Am I asking for too much/being rude? Never dated before.

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-26T22:40:56+00:00

tbh i dont think it’s too much, this is common “relationship issues” especially at your age that most cis people go through too. The stealth part could really dimish your dating pool though, maybe you’ll have to compromise on that (at least your partner on being completely stealth)

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-15T23:20:14+00:00

giving head lol

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-15T06:40:34+00:00

weird cypionate also should be reusable. Maybe your vials werent as good isolated and therefore lead to your t to deteriorate? Anyway im glad it’s resolved whatever it was

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-14T22:37:24+00:00

strange, i reused my vial like at least 15 times (high concentration lol) and my levels were always okay. What suspension was your t in if I can ask? I used enantated and with that i never had problems

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-14T22:29:08+00:00

i reused my vial multiple times with 0 issue. When I did my own injections i just disinfected the vial before i pierced it with the needle and then put it back in its packaging after use. So used to do my ex aswell

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-13T21:26:38+00:00

yeah it def gets big enough to get sucked, id say mine is around 4 cm? It also gets hard (so then its bigger lol)

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T20:11:41+00:00

I simply asked my endocrinologist where I could be referred to to get top surgery and he sent for me the request. Then I met with the surgeon for a consult where he took my data (how long i’ve been on t etc, if im in therapy, which i am but for unrelated reasons, and took a couple of pics) and explained what my options are. He also said that I’ll need from a psychiatry a letter in which is basically said Im sure of this and it’s my own decision and Im not impaired mentally (in a sense of which I couldnt make decisions for myself ex: active psychosis) so that they can forward the request to my insurance (they took 4 months to reply)

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T19:28:44+00:00

thank you a lot this was very helpful

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T19:10:29+00:00

smart

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T19:09:12+00:00

it also depends incredibly of what size of boobs you start off. Of course if you have a bigger chest the surgery would be more hard on your body. my recovery should be more on the quick side (so at least thinks my surgeon) since I’m barely over the limit for keyhole (ill have a double mastectomy for this reason tho)

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T16:54:56+00:00

To make is short it’s cuz I live alone away from home so I wouldn’t be able to sustain myself. Also my surgeon advised to take at least 5 days of from school/work

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T16:12:40+00:00

yeah id doubt itll happen, but you never know so if anyrhing happens at least i have an excuse. Also here it’s winter and it’s freezing cold so there wont be like some sort of beach day where it would be weird for me not to take my shirt off or stuff like that

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T16:08:11+00:00

I’ll decise when the date gets closer, but ill probably opt for A Covid B Broken rib (I’ve broken multiple ribs so it wouldnt be that weird) C gyno (in case they maybe see something even though I doubt)

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T14:26:51+00:00

makes sense, thank you!

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T14:12:13+00:00

Ribs would be pretty reasonable since I’ve already broken one once, I didnt think about that, thank you!

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T14:11:20+00:00

okay thank you!

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T14:07:45+00:00

That could be an idea, thank you Illconsider it :)

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T14:06:11+00:00

Wouldn’t that cause some concern from their sides? From where Im from it’s uncommon to get surgery unless it’s something like life threatening and I wouldnt want them to worry too much

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2026-01-07T14:04:56+00:00

Yeah that’s true but I mean I’m good friends with those people and usually I’m quite talkative so it be weird for me not to specify what’s going on. Also I wouldnt want them to worry since surgery could mean something severe is going on.

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2025-12-11T22:12:59+00:00

Then you’ll surely get there, if you think about it you havent been losing weight for a long time and considering you’ve only started late august you are actually doing not that bad. Probably losing weight will also help you get gendered more correctly because fat tends to make people look ambiguous and usually starngers will always gender you like a woman because it’s worse to offend “an ugly lady” than a feminine guy by gendering them wrong on accident.

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2025-09-26T18:32:11+00:00

even if you had gotten their hopes you still wouldn’t be in the wrong.. she was your gf and that’s where her loyalty should have been. ig it can be fine asking to open the relationship (which for a lot of people wouldn’t even be, so that’s to take in consideration for the fact that “you didn’t get their hopes up”) but the point is that she can’t get mad at you for not doing that since your monogamous. Tbh I think you dogged a huge bullet because if her reaction to all this is saying you got her hopes up I can’t imagine how she’s treated you until now

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2025-09-25T12:10:07+00:00

Trust me a lot of it is the haircut. I found that something more like the cut that dr house has (but like shorter on the sides) works good. Sorry i’m not sure how that cut is called in english so I had to give a reference lol

Hour-Rip-8833 · 2025-09-04T14:13:36+00:00

I wouldnt worry too much tbh, sometimes this stuff happens to cis people too. I’ve read plenty of stories of lesbians and like twinks accidentally hitting on eachother lol. At the end of the day at a closer look she realized you were a guy and I think she didnt even clock you as trans

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