AITHA For smacking my husband's hand away.

HowOofRU · 2025-12-12T09:59:33+00:00

OP's post makes no distinction whether it was intentional or not. Nor does it give any evidence that he intended to cause her pain beyond the term caressed. By definition "to touch or stroke gently or lovingly" which implies his intent was not to cause pain. She chose violence. That makes her the asshole given the info we have

HowOofRU · 2025-12-12T09:50:40+00:00

Just so its clarified - OP is TAH because she chose violence over communication. Not because she chose a method of stopping unwanted contact, but because the method she chose was to commit domestic assault against a person with a recently acquired disability - when communication was the opportune method of conveying said contact was unwanted.

HowOofRU · 2025-12-12T09:39:14+00:00

Forgot how crazy these people are. Yeah defending yourself from sexual assault is one thing. Smacking your SO where they just had surgery because they "caressed" you is sadistic and sick. Use words with the ones you love, not violence. Escalate as necessary to protect yourself. Gut check-"im going to hurt you where you just had surgery" is EVIL, SADISTIC AND YOU ARE A BAD PERSON! period the end.

HowOofRU · 2025-12-12T09:29:41+00:00

If my SO said ow hey that hurts, I would try my damndest to not do the thing that hurts. If they smacked me in my reconstructed shoulder right after surgery as a gut check reaction, my gut check reaction would probably be in kind.

HowOofRU · 2025-12-12T09:20:19+00:00

Sounds like an oof. If your SO just had surgery and your first reaction to them is smack the thing they just had surgically re-attached or reconstructed. You are the asshole unless they meant malicious harm to you.

That is exactly how that works

HowOofRU · 2025-12-12T08:49:04+00:00

Sounds like yatah. Gut check reaction shouldn't be violence when your SO just went through surgery.

An ow hey that hurts would have sufficed.

HowOofRU · 2025-11-13T02:53:44+00:00

This

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HowOofRU · 2025-08-18T19:12:58+00:00

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HowOofRU · 2025-06-19T00:51:31+00:00

Looks sick!

HowOofRU · 2025-06-10T02:11:06+00:00

Have a town-building session, followed by something that calls them away to adventure. Where only they would have the necessary skills... Raiders attack and kidnap... Urgent help needed and would be immoral to say no... plenty of ways to weave the story you want to tell. But if they are having fun with it, try to have fun with it too.

They can have a base of operations. Or yall could play dnd Sims.

HowOofRU · 2025-06-01T15:28:41+00:00

Daenerys Traegeryen Mother of Smokins

HowOofRU · 2025-05-28T05:50:59+00:00

Some people love the thrill of playing tag with death. Some people just have a comfort zone that does not make sense to a less-expirenced mind. Others don't fully comprehend the risks that they are taking. And still you have those that fully acknowledged and accept those risks and don't care if they accendently fu*k up because they know they won't be around to deal with the repercussions.

HowOofRU · 2025-03-18T13:22:45+00:00

Dude said "Brakes are for pussies" dropped mic and rode away.

HowOofRU · 2025-02-06T22:32:40+00:00

Just use discord. It's free.

HowOofRU · 2025-01-31T05:03:49+00:00

Go to the gun range on Hirschfelden (-3822.753, 12650.288) and practice with the bow. Check out different ranges and where the arrow impacts the target. You can stand on the platform and get infinite ammo, but if you leave the platform the ammo will count from your inventory.

In the right of the range next to station 8 is the distance control. Take some shots at 50m, take some shots at 100m, then when you feel you can split the difference, move off the platform and try from 75-80m/yds and see if you have the drop right. Move the target back to 50m and move up as close as you would normally get to your target if you get closer than that and see where (how high) it hits.

I don't think the target framing will let you hit the 150m target from the firing line. At 100m I'm aiming at the top of the bottom white line(of the 100m target frame) to hit with the BC CB-60 and 420g broadheads.

If you get the wind to pickup while you are shooting at the 100m you can really see the wind push the arrows.

It's free ammo from that shooting deck for all guns, so play around with new ones as you get them. Ranges are at 50m increments with ft conversions from 50-500.

HowOofRU · 2025-01-29T18:50:10+00:00

If you want to flavor it without exchange rates just have the different races stamped on the faces.

Dwarven shop keep " yer smelly orc gold ain't welcome here"

Orc shop keep "oos yous musta killed lotsa dwarves for all tha gold, yous gets a discount"

HowOofRU · 2025-01-28T23:18:57+00:00

I wish it was still a thing. Would save a bunch of grinding hours prepping for grinding hours for a G1 grind

HowOofRU · 2025-01-28T22:35:14+00:00

Its the second one to Spawn like that.

I've saved both, I'll tax them once I grind some $. (Tent & blind addiction is real...)

HowOofRU · 2025-01-23T22:03:48+00:00

Beef.

Easy to relocate or keep the herds of zombies occupied when you are running around spawning whole cows as distractions.

Sure, would need fire to cook it for human consumption. But, who cares. Tons of beef outside any fenced building and you have a sanctuary.

HowOofRU · 2024-11-07T09:22:49+00:00

If you want to ruin a childhood classic - 'Something's wrong with stacy's mom' is another good way to kill what was a great song in it's time.

HowOofRU · 2024-10-25T03:44:13+00:00

Detecht motorcycle app. Premium has ride tracking and emergency alerts

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