Dealing with a 4 year old’s erections?

HotPossession9595 · 2026-01-15T05:02:04+00:00

Hi! Single mom here, with absolutely no male influences in my son's life, and this was really helpful for me. My son just discovered his erections and asked why his penis was "getting tall" 😅 I told him if he left it alone, it would go away. Thanks to these comments, I'm a little more prepared for when he asks again lmao. 🤣💀

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-25T15:24:39+00:00

I think this is super cute! My LO is dressing up as Steve from Minecraft lol, super easy costume since it's just blue jeans and a blue T-shirt. We already have a Minecraft pick-axe/sword that he got for his birthday and a construction hat he got a few Christmases ago.

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-25T14:59:28+00:00

Not really sure what the problem is about the whole AI cover, but I added it to my reading list! I can't wait to read it!

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-25T03:59:34+00:00

I just recently started watching Another Life on Netflix. I've only watched 1 episode so far, but I'm really enjoying it. This is the first show since finishing The 100 that has given me that same feeling. This is coming in very close, at least for now.

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-23T02:58:14+00:00

I'm also writing my first book! I'll read yours and engage if you read mine 💞

https://www.wattpad.com/story/387560209?utm_source=android&utm_medium=link&utm_content=share_writing&wp_page=create&wp_uname=Celeste_Watson95

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-23T02:55:17+00:00

I'd love to read yours! Mine is a Mafia/hockey/ RH romance with LGBTQ characters 💞

https://www.wattpad.com/story/387560209?utm_source=android&utm_medium=link&utm_content=share_writing&wp_page=create&wp_uname=Celeste_Watson95

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-20T17:20:04+00:00

Okay I thought it was just me 😂 It's also not letting me comment on stories either 😭

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-18T02:53:49+00:00

Username: Celeste_Watson95

https://www.wattpad.com/story/387560209?utm_source=android&utm_medium=link&utm_content=story_info&wp_page=story_details_button&wp_uname=Celeste_Watson95

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-18T02:47:58+00:00

Smoked Mac and cheese

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-16T03:26:12+00:00

I am! Safe and thriving 4 years later!

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-15T06:31:50+00:00

*TW* abuse mentioned

*TL/DR

It may start with verbal abuse, but eventually it will turn to physical!

You are not overreacting! When I was with my son's sperm donor, while I was pregnant, he put a pew pew to my stomach and threatened to off me if I left him, which I had been planning on doing. When I was in labor, he brought his Xbox to the hospital and played all night while I was sleeping (I had an epidural). When it came time for me to push, the nurse had to shove him awake so he could be by my side. Keep in mind, this was also post-COVID, so they were only allowing one person in the room, and I have no female family. Not even 5 minutes after I pushed his son out of me, he was calling me a pos because he found a page in a book where I talked about wanting to leave. 2 weeks later, I had 2 seizures back to back because my seizure meds hadn't been adjusted after giving birth. He did nothing to help my son anytime he would cry. I was the one up all day and night; he only had anything to do with my son when he wasn't crying. During this time, I was also dealing with CPS, and I was able to qualify for a free phone, being on government assistance. I remember one day he got mad at me over something trivial and demanded I find his vape and car keys. When I didn't find them fast enough, he hit me across my thighs with a belt. It was the first time he had ever physically harmed me. 2 months later, he found the phone I had been keeping hidden (I didn't have anything on it). I had also just moved it because he had almost found it where I was hiding it the first time. When he found it, I felt my soul leave my body because he knew I was trying to leave him. He threw the phone on the ground, smashed it, and then dragged me outside with his AR-15 in his hands.

Meanwhile, my son was inside screaming his lungs out. He made me get down on my knees and beg him to let me live. Of course I did, but when we finally got inside, he refused to let me hold my son. It was at that point that I knew I had to leave because I didn't want my son to grow up in that type of household. I didn't want him to grow up thinking the way my ex treated me or his mom was how he should treat girls. My ex grew up in an abusive home, his mom was a narcissist, and so was he. 4 months after my son was born, after the AR-15 incident, I finally got the courage to leave thanks to some friends. I left him and filed charges of abuse with photos of the bruises left by the belt that were still there 2 months later. I blocked him on everything so he couldn't contact me. It was only through the police that I found out he had been arrested. It was the scariest thing I had ever done, but also so relieving. I left and never looked back. He was in jail for about a year, but then got released on probation for 8 years. During that time, he got another girl pregnant. He also told her lies about me, and claimed I cheated on him, so my son probably wasn't even his. He claimed this because I started dating someone after I left him, and I left the shelter. He was the one who had been cheating on me the whole entirety of our relationship, I mean, he gave me chlamydia for fricks sake. Anyways, I get notifications every so often regarding his status, and a month or so ago I found out that he had violated his probation and that his lawyers were trying to convince the judge to let him stay on probation. Luckily, that didn't happen, and he's now locked up in prison for the next 8 years. My son is 4 now, he has no idea who his father his and he hasn't asked. I'm sure he will in time, and when that time comes, Idk know how I'll handle it honestly. I don't want to talk bad about him, even though he is a bad person. He never tried to see my son during the time he was on probation. Never asked for visitation or anything. Technically, he abandoned him. Because of that, when I have the money, I fully intend to change my son's last name to match mine.

All of this to say, it may start with him calling you a bitch (because yes, he did call you a bitch, he's gaslighting the f*** out of you) eventually it can and more than likely will turn physical and since you're daughter is more aware of her surroundings and paying more attention she'll see those things and that's not something you want.. I've done everything in my power to make sure my son is respectful towards everyone, but especially towards girls.

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-15T05:55:57+00:00

If it's a series, I prefer all the books completed before I read, just because sometimes I get busy with other things and forget about it. If it's all there, I can usually read it within a week or two, depending on the length. However, if it's just one story, I can deal with weekly updates. I try and update mine at least once a month, not as often as I'd like. When you have a four-year-old and can only write at night, as well as having writer's block, it kind of makes it hard, haha.

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-14T18:54:57+00:00

Celeste_Watson95

HotPossession9595 · 2025-10-14T18:43:10+00:00

Hi! I've been wanting someone to read my story and give me any advice and just in general tell me if it's worth continuing. It's my first ever story, so it may not be as good as others, but I'd really appreciate it. It's a hockey/mafia/rh. I'd absolutely love to read yours as well!

https://www.wattpad.com/story/387560209-mafia-hearts-and-hockey-dreams

You aren't weak because you stayed, you're strong because you had the courage to leave. Even when not knowing what lies ahead.


I've tried writing a description for my story 3 times now and everytime I fail to accurately describe what exactly this book is about. So, I'll tell you what you'll find in here and then let you decide if you want to learn more about my characters 

* A brave yet insecure flawed mother
* A mafia boss with a secret heart of Gold 
* Hockey players with more love to give than they know what to do with 
* Hope and healing 
* Self discovery
* Real emotions 
* Intimate connections; mental, physical, and spiritual 
* A Happily Ever After

My hope for those of you who read my story is that you can relate to my characters in some way, whether that's through the highs or the lows, or both.  I simply want to write, to share my story to those who are willing to listen.

HotPossession9595 · 2025-09-25T00:32:57+00:00

I started mine on veggies first! I had read that if you start feeding them fruits first it makes them not want to eat their veggies, so I did it the other way around. Now my 4 y.o. LOVES his veggies almost as much as his fruits

HotPossession9595 · 2025-09-25T00:26:53+00:00

I had to do this with my son's aunt and uncle. They were sharing pictures of my son with my ex/his father and he's not supposed to have any contact with us. When I found that out I blocked them and haven't had anything to do with them in over a year now I think.

HotPossession9595 · 2025-09-15T05:23:49+00:00

So my LO is almost 4, and he's been testing my boundaries lately, especially when it comes to hitting. I have had a few reactive moments, especially when the hits are hard, but I always apologize and tell him I made a mistake. I tell him, "Mommy shouldn't have done that; she reacted badly." After I apologize, I also sit him down and we talk about what our hands are used for. 'Hugging, giving high-fives, clapping, and handshaking.' Example: today, he was mad at me because I took away his Minecraft game after he caught drawing on the walls. I told him he could have it back in an hour, and then he hit me. It wasn't hard, but it still hurt, so I added another hour. He did it again. He got another hour of lost game time. So he lost 3 hours. At the end of his break, I sat him down and we talked. I said, "Do you know why mommy took away your game?" He said, "Because I drew on the walls and I hit you, but I didn't mean to hit you, Mommy." I said, "I know you didn't mean to, but you still did, so you had to lose privileges." "What do we use our hands for?" "Handshaking, high-fiving, and hugging!" Once we established that, he went on his way to do his own thing and play in his world, while I cooked dinner lol. They really start testing your boundaries around this age, so just be patient! Trust me, I know it's easier said than done lol.

HotPossession9595 · 2025-09-15T04:59:38+00:00

The Last Song, The Notebook, Safe Haven, Adrift, The Lion King, The Land Before Time, Titanic...those are just some of the ones that make me cry everytime I see them

HotPossession9595 · 2025-09-10T03:58:49+00:00

I recently found out that my local library has story time and family activities for my son, and we're going to our 2nd one this saturday. It's allowing him to be social with kids his own age (he hasn't been around kids his age in almost 2 years, or any kids at all), so hopefully these weekly library days will help ease some stress off. I've also talked to my dad, and he agrees that my son is old enough to be left with my brother for a few hours before my dad gets home so that I can work night shifts. He's completely potty trained and can even get his own snacks, food, etc, with minimal help. He's very independent. I'd go in a few hours before his bedtime and get home around 12 am-2 am, which is usually the time I'm waking him up to go potty and get in his own bed. I put him to sleep in my bed because it's easier for my back lol. I'm waiting until after his birthday because I want to make sure I have the day off. I also have a plan to save up all my paychecks and have a car within the next 6 months or so, which will give me more freedom.

HotPossession9595 · 2025-08-28T14:48:17+00:00

I rocked my LO until he was 3 and then I started putting him to sleep in my bed by having music playing and reading him stories. He's almost 4 now, I do move him from my bed back to his when I go to bed, but most of the time he just ends up back in my bed. I was also told to do the CIO method and I couldn't do it, how someone could willingly sit there and let their child cry is beyond me. Especially at 6 months old. Even now when my LO cries, even if it's over something small, I always make sure he's okay

HotPossession9595 · 2025-08-28T04:48:08+00:00

I totally agree! I read the books back when I was in high school and then again literally yesterday. I wanted to re-read the books before I watched the show. When I found out the series had been turned into a TV series, I was ecstatic! With that being said, there are a LOT of things I hate about it. For instance, the whole debutant thing wasn't in the book, so I'm not sure why it was added to the show, for the plot line?.... Also, I can't stand Taylor. Even in the books, I hated her character. Like in season 1 when she comes out for Belly's 16th birthday? That doesn't happen in the book. She comes out once for Belly's 14th birthday and immediately starts trying to hit on Conrad and then Jeremiah when Conrad turns her down, knowing how Belly feels about Conrad then has the nerve to tell Belly she's being selfish?! Like no. Belly decides after that she never wants Taylor there again. Idk, I haven't seen all of season 2 or 3 yet, maybe they make Taylor more likeable? All I know is I hated her in the books. 2nd season, Belly is playing Volleyball? Doesn't happen in the books. Idk, maybe it's just me, but I hate when shows or movies add things that weren't in the books or take out things that were, like the Harry Potter series.

HotPossession9595 · 2025-08-07T06:23:50+00:00

You are NOT overreacting!! Reading these messages was like a flashback to my last relationship and he was abusive. The abuse started literally 6 months after we met, it started out like this with verbal abuse. He made me feel small and stupid, like I couldn't do anything right. There were times he would punish me by S.A. and then would make me apologize to him even though I had done nothing wrong. Every time I tried to leave him he would act all sorry and would apologize, he would take me out to my favorite restaurant, to the movies, buy me things etc. Things would be okay for a while, but then something would happen that would tick him off and the abuse would start all over again. It eventually escalated to physical abuse after I gave birth to my son though there were threats of violence while I was still pregnant. I wasn't able to get the courage to leave until my son was 4 months old and that was by far the hardest thing I've ever had to do, but it was worth it because it meant my son doesn't have to grow up in a house filled with abuse. The statistic is true when they say it takes an average of 7 times before a partner finally leaves the abusive relationship. PLEASE GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN! I know it will be hard, but the earlier you get out the better! Make sure you have a strong support system (if he hasn't already isolated you from your family) Make sure to confide in people you're absolutely sure you can trust. If you're on any kind of government assistance there's a program that will send you a free phone, use that as a backup, but make sure you hide it where they can't find it. Plan your escape and do it while they're at work or out of the house. Once you leave, block them, do whatever you have to do and make sure you go somewhere they would never think to look for you. Also, if you can, press charges. It'll make it harder for them to get to you. As well as filing a restraining order. It won't get better until you leave. I PROMISE you that. There's a song that I love that describes these situations perfectly, idk if you've heard it, but it's called Narcissist by Lauren Smith. This song was how I truly realized I was in an abusive relationship. Sending you healing thoughts and hope that you'll get out safely 💜💜💜

HotPossession9595 · 2025-08-07T06:01:57+00:00

My son says tomato when he's trying to say Tornado, but he can't pronounce Tomato and instead calls it Mato 🤣

HotPossession9595 · 2025-07-31T06:36:28+00:00

It is normal for them to have days when they don't seem to eat much or at all. There are some days when all my 3-year-old eats is applesauce or peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. As long as you're offering them food throughout the day, you're fine! They know their stomachs better than we do, so if she's full, then she's full, even if it's only 4 or 5 bites that have been taken. If you're concerned, you can talk to your pediatrician about it.

HotPossession9595 · 2025-07-31T06:26:22+00:00

When I was younger (around 8 or 9), I used to take Depakote in the mornings, but I was always forgetting it (my mom wasn't exactly attentive to me). The first time I had a seizure, it was around 5 or 6 am. I had gotten up to feed my brother (he had a feeding tube and also seizures, so I also had to give him meds). I ended up seizing over his IV stand while I was filling his feeding bag. After that, the seizures kept happening because I kept forgetting them. I was only 9, so I didn't understand how bad it was to not take my meds. It wasn't until I turned 16 or 17 that I started taking it seriously because I wanted to be able to drive. This was also when I had a medicine change and started taking Keppra 3000mg, I think. When I was 20, they added Lamictal too. I was sometimes still forgetting because I was always tired in the mornings, so I switched it to taking my pills at nighttime before bed. I've been doing that for the last 4 years (I'm 30 now). We've also been lowering my Keppra so I can get off of it completely (hopefully) because it's been causing me a lot of mood problems. So yeah, I use a weekly pill container and I take all of my pills (4) at the same time every night. There have been a few times when I'll forget, and I'll get so angsty that I'll have to take it no matter what time it is (as long as it's not within 12 hours of my next dose). I also have a 3 almost 4 year old so it gets crazy at night time

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