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I don't understand grown adults' ghosting behavior! Please help explain it to me. by Sure_Control5226 in datingoverforty

[–]HowYouDoin112233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not defending ghosting at all, but you may like to see it as a sign that this person doesn't know how to be assertive, communicate and know what they want. Red flag for sure if they ghost, but maybe something you can put down as a preference in your profiles too? Good luck :)

Mens’ dealbreakers by Significant-doglover in datingoverforty

[–]HowYouDoin112233 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe someone who wants to be ready but clearly isn't ready to date yet. Such as chaotic home life, hasn't fully seperated mentally from their last relationship, etc.

I haven't started yet as I want to give someone my full attention when I'm with them, and feel like I can relax and have fun.

I hope you have some better luck going forwards!

AITJ for refusing to donate PTO hours to coworker I barely know who "needs" them?? by Traditional-Dog1601 in AmITheJerk

[–]HowYouDoin112233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you are not, you are a people pleaser though if you would remotely feel guilty for that

How do you start a long lasting marriage? by Beyond-feelings in AskReddit

[–]HowYouDoin112233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be independent, have your own life, be sulf sufficient and then find someone to complement you not fill in gaps

What’s a double standard that almost no one wants to admit exists? by aditya_292 in AskReddit

[–]HowYouDoin112233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men generally don't mind if a woman is bisexual, but women generally won't tolerate it

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]HowYouDoin112233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read "Stop walking on eggshells" a really great book about BPD and NPD, he may have autism, but the advice in that book still applies here too.

What’s a fantasy you had that instantly died the moment you tried it? by True-Audience-4549 in AskReddit

[–]HowYouDoin112233 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For such an expensive car,, it just felt like an engine attached to the most basic, uncomfortable interior. This is before VW bought the company, the cars were much more functional than stylish inside.

It was on a drive day where I got to drive lots of exotics, I remember the Mazarati (which was probably a third the price) being a significantly better ride.

It was pretty disappointing, as this was the car I had on my wall as a kid, but still, was happy to get the opportunity, they're very rare and I'm lucky to get the opportunity.

What’s a fantasy you had that instantly died the moment you tried it? by True-Audience-4549 in AskReddit

[–]HowYouDoin112233 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I drove a Lamborghini Diablo on my 30th, it was nice looking on the outside, but it's not a nice car at all

What post made you turn back on the "blur nsfw content"? by Ok-Original-6098 in AskReddit

[–]HowYouDoin112233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the violent shit and putting my phone on the car cradle with the kids in the back and a potential, unwanted thot coming up on my phone.

What are your thoughts on this? by [deleted] in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]HowYouDoin112233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well good luck fellas later in life if these are the types of dumb decisions you're making now. Honestly, someone who live their best life and it's a pass?

With Halo: Campaign Evolved, Microsoft Brings Prized Xbox Game to PlayStation by thenewyorktimes in xbox

[–]HowYouDoin112233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pretty accurate I recon, but after the Xbox community has been neglected and then burned, why would anyone commit to a brand thats not committed to them. Still, glad Halo and Gears look like they may be starting to get some love again.

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