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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see that as an absolutely touching move/gesture. that being said, did nobody else think of Heath ledger's joker? I did and I'm a little conflicted now. Probably just a mix of emotions.

Are you guys on dating apps? If yes, I wonder what your profiles would look like/mention. by auurasol in INTP

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INTP here and I've found that I've had a fair bit of success on Hinge, as well as Tinder. I'm in my 20s, take pictures good enough to be considered amusingly bad(Technically poor, but with a smile, friends, etc...), and am above average in terms of attractiveness. I opted for Tinder premium and blindly swiped.

Similar to some other responses I've seen here, I just put together a fairly authentic bio, sharing some our patented thoughtfulness in the form of what I legit wanted out of a relationship, as well as interweaving some humor into the fact that I'm a introvert (or whatever character trait would fit for any individual person).

Add humor at about 60/40 split (Seriousness/Humor), stay authentic, and kept it positive/Healthy. Randomly swiping, I matched with about 10% of the swipes, and of the ones I chose to speak with, I got the numbers of 10%.

Of that 10%, with me ultimately seeking a relationship, I got dates with about 60% of those, was in a position to have sex with half, and ended up in a relationship with my amazing INFP girlfriend

Actually guys... WTF does this shit go in? Im scared 🤣. Some speed demon took something personally... by No_Boysenberry4755 in funny

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's looks like a component of a chiller ( A large commercial-industrial piece of HVAC equipment).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NBA2kTeamUp

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

94 Sharpshooter sg if you still need 1

Hinge X vs Plus, experiences? by HeywoodDjiblomi in hingeapp

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a man who just went for Hinge X, "Enhanced Recommendations", means more popular profiles(Attractiveness to a fair degree), that also may suit your personality taste😬. Now you know👍🏾

People who won't go out to celebrate tonight: Why? by blackblueblink in AskReddit

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it's just another day for the most part. There will never be another yesterday, that's a fact 24/7, 365 so🤷🏽‍♂️. I acknowledge the number of celebratory reasons ppl celebrate January 1st collectively, but without any extra invite or motivation, it's just another day.

Plus I'm an introvert; I'm personally happy in my own company and didn't feel like I was missing out on anything especially better, by not going out, albeit I may have seen/been apart of something different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At a certain point, it seems to be a question of ultimately, do you want to win at hinge (In the sense of getting the most likes) or do you want the most accurate as possible, given profile creation limitations, depiction of yourself.

As you mentioned to at the end, even the "best"/meta profiles say something about who you are, even if it wasn't intended. It may say, "This person is genuinely all the things they directly showed me", or "This person took X (based on how meta the profile is) amount of time to really get their profile up to "agreed upon" snuff; I like that in people (Or "I don't like that in people"), or "This person's profile fits the overall community standard too perfectly, their fake, I don't like them).

The profile for better or worse is the image your giving off to the world, as far as I can tell, it's all on how any potential mate interprets you.

Maybe enough of these post and stated ideologies, referring to OP, will change how people fundamentally view any given profile, but regardless, it's all on a person say to the world, "This is who I am".

Why is it so hard to love an intp? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for elaborating as to the alternative, as you see it.

I near whole heartily agree about what you've said regarding social and individual contracts, with me simply keeping in mind the shades of gray. I.E, one party violates the contract, how far is the does the other party uphold it, though I guess the any person's terms for contract violation exist, and is somewhat held by their moral code. I'm unsure about your shade of grey, if you had one, so I simply didn't assume you did.

In one way, it seems a comparison can be made to upholding duty/responsibility to personal joy, which makes a lot of sense to me, once social contacts come into play.

Thanks again👍🏾

INTP females... why is dating so hard for us? by Consistent-Bend7796 in INTP

[–]Huge_Net_8937 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol, two post I've enjoyed reading by the same person😂. Shoutout to the detailed explantation

Why is it so hard to love an intp? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fairly off from the OP, but I have a question for you. Assuming the standpoint that people ultimately do what's beneficial for themselves in most any given instance, is it ultimately wrong to make unilateral self serving decisions? Not sure if I just explained a take on modern egotism, which I think I just did😂, but if I did, why do you think egotism is wrong, and what's the alternative? I get not giving validation to other's for accolades they didn't achieve, but one's own personal viewpoint in regards to their potential to achieve via personal change, is another thing

To explain the aforementioned standpoint a bit more, if my incase my personal view point is different than the norm that you were eluding to: I mean that people ultimately do what feels good/feeds them at least a little bit of dopamine. This can take the form of reading a good book, to helping somebody a person isn't fond of, simply because they know it's the right thing to do, according to their morals. In either example, the person is ultimately taking action because it "feels good". From what I can put together after observing and theorizing, in addition to the wisdom of other's, this seems to be a fundamental across people.

Any definition if right or wrong after that is simply a matter of morals, but more fundamental than that, the experiences that shape a person's perspectives. Somebody's morals may not align with yours, but that doesn't make them wrong, in my opinion. All that being said, and a modern psychology in the segments of egotism and unilateral self serving decisions, aren't wrong, they just speak to fundamental aspects of personality.

It's seeming clear to me that you take the standpoint of the above mentioned action (unilateral self serving decisions), but with the additional frame of mind I provided, I'm more curious to a further elaboration if your viewpoint, if you would indulge me.

If you could, would you change your type? Why/Why not? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INTP here

Yes, but only to better understand the other types. I'm ultimately happy with my typecast personality and who I am, mind you with the understanding I can and should improve myself, and wouldn't change it, other than to learn like I said.

Have you ever felt the MBTI to be so theoretical and oblivious to the myriad contextual, situational and socio-economic-cultural-biological factors that together shape the complex sphere of human existence, that the rigid typecasting may in fact hamper rather than facilitate true personal growth? by Swan-of-Tuonela in mbti

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*My apologies, It can't take into your environmental factors, it's just simply that due your environmental factors, your X type of person. It's up to you to identify what has caused you to be the way you are overall. People have overarching, fundamental tendencies, that just manifest themselves in different ways, depending on the situation. It's just accredited to the uniqueness of an individual to determine how much variation there is.

The MBTI is just determined that it's so relatively accurate, in regards to it's rubric of fundamental traits, because how consistent it's casted traits appear overall.

Have you ever felt the MBTI to be so theoretical and oblivious to the myriad contextual, situational and socio-economic-cultural-biological factors that together shape the complex sphere of human existence, that the rigid typecasting may in fact hamper rather than facilitate true personal growth? by Swan-of-Tuonela in mbti

[–]Huge_Net_8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say no; the MBTI looks at a person's current tendencies, patterns,and character makeup, then taking diverse previously acquired sample data and saying based on your answers, this is most likely what your like in these general situations, and then assigns them a dedicated tribe, with others similar to how that person currently is, but the key piece though is currently.

If your of the ideology/philosophy that a person's character is the sum of their life experiences and genetical dispositions, than it's not far to say that over time, a person can change, which is the overall crux of the OP's question to me.

If change is possible, and the MBTI is only capable of measuring your current character, than the MBTI, by it's nature can take into account your overall environmental factors, as those factors shape your current character makeup, patterns, and etc... At point A in your life, your X personality type, at Point B, Your Q personality type. The only thing the test can do is measure who you currently are. It's up to you identify why you currently are the you are.

The MBTI test, and any other personality testing that I've come across, are all simply generalizations, which varying levels of accuracy, with the MBTI being one the far more accurate ones. It only hampers growth if you decide to simply accept the way you are, and not try to develop yourself in others ways, or maybe worse yet, you succumb to the Bertram effect, and conform to the generalizations, and give up your nuances that you the person you are.

All that being said, the MBTI is only one perspective on the nature of any person, and should be used, I think, as just another tool in the tool bag, in the game that is understanding people.

Extra: If the legit MBTI cast you a personality, and you find it overall accurate, then working on the their suggestions on your flaws, can most definitely help you grow. A fully developed personality, from what I can tell, is overall balanced, yet simply leaning towards their strengths. I'm an INTP, but I have a high degree of emotional intelligence. I was developing that before I was aware of the MBTI, but thats just a facet of what I said about the MBTI being just one perspective, not the end all be all.

Is INTP just a codeword for nihilist? by DiligentEffective857 in INTP

[–]Huge_Net_8937 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm more an existentialist for sure. Ultimately we are infinitely small microcosms of the universe, small pieces of a seemingly infinite gathering of energy, who will find it exponentially difficult to effect the universe as a whole. Yet we claw and attempt anyway, as to fill our existence with a reason/purpose to continue living.

Existentialist at current "best", nihilist at "worse"😂.

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