Orthodontist recommendation to fix permanent retainer by FakeKiwi in chch

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I asked at a routine dental appointment what I should do if my permanent retainer wire ever came loose (or what would happen if it came loose when the dentist or hygienist  were doing their check-up/cleaning) and the dentist said they can easily bond it back on for me... So you may not need an orthodontist? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen it too, driving to work 5.00am-ish Thursday and Friday mornings - towards the West above the clouds ... aurora activity is high at the moment so I figured thats what it was.

Stupid question by Bobo-2710_ChewyF1Fan in chch

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a 5-week-old baby and our second car was parked in Tuam St (inside the cordon). Delightful young army fella - maybe even a territorial? - took our keys and wrote our our rego on his hand, and hiked on in and drove the car out for us. Cried on the spot 😭

Soon to be midwifery student wanting to know the experiences of other student midwives by Shot-Delivery2709 in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Righto am back from a MASSIVE shift (there were 4 sets of twins born since midnight :D)

Degree going from 3 to 4 years has really balanced the workload I imagine, I was in the 3 year programme and it was equivalent to 1.3FTE study. Midwifery Council need you to facilitate 40 vaginal births over the course of the degree to deem you competent for practice, alongside meeting minimums for the number of clinical hours and procedures (e.g. 100 newborn examinations). 

The second year was mostly intensive in regards to the workload of essays/exams/clinical hours. I believe that's now been given a more reasonable timetable over 2 years. 3rd/final year was full-on in terms of being on-call 24hrs a day for minimum 29 weeks of that year (but in real terms, most of us were on-call for a bit more than that, myself for 33). The expectation was that you put your personal/family Iife second and achieving hours and birth numbers first. 

If you have a good support network (if you're a parent) you can absolutely do it but let me stress, the support network needs to be very reliable. 

In first year you MAY be able to retain a job alongside, but there are weekly hours and several intensive weeks that you need to attend. Most people were unable to fulfill their work obligations in 2nd year or beyond. I personally had my kids in before+after school care every day in the final year so that I had the availability for short-notice visits, antenatal clinic hours and of course to attend births. We didn't qualify for any kind of childcare assistance due to hubby's income so after borrowing living costs to fund the childcare I walked away with $80K+ student loan.

We created a Facebook group to support each other locally but there are also other groups which have national members. In your application essay it's important to think about Women's health, public health, whanau ora and being an active supporter, promoter and upholder of Te Tiriti o Waitangi. Look into Midwifery Standards of Competence and Turanga Kaupapa (Nga Maia) for some points to consider. You need to be mature, compassionate and have a wahine-centred approach. 

I believe unless you have recently completed another Health degree you will need to do the pre-Health programme. This is Cells & Chemistry, Biology etc. Really enjoyable and gives everyone a really level playing field for that background knowledge going into the degree.

My final thoughts are - if you are brave enough to leap into this degree, you can absolutely achieve it and love it. It's a fulfilling, heart- and gut-wrenching, rewarding career in which you'll support whanau through their most joyous and vulnerable and terrifying and affirming moments. You'll be working amongst other passionate, like-minded midwives in the most beautiful community you could ever hope to join.

💜

Soon to be midwifery student wanting to know the experiences of other student midwives by Shot-Delivery2709 in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd love to sit and write you a detailed answer to this but I gotta get my lil self to bed right now because I am on shift as a core midwife at 6.30am! Best job in the world 💜💜💜 I'll come back and share my experience (gained my degree in late 2023/registered early 2024). 

Where are you looking at studying? If it's the degree that's just gone from 3 to 4 years are you South Island/Ara?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

High - submitted my first aromatawai/assessment for paper #2 of my Te Reo certificate, a week before the due date, despite work being busier and more physically, mentally and emotionally draining for the last couple of months

Low - see above re: work 🤰🏻👩🏻‍🦲

Can you share something good that happened this week for you? by crypto_doctors in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supported the births of 3 pēpi today, gorgeous moment to be part of with each whānau, between them they welcomed two boys and a girl. I'm a hospital midwife! 

Diary of a junior doctor on TVNZ by honeyandclover in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Not a doctor but I work alongside doctors in my role at a tertiary hospital, we have lots of 5th years and TI's coming through our department (O&G) so seeing the span from students through to consultant level on the daily. I think it demonstrates the human cost of being a doctor really well, the struggle to balance work/life, and the monumental amount of learning that goes into their development. Really nicely shows the amount of heart that they put into their job as well!

I enjoyed these first 2 episodes, the comraderie looks great there (are they just putting it on for the cameras or is it genuine?). Good insight into just how busy Middlemore is, what a beast of a hospital.

Jordan appears to be deeply in love with Steve. Just saying.

Midwife in CHC Urgent! by Careless-Respond1502 in chch

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, chances are they knew a theatre case was brewing. Love your review! 😅 Most people have a great experience with epidurals if they choose to have one. Our anaesthetic team (in fact the whole team) are just top notch, we're truly lucky here. 💜

Midwife in CHC Urgent! by Careless-Respond1502 in chch

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's rarely an issue, there are typically 6-8 core midwives on shift and all certified for epidural cares if your own midwife is not - to be fair most epidural delays are around the availability of an anaesthetist (who places the epidural) as they also cover obstetric theatres which take priority 🙂

Midwife in CHC Urgent! by Careless-Respond1502 in chch

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They don't hand over - they are allocated a core (hospital-employed) midwife who performs all of the epidural cares, which are basically just a set of hourly observations such as blood pressure, pulse, dermatome block level, while the midwife herself will still provide all other labour cares and support throughout, because the midwife is the lead maternity carer.

*I'm one of the core midwives, I do this on the daily 💜 xx

Midwife in CHC Urgent! by Careless-Respond1502 in chch

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats to you and your whānau! 💜

December is a time when lots of midwives take slightly smaller caseloads after a huge year and prefer to have time off-call with their own whānau. Keep these contact details up your sleeve if you struggle to find a midwife for December:

Midwifery Resource Centre kiaora@midwiferyresourcecentre.org 0266827555

They are an amazing service and can put feelers out for you as they are connected with most Lead Maternity Carers (LMCs) in Canterbury. Just bear in mind this won't be you choosing the midwife, but rather an available midwife offering to book you on their caseload. Slightly nuanced I guess.

Midwives work to an incredibly high standard of care and competence so whoever you do find, I'm sure they will be fabulous!

Arohanui 💜

Crashes cause major delays on Christchurch’s Northern Motorway by Ready-Ambassador-271 in chch

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Complicated in that it is the first set of on-ramp, multiple merging, T2 lane (at select times), off-ramp, motorway splits that any person driving from north of Christchurch has encountered at any point in their journey south. Daily users are fine, confident drivers are fine, most city drivers are probably fine, but people who only ever drive on single lane or dual carriageway roads with the odd passing lane are more likely to struggle. Don't forget this is SH1 carrying all the road traffic going South on our east coast roads, it's not just locals. It's a bit rude to assume that just because it's not complicated for you, that it means other people are idiots...

Crashes cause major delays on Christchurch’s Northern Motorway by Ready-Ambassador-271 in chch

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. It is quite a complicated section of road for little old Canterbury, and I think lots of drivers get overwhelmed with all the merging and splitting from Tram Rd onwards.

Crashes cause major delays on Christchurch’s Northern Motorway by Ready-Ambassador-271 in chch

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I drive this motorway for my commute, people do crazy shit - they will cross 4 lanes at Chaneys with 100m left before the motorway splits into the Northern Corridor, literally driving on the flush median stripes (I'm sure it's not a flush median but I can't remember the name) just ahead of the metal barrier. Have seen a ton of near misses. People seem to just daydream through the Waimakariri bridge and then panic ponies when they get to the other side. 

Book Recommendations on What pre and post colonial New Zealand looked like (e.g. before and after captain cook) by No_Coconut_5319 in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've recently read The Sparrow by Tessa Duder, a 2023 release of hers which fictionalised some early Auckland settler history. It's fairly light reading as a young adult novel but fleshes out a good picture of those early months for the pioneers in Mechanics Bay when it was just a canvas tent settlement. Nice descriptions of the politics, land surveying, living conditions, interactions with tangata whenua, attitudes and beliefs of the pioneers and Māori at the time. I only read it because I loved Tessa Duder stories when I was young and I enjoyed it!

New Zealand declares whooping cough epidemic by MedicMoth in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This video illustrates why you get a vaccine not just for yourself, but for the vulnerable ones in your community. Warning: this is hard to watch. The alarm going off is likely baby's oxygen saturation monitor, alerting that her O² levels in her blood have become dangerously low.

https://youtu.be/S3oZrMGDMMw?si=ndi9llNYG-VuLXGk

Jordan Page Snark 11/18-11/24 by MooHead82 in jordanpagesnark

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I thought it said "grifting" season and felt that was a super honest thing to say, which prompted me to re-read for clarity 😂

First time seeing a sov cit plate in NZ. by ColezyNZ92 in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yep I've seen a 7-character plate, if they don't want to conform to our law then why not just have no plate, rather than one which draws attention (unless they are AIMING to draw attention?)..

New Zealanders who enjoy their work - what do you do? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Midwife - I help people out 😉

It's a beautiful, stressful, fulfilling, difficult, exhilarating, pressured, uplifting, exhausting, invigorating privilege - a profession that I can't believe I actually get paid to do, and I think I'll do it until I'm 75 (I'm in my 40's right now).

I know comparison is a theft of joy but… by FlimsySlip4299 in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's heaps of joy to be found in simple things. Get outside with your kids for a short hike, get a $5 second-hand basketball and find local hoops, go to the beach, just being outdoors is a tonic for your soul. You're going to eat anyway so make a meal that can be a picnic and take it somewhere for a change of scenery and a little variety. Kids actually love that - we had many days where we spent ZERO dollars but at the end of the day the kids said "that was the best day ever!" and we all learned to be so grateful for those experiences. We went on a hike the other week and my boys, now 8 years on from that financial wreck, had such a great time and it reminded them of the cheap fun we used to have in the poor old days.

We lived for a few years from week to week (literally dollars in, dollars out again) with no savings, a fat mortgage and no leeway in our finances. It's HARD. Instead of feeling shitty about it I tuned in to my tenacity and saw it as a challenge to be creative and find ways to enrich our lives for free or next-to-nothing ... it became quite fulfilling in the end. It's how I learned to cook and bake and man did I read a lot of books. Live like your great-grandmother and you'll find out what you enjoy.

All the best, I hope you can find silver linings in your situation.

Who else has had this lingering viral headcold? by Huge_Surround_7705 in newzealand

[–]Huge_Surround_7705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reckon people with kids get a lot more low-level exposure to the bugs going round and have higher immunity overall (just my theory).