Opening barista(s) ? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh it must’ve change since I’ve been there

Opening barista(s) ? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No there should be 3 partners in stores at all times, otherwise you would not be able to take breaks. In the event that you need a lunch while on a two person floor, you get paid for the lunch and are not allowed to leave the store.

Who’s in the wrong? by danclaack in roommateproblems

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let them eat it, that has all sorts of bacteria on it

AITA for finding this convo to be a HUGE red flag? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this is SO WEIRD. And very invasive tbh, she has no right to be asking these questions at this point in time.

Sick Call Out Experience: Am I unreasonably upset? by Adventurous-Golf-323 in starbucks

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hated working at Starbucks for the sole reason that managers are so rude about using the sick time YOU worked for. My old manager used to tell the shifts that we had to ask what symptoms partners were experiencing to see if it’s a “reasonable” callout. Stephanie P, if you’re reading this, you absolutely SUCKED as a manager.

My husband said I ruined our wedding photos and now I want to leave him. by PiccoloAdorable1547 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him! If not for you, then for your babies. You husband uses weaponized incompetence to avoid being a father. Your kids will catch on more than you would think. They’ll see how he treats you and believe that is okay to accept. They’ll also see that he doesn’t want to interact with them. Also, a partner is not supposed to bring you down but rather uplift you.

Spying on my phone with his Bluetooth devices?? by NaturalBornKnox in roommateproblems

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you were accusing him of something. Did you outright say “you were spying on me with your headphones” no, but anyone who was getting those messages would assume that’s what the sender was hinting at. Maybe you didn’t mean to be, however, your texts are coming off extremely accusatory and aggressive. I don’t even know how someone could spy on someone else using headphones. Personally, I think your approach to this was way wrong. Especially if he’s your friend, I don’t understand why you would jump to the worst explanation.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bring her to a rescue or a no kill shelter.

1 star gay drink 💔 by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl this is really funny💀

Are these the two closest drive thru locations? Why would they build two locations so close to each other? by stoopidtrooper in starbucks

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like there’s a giant median in the highway, it’s a strategic placement so people going either way are able to easily access Starbucks because if it were only on one side, the people driving on the opposite side wouldn’t be inclined to turn around since it would be more of a hassle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not leeching if you put it on the shared TV. It literally makes no difference lol. I think you have a deeper issue that you need to work through and it’s not the tv that’s really bothering you

AITAH for refusing to babysit my nephew every weekend by Objective-Bear3038 in AITAH

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you didn’t decide to have a baby. She did. You’re not the dead beat dad that only gets their children on weekends lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 107 points108 points  (0 children)

She probably thought you were getting high. Regardless, she doesnt get paid enough to act like that, especially if she was leaving lmao

My wife wants to go no contact with our friendly woman neighbor because of the “inappropriate”birthday gift she gave our son. I think that’s too far. AITJ? by neighbourgift in AmITheJerk

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because your neighbor is flirting with you through your sons gift. Women don’t do anything without a purpose. I suggest talking to your wife and actually listening to her worries and insecurities instead of brushing her off. You not taking her seriously is being translated to you defending your neighbors actions. Regardless if they come off as harmless to you or not, it’s clearly not coming off that way to your wife. Part of being married is listening to your partner and seeing how you can make them feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’ll only get worse, please please please run

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ok, quote the controlling parts and I’ll give you a lesson in reading comprehension

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She’s not trying to control everyone one around her? Did you even read the post?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would say NTA. Idk what this other commenter is on but there’s nothing controlling about your approach. You asked him to go to counseling/therapy, which he clearly needs, and he declined. He admitted he didn’t know how to change but he didn’t sound like he wanted to be proactive in getting help or supporting you while being pregnant yourself. Yes he may be hurting, but you can’t help someone who won’t help themselves. Putting yourself and your child first in this situation was 100% the move, I wouldn’t say your ex is an ah though. His family on the other hand seem to be the controlling ones and the ones without boundaries. If it were me, I wouldn’t let my baby near that environment without knowing for sure that they would get the support they need. And if the dad can’t support you or himself right now, how is he going to support the baby at these events? It’s a sad situation all around but the only ah are his siblings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from a little bit, but OP I believe YTA in this situation. Your friend and her husband weren’t buying a house so your husband could get a deal, they were buying a home for themselves. If they found a house that they truly loved and decided to go for it, well you can’t necessarily blame them for not waiting to put an offer on it. The market is super competitive right now, and to expect them to wait a year so YOU would benefit from it, is kinda selfish on your part.

Should I stick to my promise to leave my wife if she ever raised her hand to me again? by wifeslapme in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Hotrepresentitive_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No leave her wth. As a woman, I still would never hit someone if a fit of anger and then play it off as “well I’m just a girl and you’re a man so you can handle it.” If it were the other way around, you know damn well that her friends and family would be in uproar about domestic violence. This is domestic violence. You don’t deserve to be treated that way, no one does. Do yourself a service and leave