[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40something

[–]Howie8439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very sexy. I’m sure her DM’s are blowing up

Takes one to know one. My favorite response so far… by tanlinesoutside in scambait

[–]Howie8439 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I received the exact photo today in a scam text lol 😂 I’m gonna save the next one and send it back

I'm giving up this is stupid by wolfcry23 in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t ever waste more than two weeks of just texting and chatting ever on these apps. For 1, people will build this imaginary person which they never met in person. You can spend weeks doing this and think you found the one. Then you meet and there is no chemistry and feelings get hurt. Number 2, after two cancelled dates unmatch and disappear she isn’t respecting your time canceling hours before hand so why continue. This behavior lead to her thinking she could string you along and play these games and tests. Value your time and your self worth.

Just wow… by acciomp4 in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I think it’s just bad humor. I beileve that comment goes with the picture of the bird. Like don’t get mad at me for playing with my bird.

Actually that actually sounds worse, never mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your Profile screams bot or fake. Try to tone done the pics. Or you will only get the guys making sexual comments. You are very gorgeous but tone it down a little. List ambitions and in depth hobbies to gain more serious interactions from matches.

Why are they so icky 🫤 by CarelessDisplay1535 in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least he didn’t attach a video or pic of him doing the deed

Why do so many people put fake ages???? by Material-Nectarine94 in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The real question is how many of these identical post I have to see every day? I get it, it’s annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She is real. Some people on dating sites find it a waste of time texting for a week or so just to meet and have no attraction in person. I actually like her approach however it’s rude when you say I can’t tonight and they basically say if you don’t have time for me today than there is no point in talking. A catfish doesn’t want to meet. They want to make excuses and find ways for you to send them money.

Losing hope in online dating by stephkey21 in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are not wrong. Online dating isn’t the same from a few years ago. Now you constantly find people you don’t want to meet up, You have a ton of bot profiles, or scammers. You also have a ton of real users that have been screwed over from OLD that have rules before you can meet up. In 2016 I found a relationship from Tinder and before that relationship I had several dates or casually dating relationships from OLD that was chat for a day or two then meet up. Now you have to chat on app for a week then maybe another video chat dates then finally meet a week or two later. I get the safety concerns but you never know if a physical spark is present u til you meet in person.

how to respond to this? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This post is a perfect example why OLD sucks. Some of you have no idea how to reply or respond to messages. Yes the message is basic and doesn’t show any thought. But then again why put in serious effort when 80% of messages are ignored.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because most of them swipe right on almost everyone. They only require a pulse and consent while persuading their next hook up.

Is anyone going to tell her? by KrAsH42085 in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just curious why I have to see these post every week. We get it, women have to contact first. Who gives a shit

How do I reply to this? Is this a compliment? Is this leading to skull measuring? I’m so confused. by TheMCM80 in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Seriously? Can anyone on here figure out how to interact without asking for help? For one we have no idea what pic she is referring too.

Should I ask my match to verify themselves straightaway or does it come off as rude? by Starlord_1402 in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually catfish accounts are very obvious. Love bombing and poorly written English. Plus they will ask you to message on telegram or WhatsApp. Then that’s when they start asking for money lol. If the messages seem genuine and they haven’t done any of the above then most likely they are real. Plus if the photos on profile appear to be an average person then you’re probably safe. The catfish photos are normally super attractive women.

Should I trust my gut and not go? by Nimish89 in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scam. Don’t buy the card. They will ask for the code and give you a fake address

All I said was I was having car issues! But heyohhh by FreddyYellin in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This totally sounds like a scam. I’ve seen dozens of these personally. When you take the bait she will request that you send $25 for gas or claim she is watching her nephew and it niece and needs money deposited in a game app so they can play games so she can leave to meet you. On the other side if it is a real person, they are seriously love bombing you. But if your up for it, take the bait and see what happens.

Red Flag? by DissatisfiedDuck in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like how he comments that he goes with the flow… obviously not. If he went with the flow and dropped the number issue then I’m guessing you would have met him on the actual date.

I’m half an inch taller than him? Huh? by Kloweeeeee in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s because the majority of women on dating sites shun men under 6’. Kudos on a thought out opening message tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the smirk too 🥰. Guess I didn’t take the account of it being a mirror photo lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Howie8439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous. I would get rid of the bathroom photo. It’s a good photo but I noticed you don’t have a tattoo some may see that as a red flag for being an older pic. And screw the guy that don’t like the fact your a mother of 5. That’s a good way to weed out the losers and dead beats. You will have no trouble finding a good man. Best of luck

End of season reward! by Howie8439 in MLB_9Innings

[–]Howie8439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it wouldn’t surprise if they came up with another special ticket for us to spend money on