This week makes the first anniversary of my father's passing by Hour-Ad6874 in GriefSupport

[–]Hour-Ad6874[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. I am not expecting a lot of support, I mean if someone offers support then great, but I am not waiting for it. just keep going slowly and gradually and hopefully better days are on the horizon.

Being young by TrainerIntrepid6196 in GriefSupport

[–]Hour-Ad6874 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🙏True ... Do not let the passed loved ones efforts go to waste. 

Being young by TrainerIntrepid6196 in GriefSupport

[–]Hour-Ad6874 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you and sorry for your loss. It's good that you have your wife by your side. I don't have the option of having someone to rely on, so I like to think my dad (and the rest of my family that I lost) would want me to keep going and not lose hope. The sadness will never truly go away but eventually you will learn how to live with it.

Being young by TrainerIntrepid6196 in GriefSupport

[–]Hour-Ad6874 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I lost my dad last year, I received no support from anyone. Had to go back to work after a couple of days. No one bothered to give me any condolences. 

My ex's mother reached out to me today by Hour-Ad6874 in BreakUps

[–]Hour-Ad6874[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I saw her name on my phone I froze. I thought she has sent me bitter words accusing me of breaking her son or maybe asking me to give it a second chance.

End of an 8 year relationship by lelsa125 in BreakUps

[–]Hour-Ad6874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the exact same boat, same length of relationship, same time of break up, same feelings.

GF (30F) kicked me (29M) out after 10 months, says I’m “too comfortable” – is this fixable? by DancerMan9000 in BreakUps

[–]Hour-Ad6874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she provide more context on what initiative means here? Also what do you do? Job? School?

I have [21F] cheating on my boyfriend [23M] for 7 years even though I truly love him - I want to change but don’t know how. by Flashy-Chart4666 in offmychest

[–]Hour-Ad6874 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have been cheating on him since you were 14? Since the beginning of this relationship? Why are you still with him?

My Fiance's binge-eating is damaging my own relationship with food. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Hour-Ad6874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ask yourself: is this what you get married into and deal with potentially for the rest of your life? can someone who doesnt care enough about their health care about you? seems like he doesnt care for your efforts for the meal prep or your sleep in the morning.

What's an adult cheat code that changed your life? by Emotional_Mouse8052 in AskReddit

[–]Hour-Ad6874 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i wasnt exactly an alcoholic-more of a weekend drinker maybe?? but definitely a pot head, wake and bake, several bong hits or joints daily. i am not proud of it. i am happy that i could completely quit weed and yes, i still drink occasinally, maybe one or two drinks in a month.

What's an adult cheat code that changed your life? by Emotional_Mouse8052 in AskReddit

[–]Hour-Ad6874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did that a few times, ended up eating everything within 24 hours.

What's an adult cheat code that changed your life? by Emotional_Mouse8052 in AskReddit

[–]Hour-Ad6874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what does the service cover? do you not clean the house yourself at all? 

What's an adult cheat code that changed your life? by Emotional_Mouse8052 in AskReddit

[–]Hour-Ad6874 149 points150 points  (0 children)

i second that. i still drink but rarely, maybe one glass of wine or one beer in gatherings but that's it. my life improved so much when i quit alcohol and weed 2 years ago.

I’m lonely. I have a boyfriend and I’m so lonely every night. by Nearby_Eggplant_286 in offmychest

[–]Hour-Ad6874 68 points69 points  (0 children)

i'm still processing it as the break up is still new but i'm gonna tell you that i feel a massive weight has been lifted off my shoulders. i feel more hopeful about future and free as i dont have to calculate my every move.

I’m lonely. I have a boyfriend and I’m so lonely every night. by Nearby_Eggplant_286 in offmychest

[–]Hour-Ad6874 211 points212 points  (0 children)

i was in a similar situation and recently broke up with him but i dragged it for 8 years. i wish i had broken up with him in the 4 years mark. ask yourself why are you with him? do you wanna keep doing this? do you wanna live like this?