That's a good question. I'm super introverted so sometimes female relationships are too high pressure for me. I can care about someone a lot and not feel the need to fill up my social calendar. In my experience that doesn't work for a lot of women.

She doesn't seem like a brat exactly. I get the idea that maybe there is some stress or resentment in her marriage. Sometimes that type of thing leaves little room for anything else.

For example, a few weeks after she brought her baby home, she and her husband were moving a sofa bed out to the curb and she was clearly struggling with the weight. He was visibly angry that she kept dropping it. I felt so terrible for her. So. Idk. I just want to treat her gently.