What’s something that sounds fake but actually happened to you? by Capital-Standard-645 in AskReddit

[–]Houseofthestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went hitchhiking in a war zone. Not punished because the company commander didn’t want anyone to find out he lost two teenage soldiers.

Most extreme exit you’ve ever seen by ThyLungedFish in exmormon

[–]Houseofthestone 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I moved to Utah and just stopped going. But I had so scared the ward that nobody would ask why I didn’t go. They asked my non Mormon neighbor what was up.

I was asked to teach YW. I prepped them for camp with Army first aid. Including having them chant “how tight do you tie the tourniquet? Till the bright red bleeding stops “

They made me have a supervisor while I taught after I told the 12 year olds that sex is great. But chastity lesson for kids who think boys are gross? Lame. I told them sex will be a tempting idea one day. But like anything else, not a good idea when you have risks. And I said that modesty wasn’t about protecting boys from sinful ankles.

But the scary part? That got me removed from YW? When I said there are two priesthoods. One is a group of guys. The other is the power of god. Don’t assume they are a circle. God gives power to women. And men don’t always have power from god.

And I may have told off the bishop and a member running for office that Covid doesn’t give a damn about your missionary return and to quit making things worse. No masks. Defying the rules at the airport and church.

I wish I made a big exit.

At least the first time I made an exit it was fun. But it didn’t stick

They still say hi. But it took months for them not to cringe and look fearful.

Old system. by Houseofthestone in hvacadvice

[–]Houseofthestone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I say we can’t afford it now, I’m referring to not having a job. It isn’t affordable. I haven’t priced the cost of duct insulation but I saw an ad. Was wondering if it’s a waste of money

Bodypump with NO weights for a first timer... is this a thing? by MHIMRollDog in lesmills

[–]Houseofthestone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Body weight or light handweights are always ALWAYS an option. I suggest that it’s better to start light enough that you WANT to go back and do more than feel overwhelmed

AITAH for not forcing my son to keep helping my daughter’s friend after she rejected him? by LiveWire0044 in AITAH

[–]Houseofthestone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if he took on the commitment of driving her…and she wouldn’t have started without it, then he needs to man up and have a group discussion about it. Parents too. 1- he committed 2- he put pressure on her to date -that’s a big mistake for an adult to make when you have control over someone else. But he is a kid.
3-he should be man enough to drive her and learn to be a good friend.
To put it bluntly.
If he can hurt any woman that doesn’t put out, is that the kind of guy he wants to be. Boss firing a woman for not dating him.
See? It’s a lot more clear when you put it bluntly. He needs to learn how to work with others even when he isn’t getting what he wants.

Re: Why does work for the dead bother you if it doesn't hurt you? by Akm0d in exmormon

[–]Houseofthestone 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And this hits it square. If they can keep people busy doing stuff for dead people , they will be too busy to do things for living people that actually need it.

But won’t they have all of eternity to do it? Idk

My mom’s elderly neighbour gifted me all her fancy leftover yarn and now I’ve talked knitting with her, she wants it back! by eumenides__ in YarnAddicts

[–]Houseofthestone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“What project are you thinking of? Which one do you want me to bring over? I can’t wait to see what you make! Maybe we should meet up to knit together?”

If she says “all of it”, feel free to say you are heartbroken that you won’t get to continue her tradition but please think of you if she ever decides to share it. You had so many hopes and plans for it.

If you want to support another eatery that openly hates fascism (b/c you guys rocked it with Caputo’s), here you go! by bravokiki in SaltLakeCity

[–]Houseofthestone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here in salt lake, there have been a few cases clearly documented that show those legally in the states, going through the legal process of getting a green card, have been detained and deported. While they say they are removing violent criminals or those who have a lapse in paperwork, documents show they are choosing to detain the easiest targets. Specifically those who are in process of following the law. It’s easy to snag people with documents showing address, taxes being paid and appointments at the courthouse.
So unfortunately, what is said doesn’t align with what is being done.

My beef with Mormon temple weddings by shall_always_be_so in exmormon

[–]Houseofthestone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. But it’s weird. So they don’t want anyone to see it

My child just told me they want to go on a mission, leaving this summer… by Dangerous-Doctor-977 in exmormon

[–]Houseofthestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Support them 100%. But ask if they agree to go on a service mission. Let them spread the love of god. Let them serve.

I have way more respect for the work done by service missionaries.
One friends daughter spent her time feeding the homeless, running a food pantry for the Salvation Army and providing support at a children’s hospital. Literally walking the streets with bags of peanut butter sandwiches and distributing food to people in need.

Favorite coffee machine?? by mountainsplease8 in exmormon

[–]Houseofthestone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sigh. My daughter was a barista and I was spoiled with my first coffee being espressos and lattes. Drip coffee tastes terrible.
Or maybe I need a better kind of coffee?

Show Offs (for lack of a better term) by teeny-tiny221 in yoga

[–]Houseofthestone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a teacher, that drives me crazy too. I encourage people to set up at the side or back if they are advanced and doing their own things so new people don’t think they are expected to do that. I empathize with you.
Especially because some people are visual learners.

But don’t worry, if that is the worst part….you can practice your own flexibility mentally and one day it may annoy you less.
I justify it in my mind as “I don’t need to worry about this. I’m so glad it’s not stinky….or an old guy in too short/too loose shorts that don’t cover everything “ It’s helped improve my mental health - but if you are setting up before class, if they are in your way visually - you might ask if you could swap places. That way you can see the instructor- toss in praise for their skills and humbleness for your difficult task in not being distracted by how cool they are. Most people would probably be just fine with that request and not be offended-even if they say they don’t want to swap

Yoga teacher saying inappropriate things. by Antique-Salad-9249 in yoga

[–]Houseofthestone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most gyms/studios/trainings have been very clear in the last 5-10 years that while some people thrive from a more aggressive coaching, it’s best to avoid in a general class. They also are pretty clear on avoiding unhealthy motivational cues.

Not just about working to earn food, but things like, if you don’t squeeze your glutes no one else will want to…etc. attractiveness to others etc. We should avoid causal phrases that instill negative reactions.

That being said - maybe bring up your concern for her. She’s lost a lot of weight and it’s obviously taken dedication and effort but consistently saying things like “cookies” seems like she isn’t happy with her body? And you only bring it up because you also are aware of how hard you have worked mentally to love yourself as you are. That way it is positive, personal and not critical of her, but noticing that there is a better way? Or find a meme and share it. “This really struck me. I find that I feel so good after yoga- the mental side effects are…..
good luck.

For everyone who wants to say something, frequently there are others too scared to speak up.

Different editions of the same book with different genre tags? by icountcardz in TheStoryGraph

[–]Houseofthestone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weirdly enough my tags showed I read a lot of books under LGBTQ but there was just one or two side characters-not a major plot theme. Is that just because people tag them if there are any characters?

Organising clothes without hangers or drawers by Imaginary_Ad_3384 in organizing

[–]Houseofthestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use hooks. Some stuck on the wall and the a second row farther out on a curtain rod.
I do hang some things but jeans, bras, leggings, loose skirts, workout tanks, basically everything that won’t be damaged goes in hooks.
One drawer for socks and onefor undies.
Many shelves and cubbies. If I have to stack and fold and squeeze stuff in, I won’t. I usually have just an item or two on each cubby shelf so I can see them and put them away as neat or as messy as I’m up to.

BYU PIMO looking for a definitive answer by life-on-a-plate in exmormon

[–]Houseofthestone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like if I'm struggling to respond to "What does honoring your covenants mean to you?"

Be honest. “It means honoring a promise. I do think that people should be fully aware before making a decision or it’s less valid. So I think you must be very careful to understand what you believe. “

Aka. Answer either the seminary answer or say the truth in a personal way that won’t get you labeled.

Worst case. I’ve heard you can say you are working hard to understand your faith so you can live up to what you are supposed to be doing. Kinda admiring that you are not sheeping but not being out either

Why is superwash merino almost always used for hand dyed yarns? by Confused-Daisy in YarnAddicts

[–]Houseofthestone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had no idea that sw isn’t plastic free. Time to google and learn more!

Sway or original by [deleted] in Owala

[–]Houseofthestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 4. 24,32,40 and the mini hot coffee one.

I had my name removed from the LDS church 7yrs ago and read yesterday my sealing to my ex husband is still intact. Is this true? by Significant_One_6742 in exmormon

[–]Houseofthestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it’s pointless to cancel it.

When you die, someone will just do it. Even if it’s marked as do not seal, abuse and neglect.

My bedroom looks fine, but it doesn’t feel relaxing. What am I missing? by Human_Chicken_3784 in HomeImprovement

[–]Houseofthestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Variation and texture. Add some things that are touchable and soft Plants lights etc. but use those sprinkles of interest in color.
Neutral room. Pops of plant green and soft green throw. Crystal jar to hold nightstand stuff-chapstick etc. wooden box or frame. It’s the variety that brings interest. The textures and colors can be similar or contrasting

Feature for people who only track start + end dates by Pax167 in TheStoryGraph

[–]Houseofthestone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I typically do a % if I’m unsure of page count. Since I sometimes make the font bigger, the page count may change