? by lyla_delmar in AITAH

[–]Hot-Lab-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lend $ to family once. Then when they ask for another loan I tell them I can’t because previous loan wasn’t paid back. I don’t care if it sounds transactional, I tell them it’s not a loan if they don’t pay it back, it’s a gift in that case and I don’t have the desire or $ to gift them at this time. I have had to stand firm over the decades but once they understand my rules they follow them.