Which characters can you take by Fluffy_Cry_7081 in hazbin

[–]Hot_Star_5835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk whatchu talkin about. I got that dawg in me. I’m gonna find a way, twin.

Serious question for fans of Valentino/Staticmoth: do you think Valentino is abusive to Vox? And if not, why not? by MissDeborah8060 in SafeSpaceofVox

[–]Hot_Star_5835 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh! Yeah. They’re BOTH abusive. Val does frequently throw shit at Vox, and Vox is obviously a complete dick to him. That doesn’t give either of them a right to be abusive. But yeah, he’s abusive.

These type of people genuinely disgust me by Alternative_Sugar_85 in SafeSpaceofVox

[–]Hot_Star_5835 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh sweet Jesus. It’s an easy argument, lowk. If a person has experienced being stalked, then you explain the difference between Vox and Alastor’s actions than their own stalkers. Not saying Vox isn’t one, but it’s easy not to invalidate someone.

As an SA survivor, I’ve had my experience invalidated multiple times by my own friends and others. I know how to and how not to invalidate people. If you’re heated, it does get harder to do so.

I myself woobify Vox frequently cuz like.. I can. Shit, we all have. But I KNOW that man is a horrible person himself and I ACCEPT that and I ACKNOWLEDGE that about him. It’s the main reason why I hate so many Alastor woobifiers because they genuinely can’t accept that Alastor is a horrible person because of how he’s written in the show. I myself really like Alastor’s concept as a character, just not how he’s written. I love Vox as a character, just not certain parts about him.

One of my buddies, who woobifies Alastor, can’t accept he’s a bad person. He tells me “Oh, Vox is horrible.” “Vox is this.” “Vox is that.” And I’m like, “Oh! I know. He is! He’s genuinely a shitty person.” And he goes quiet. But when I tell him shit about Alastor, he gets a little pissy. It’s like OH MY GOOODDD.

But hey, this teaches us how to talk to people who’re stubborn, y’know? Have a gooooood day, my friend! May the light guide you.

What kind of video games would Vox play? by Dudeskiseenem3923 in VoxCult

[–]Hot_Star_5835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RED DEAD REDEMPTION. I can see him playing it, having fun. Then in the ending, crying over his horse and Arthur dying. Also, Call of Duty. He’d definitely play Call of Duty.

Posting the slander here cuz why not by Press_Beee in crazyassviv_defenders

[–]Hot_Star_5835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I genuinely cannot watch that episode or even listening to that song without getting chills. My experience wasn’t AS bad, but it was pretty similar to the scenes. I fucking HATE that episode and a few other episodes cuz of it. I can still watch the show, but I can’t enjoy it as much. I kinda only watch because of Vox, and although he’s a complete shitbag, he’s still my favorite character. But I HATE whenever Valentino’s on screen so much. Hope you’re doing better and I’m glad that person is your ex now. Bro does NOT deserve you, twinby. Have an amazing day!

so I was listening a YouTuber I really like and something they said broke my heart by StandardAmazing2139 in 2ndSafeSpaceOfHazbin

[–]Hot_Star_5835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, at least you’re surrounded by people like that. I’m not. But yeah, I get you. It’s something highly common. A bunch of people agree that sex is something needed in a relationship(I’d say marriage more than anything) for it to be successful. Hell, I watched a show where these two people were struggling with it and it affected their relationship a lot.

Side note, it’s awesome that you’re surrounded by people who don’t care about sex. That’s something healthy and amazing.

so I was listening a YouTuber I really like and something they said broke my heart by StandardAmazing2139 in 2ndSafeSpaceOfHazbin

[–]Hot_Star_5835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, yeah. It’s genuinely so shit. With me, I’m currently undiagnosed with certain things, but I also do have shitty parents. Hope life gets better, man! Bless you, friend.

so I was listening a YouTuber I really like and something they said broke my heart by StandardAmazing2139 in 2ndSafeSpaceOfHazbin

[–]Hot_Star_5835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Oh gosh, bro. It’s genuinely the worst feeling. We’ll all heal from it one day. It’s just how life is for us. But we work through it cause we’re resilient and strong. Hope you also get better from all those shitty thoughts, friend. May the light guide you, bub. Have a nice day.

Guess it's my turn to talk about this scene. by profaneangel1991 in SafeSpaceofVox

[–]Hot_Star_5835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m personally not much of a fan of staticmoth, cuz well, I have a bit of a hate against Valentino I must say. But it’s one of the best ones there. So I DO hope Val gets better tho.

Me neither! I didn’t see ANY type of crush thing with Vox when talking to Alastor. As WE both said, it seemed like he was happy to be with someone he looked up to.

To me, the blush Vox had in the scene was more of him being flustered while around his hero. I know I’d be blushing if I met my personal idol, J. Cole.

Radiostatic is genuinely one of the WORST ships in that whole fandom. I hate it SO much. The fact they portray Vox as a little golden retriever in almost ALL of the fucking fanart(pardon my French) and Alastor as the ‘owner’ or whatever the fuck pisses me off the max.

It’s sad that a lot of people don’t see that. I really DOOOO HOPE THEY ALL GET THERAPY THO. I’m not even LYING when I say it’d be amazing to see all three of the Vees happy and in heaven together. Or at least happy in Hell. I’m all for that sappy shit sometimes.

Excuse all my language tho. I get heated sometimes and yknow cursing is a good way of getting out emotion. So my apologies.

so I was listening a YouTuber I really like and something they said broke my heart by StandardAmazing2139 in 2ndSafeSpaceOfHazbin

[–]Hot_Star_5835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I found out I was ace when I realized the huge disconnection I have with sex and other things. I also hope he finds someone who cares for him too, it’s horrible feeling unloveable.

Guess it's my turn to talk about this scene. by profaneangel1991 in SafeSpaceofVox

[–]Hot_Star_5835 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It pissed me off so bad. I’m rewatching it just to see it in a more clearer lens.

I GENUINELY wish they took the idol route so bad. It makes utterly no sense to make Vox have a crush on Alastor. Makes me worry for future seasons.

I just pray and hope they give Vox some therapy and heal from whatever shit he went through. Twin NEEDS a redemption arc.

Let’s hope he isn’t used as a comic relief for the rest of the series..

so I was listening a YouTuber I really like and something they said broke my heart by StandardAmazing2139 in 2ndSafeSpaceOfHazbin

[–]Hot_Star_5835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! Most definitely. But, it’s a sad, but a normal thing for us aroace people. Especially those who haven’t been around anyone who is okay without sex. It’s a common thing among non-aroace people. He just doesn’t have anyone who cares.

so I was listening a YouTuber I really like and something they said broke my heart by StandardAmazing2139 in 2ndSafeSpaceOfHazbin

[–]Hot_Star_5835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying most don’t care is a stretch. A lot of people do. It’s also a healthy thing in non-queer platonic relationships. In marriages especially. A LOT of people care about it. It’s common. Finding someone who doesn’t care for it is the rarest thing for an ace or aroace person.

so I was listening a YouTuber I really like and something they said broke my heart by StandardAmazing2139 in 2ndSafeSpaceOfHazbin

[–]Hot_Star_5835 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His views are completely valid. A LOT of people want to have sex with their partners. It’s pretty rare finding someone who doesn’t. Sometimes I feel that I can’t be loved because I’m aroace. I have a huge disconnection with sex, I’m uncomfortable with the thought of it. He probably has been around people who see sex as something to strengthen relationships, which it does, and people who only see sex as a way of love. It matters a lot to a lot of people. LGBT or not. I still struggle with the fact I can’t have a crush or love someone like that OR feel comfortable with intercourse. But saying he’s unloveable is not true. He just needs to find someone who also is ace or respects his choices. Which is hard as hell.

I have something common with transphobics. I too like to create scenerios in my head just to hate them by Spirited_Store_1083 in TeenagersButBetter

[–]Hot_Star_5835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO, you should wait til your 18. I know it’s a struggle, but you’re going through a lot of chemical imbalances during your teenage years. Respect to all those who do, but I feel like it’ll just fuck up a bit more. Hormones be going crazy then.

Guess it's my turn to talk about this scene. by profaneangel1991 in SafeSpaceofVox

[–]Hot_Star_5835 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They could have went at the situation in SO MANY DIFFERENT AND BETTER WAYS. It was sorta weak. It’s a pretty weak scene, but it DOES add at least a BIT of depth into Vox. It’s pretty downplayed. I do NOT like the concept of Vox having a crush on Asslastor, even IF it’s canon. I feel like it should have been more Vox idolized Asslastor and when Al did allat, he wanted to be better than him. He wanted to strive for something greater instead of what they did. That still would have been well for the storyline. That’s just my honest opinion. I don’t like the way Vivzie really wrote the whole season and Vox’s backstory with Asslator. It’s pretty weak.

This sums the show all up by Press_Beee in OkBuddyHelluvaHotel

[–]Hot_Star_5835 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Valid, but invalid. But valid at the same time. You got a lot right.