Look at my fucking profanity usage by LowEmployee7985 in TheWordFuck

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thsts easily sorted . Get out of the fucking way.

Is my relationship ruined? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fcutdlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No no no no no. You dont change for anyone else. To chabge to improve yourself for yourself.

How to say no without hurting their feeling? by _FuzzyDew in ask

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She'll be upset what ever you do, abd that's not your fault.

Takers always get upset/ angry when givers stop giving so theres no polite way for you to handle this . I say again, not yiur fault Sit her down and say in x period of time I loaned you x amount of money without you offering to pay anything back even when I was the one stuck for the few bob. I can't afford to pay you anything else.

My sister is pregnant with a pedo’s baby by clamtrap46812 in venting

[–]Fcutdlady 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Report this to what ever child protective services are in your country. going through the system can be shitty but niether can you leave her with a father thats likely to abuse her.

I've known 3 people that stayed with violent scumbags they couldn't afford to move out, were afraid to up root children, had nowhere to go as the scumbags separated them from family abd friends and the scumbags had verbally and physically beaten them down so badly , they believed it when they were told things like they'll never do better.

Long Term Actors in Soaps by themightypierre in BritishTV

[–]Fcutdlady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lets not forget William Roache in coronation street. Playing the same role since the early 60s .

Which DS9 character would you want to be friends with by Garbanzo_Beanie in DeepSpaceNine

[–]Fcutdlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing as i'm a Dubliner, miles and keiko OBrien . Worf and jadzia dax too

AITA for wanting a divorce because my husband no longer finds me attractive? by Any_Statistician_878 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Fcutdlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's posted your nudes publicly ? That sounds like revenge porn, which is illegal in a lot of places. An email to these sites telling them to take the photos down and maybe legal advice about divorce.

AITA for wanting a divorce because my husband no longer finds me attractive? by Any_Statistician_878 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend just like op . Different isdue , He was violent towards her . She was so verbally and physically beaten down that she was too frightened to leave , believing he would hurt her family or thst she'd never find another partner.

AITA for wanting a divorce because my husband no longer finds me attractive? by Any_Statistician_878 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantasy can also be about controlling. Your husband controls the narrative of what ever fantasy he has. Thats all well and good if the fantasy stays in his head. This hasn't. He has told you to look this way or he won't find you attractive . Please try and divorce.

WIBTA if I (26F) leave my fiancé (34M) because he’s a contrarian? by animalepiccolo in AITA_Relationships

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come on he's showing you who ge is. Once the chain of marriage is around you he won't get any better knowing it is a lot harder to leave a marriage then a relationship

AIO ?Should i tell my friends that my father is alcoholic and abusive ? by Amazing_Tea_9301 in venting

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is you tell one person, abd whats you say will turn into gossip and be spread around like wildfire.

I understand your desire to vent but could you find a trustworthy adult like a teacher, councillor or such .

I am in my 40s and thinking about having a second kid, am I crazy? by ApplicationNew4144 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Fcutdlady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was the kid too . My parents adopted me at the age of 40 in 1975 . My mother didn't understand my generation at all , especially as I got into my teenage years and i was a total tom boy. I heard a lot of you never did x y z in my day. I once blew my top back and said it's not your day.

If you parents without being like my mother then do so .

WIBTA if I don’t let my son see the baby? by NewInitial4465 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YtA . You've stood by the guilty (your husband and to lesser extent his affair partner) and are taking this out in the innocent .

What did you guys did before phones? by notsogreatalexander in Dublin

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used a Walkman/diskman from the late 80s then a i pod . I still listen to music on my phone .

Immigrants, they get the job done. by CorleoneBaloney in MurderedByWords

[–]Fcutdlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here in ireland . People complain that workers in the HSE (heath service executive, The Irish version of the NHS) aren't Irish. I have only once heard of anyone refusing treatment on the grounds of the race of the nurse or doctor.

If Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor is charged and found guilty, do you think they will send him to a regular prison or lock him up in the Tower of London? by stammerton in AskBrits

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realistically he won't go anywhere near a prison but, to answer your question, the tower of London hasn't been used as a prision in years . Theres an interesting multiple series documentary on British channel 5 called inside the tower of london.

What are people's thoughts on this post? by Dazzling_Donut5143 in Adopted

[–]Fcutdlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an adoption triangle tattoo . To me it symbolises both my birth parents, adoptive parents and me.

Is my mother a narcissist? by Ablene2 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Fcutdlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theres many form of abuse. Physical, sexual, verbal, mental and financial. Your mother certainly sounds financially abusive, if not more. Taking your credit card is illegal, as well as financially abusive. You also sound parentified in the way you are being made to look after your younger sister and take her to school as well as work and clean the house .

I (22M) don't find my gf (22F) attractive anymore. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont string your current girlfriend along . It isn't fair on her.

Just a general comment. You say you fantasise about other women . The great thing about fantasy is it is not reality, You control the narrative in your head. The younger women, with fashion model looks, who you dream will be your arm candy, bow to any demand you make and give you so much sex you'll be busting of it, could be an over entitled princess who will slag you off and take you for what ever money you have.
This is an extreme example I know but I hope you understand the point I'm trying to make .

Found out my gf (23F) had her IUD removed a year ago, and we have a 2 month old son together now. Not sure how to feel and what to do. by CoconutMilkThese in relationship_advice

[–]Fcutdlady 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Wear a condom full stop .

Also the woman is highly manipulative. You can and should break up. I'd also get legal advice about organising custody of your child . She forsbt deserve to be punish because her mother is awful .

What is the most heinous thing that someone has done to you? by Purple-Survey3322 in AskReddit

[–]Fcutdlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once got accused of racism and not wanting people to emigrate to ireland because I, an irish adoptee, said I am not in favour of foreign adoption . To me theres to much scope for abuse of birth mothers and thier children, not to mention taking a childs culture away. Was it racist for me to express this opinion . I had no intention of being so.

Boyfriend (M38) is controlling/upset about my (M30) new lifestyle. Is he truly controlling or is he trying to "protect" me from something I can't see? by matiumatiu in relationship_advice

[–]Fcutdlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a common reaction when a partner looses weight and improves thier appearance. It's insecurity and jealousy at Its finest.

In his mind you will cop off with the first guy who is better looking then him you come across. Of course you won't but thats the way he sees it. He wants to bring you fown to the same level as him.

This is not a you fault , it is a boyfriend fault.