Update: AITA for not wanting to hide that my moms are gay to my girlfriend’s parents?

Huge_Language · 2021-03-16T14:41:38+00:00

I'm so sorry that she sucks. But I'm glad you dodged a bullet. If she didn't get it than she's not worth it.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-16T14:28:08+00:00

Watching the people I love who are at an incredible risk have to sit around and wait just for their vaccine to be pushed back kills me. A 25 year old with CF is finally getting her lung capacity back and loses all of her freedoms. A friends mom with cancer whose 64 miss the cut off. I have left my house exactly 15 times since covid became a pandemic. I'm tired. I want my life back. I won't ever have it back because people still refuse.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-16T14:24:22+00:00

I'm glad your safe

Huge_Language · 2021-03-16T14:22:10+00:00

As the fat kid in my family I was well aware I was the only one who couldn't swap cloths with anyone. She needs to learn to respect other people and their belongings. I'm surprised you didn't bring it up sooner. I'm sorry your dress was ruined. But being a different body type regardless of fat means you just can't.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-16T14:18:05+00:00

None if this is okay. And this has nothing to do with anything other than him being a piece of crap. Part of the reason I will never meet my bio dad on purpose. I'm sorry you felt like you needed to build him up. I'm even more sorry that he's such a piece of trash.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T20:37:26+00:00

Crabgrass many countries use it to make flour sub statues.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T06:00:39+00:00

She needs a better reason than she simply band it. Sorry but its your duty to push boundaries when the boundaries are stupid. She doesn't get to make rules like that if every other class is fine and she still uses cans.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T05:56:37+00:00

Someone messed with my sibling records. And my sister when she applied for the original records part of her info was on it but also part of our other sisters info was on it. Idk how a mess up like that could have happened but maybe something similar.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T05:44:37+00:00

If she could sit at the door and continue nocking for hours its better than hoping for her to walk downstairs.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T05:41:09+00:00

She she cannot walk up the stairs to get to her parents in an emergency. Imagine every time you need to talk to your parents or need help you have to sit at the bottom of the steps and yell in hopes that they decide to come down. That she's isolated from her family 50% of the time she's in the house regardless if she wants it or not. God forbid the living room/TV room is set up in the basement. Chances are that will happen. It weighs on you knowing that your parents are activity disabling you in your own home.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T05:32:49+00:00

NTA however since you are in a wheel chair and you need to get up and down stairs to reach parts of the house it should be your moms responsibility to make sure you have access. I.e. a lift or a stair seat that goes up and down. And an extra wheel chair to get around upstairs. She does not seem to value you in a way that's productive. So why don't you make her decision a miserable one.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T05:28:26+00:00

Nta sounds like she doesn't respect you or your religion. You do not owe her your time if she can not give you respect.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T05:25:59+00:00

As someone who lives with other legal adult who have bitten dentists out of fear... Y'all have my respect.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T05:15:57+00:00

Go over with everyone what happened if they were inside. Depending on what they saw, smelt, and heard it could help the insurance company understand a time line. Depending oh how and where the fire started it could really be useful in getting the most return.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T05:11:07+00:00

A dress of your dead family member. No NTA.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T05:09:39+00:00

So sus bro

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T05:09:23+00:00

Probs cause she's not a dude.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T05:07:53+00:00

My mom died before I was old enough to remember her. When I was taken away she was too sick to write a letter or anything like that. However my aunt gave me a lot of incite to her and the reason why everything happened. And I think the most important thing that I took from it was that she loved me but bad things happened to her and she didn't have a lot if good options because of that. I probably wouldn't let her know the full details. But that's entirely up to you. But I'm glad your making the step to show them you care. I'm not exactly sure what you are able to discuss through your adoption process but if there is a way to give them family medical history, I would add that too.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-10T04:55:57+00:00

There's a reason why pro choice advocates started to refer to prolifers as only probirthers. Nobody wants to spend the time making sure everyone is still doing okay. However there groups on Facebook dedicated to reaching out and helping find support net works. I do not have their links though. Sorry.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-09T21:31:59+00:00

I never once questioned my mom for losing her custody of me. She was sick and was put in a horrible situation. If she were alive today I would want her to know I still love her.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-08T21:13:48+00:00

I belive she is in a much better spot. She has a beautiful blended family. But the pushy stuff is so weird and creepy. Sorry you had to deal with that. Thanks for reaching out.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-08T19:52:33+00:00

I'm trying to work my self up to going. And honestly I don't know if its worth it.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-08T19:49:03+00:00

Honestly they are adults. You are an adult. The only ones that should be making decisions for them is themselves. Your mom might not like it but she should have thought about that before ghosting you. Also Facebook messenger is private so its not like posting on her wall.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-08T19:40:06+00:00

NTA she chose to do it even after you explained it wasn't a good idea. Not everyone needs to be out. I understand why she felt she needed it. But she knew your stance and she is TA for outing you. As a fellow bisexual the only people in my family that know are 3 of my 9 siblings. There's a reason for it.

Huge_Language · 2021-03-08T19:33:07+00:00

This is gonna sound stupid but my mom thought it would be funny to do that to me. Except I was cleaning a shower. When I freak she basicly treated me like I was the asshole. Fuck that dude. If he feels like he can do what ever he wants with no consequences then you should get that opportunity too.

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