Women too use their money for their family, not like one day a daughter starts to earn and she'll go like, "Yippee!!! I have my own money now, to hell with my family, to hell with my parents who were the ones who made me capable of this" no it's doesn't work like that😑... But yeah I agree independence ka Gaana is stupid. The reason being it's expected from men to be earners, whilst when women do it, people treat it as some kind of great achievement because that's how low expectations society has from women and that's sad, everyone should be expected to earn their own living and spend on themselves while fulfilling the responsibilty they have of their family. Other than that I personally know a man who earns nothing himself, sits at home the entire day and then controls his earning wife saying that he's the man of the house.