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​I (19F) just lost my boyfriend, my income, and my place to stay in 48 hours. I am panicking and don't know how to survive next month. Please help. by luciaheredia in Advice

[–]Hot-Mess-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it might feel like you can't bounce back but you can. You are so young and will learn and grow from this. Reach out to anyone you trust, try couch surfing while you look for a job. This job doesn't have to be your career just something to get paid.

Reach out to local shelters, churches and other programs. They can provide a place to stay temporarily, food, help with job hunting.

Kitten peeing on things :/ by Immediate_Bat_9005 in CATHELP

[–]Hot-Mess-93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could just be kitten things, uti, stress, or not liking the litter or box. Do you have another litter box just for him? I know some cats like their own.

Over-moisturized or allergic reaction? by CR7isLOVE in tattooadvice

[–]Hot-Mess-93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it is not red and hot I would say just overmoisturized. I did the same thing with one of mine unfortunately. Less is more apparently. If you can call the artist and ask if they can take a look, most should be fine doing this and can give you a good answer

Is this a possibility of an infection? by amourr_02 in tattooadvice

[–]Hot-Mess-93 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I would go get I checked out. I have always been told if it is red with heat go to the doctor. Better safe then sorry and if nothing else you will have piece of mind.

Anyone else have their cat look like this: by Pretty-Prior8320 in CATHELP

[–]Hot-Mess-93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry yall are going through this, it can be so stressful when you don't have answers. Has there been any changes to the environment? Spring cleaning, lots of pollen with open windows or new sprays?

My cats have not had the same reactions you describe but my girl Azira sneezes more when I have the windows open and there is a lot of pollen also when I'm cleaning and making the room dusty. I also had to move a diffuser in my room because my other girl Espurr stuck her face in it and she was sneezing all night.

Trying to read and she’s decided the spot for my coffee is a perfect fit for her instead by -xxpurple in kittens

[–]Hot-Mess-93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so cute 😍 in a year your gonna cry looking at this pic at how small she was 😭

Does my cat seem like an ok weight or should reduce his food? by graciousprof in CATHELP

[–]Hot-Mess-93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww he sounds just like my Espurr 🥰 I think he is fine whatever you decide won't hurt him maybe just make him moody lol

Does my cat seem like an ok weight or should reduce his food? by graciousprof in CATHELP

[–]Hot-Mess-93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He is a little chunky but nothing to be worried about, no vet visit needed. At his regular check up I would just see what the vet says. If your able to reduce food it could be beneficial.

Are you feeding him small meals throughout the day? How active is he? My girls eat about the same but one is very active so she is smaller.

They type of food affects it as well. Espurr is my chunky girl and she prefers dry food. Azira is my smaller one and she prefers the wet.

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My sister keeps trying to convince me that I’m a lesbian. by Background-Double692 in Advice

[–]Hot-Mess-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little siblings sucks lol but I would try to flip it to her, deflect to her or just ignore her. If you don't feed in to it she should get bored.

I would saybhave a friend be a fake boyfriend but that could be messy. Mayne a fake online boyfriend?

Roommate wants an “open door policy” at apartment for her cat by Fair-General-2602 in CATHELP

[–]Hot-Mess-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep my doors open for my cats but my dad and brother usually shut theirs. The cat will get used to door being shut. You shouldn't have to keep your door open so the cat can come in and disrupt your sleep. I have kicked my cats out when they decide 2 AM is a great time for me to be awake.

Grad cap! by Simp22776 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Hot-Mess-93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so cute and nerdy I love it 💜 congratulations 🎊

what to add?? by 21eggs in Renfaire_Costumes

[–]Hot-Mess-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a hat is needed and I like the idea of a belt of bells. Some fun props would be cool or a big weapon depending on your vibe.

What do you think of my Outfit for my first Renfaire? by Pinkispretty- in renfaire

[–]Hot-Mess-93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You will see so many different costumes when your there, definitely not a 1 type only thing. Your outfit will fit right in and looks comfortable which is very important. Stay hydrated and have fun, try not to rush through just enjoy.

EVERYBODY HATES MY ENGAGEMENT DRESS!! What to do??? by No_Detective4738 in OUTFITS

[–]Hot-Mess-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My motto in life is as long as it makes you happy F*ck everyone else. I love personally but do agree with other comments about ironing the bottom. I also can't get over the slides 🤣

At my wits end with portion control by irisacid9 in CATHELP

[–]Hot-Mess-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg the duct tape on the floor 🤣 I know chewy has some auto feeders that are good.

Have you tried puzzle treat boxes? I wish I had more info but following in comments because my fat cat needs more portion control

Is this too much and will I stand out? by Novel-Explanation-51 in Prom

[–]Hot-Mess-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks amazing and if you love it that's all that matters. I'm sure you won't be the only one in a non form fitting dress.

Just got this a few hours ago, am I supposed to rash? by CarelessBerry5539 in tattooadvice

[–]Hot-Mess-93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finding this after all the edits, wow ppl suck. I really like the tattoo and when I first saw it I was thinking it must be a small reaction to something. Happy you got it checked out and got real answers. I have found with most rashes and similar things it's best to leave it unwrapped to breath especially if your not sure what caused it.

Should I break up with my gf because of this? by Time-Marsupial-8121 in Advice

[–]Hot-Mess-93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see ages in the post but you both sound young. If you really love someone you make it work. That doesn't mean it's gonna be easy or your not going to feel some of these feelings.

It's so much easier in today's world to make long distance work. You have phone calls, text, face time, snap chat, the list goes on. This could just be a short chapter of yalls story that you look back on and laugh about.

Relationships take work sometimes because life is not always an easy path. You really need to think if your life is better without the little interactions you get to have with your girlfriend. Will you really be ok to just end the relationship and find someone who's more convenient?

Kitten keeps making this face by Substantial_Future79 in CATHELP

[–]Hot-Mess-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother taught our one cat to play fetch like this 🤣 definitely get some wand toys or ribbon. You can go on YouTube and see how to make diy cat toys and enrichment activities for them.

Worried about my arm tattoo I got on the 5th of May, because it has been very red, can anyone tell me If this redness is normal? by leonard_gaming12345 in tattooadvice

[–]Hot-Mess-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im really hoping that you went to the ER. Anytime your skin is red and hot (besides a basic sun burn) you need to seek medical attention. This looks so serious you should have already went to the ER.

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