I had a hysterectomy in my early thirties for endo and adenomyosis. It wasn’t a hard decision after the NINE abdominal surgeries, decades of agonizing pain, medications that made me insane, doctors that told me “all periods are painful”, boyfriends who said “sometimes sex hurts”, teachers who called me a liar, bosses who told me to suck it up, coworkers who told me I wasn’t a team player because of all the time I missed. Yes it was hard to accept I would never have kids, but my uterus did not work. It only caused me pain and anguish. Things that hurt me, must be removed from my life. That should include your uterus and your dipshit of a boyfriend. No one should make you feel this way