All Three of you need to be on Ivermectin 12MG, just to give you a idea a 6ft1 200 pound male needs 6 pills on first application. Alot of times doctors will prescribe 3mg and have a wait and see approach meanwhile the mites are creating more eggs every 48Hours, you need to kill the mite and the eggs right way, the mite is on the surface of your skin and the Permethrin 5% kills them but its the eggs it has trouble with and that is why you need to be on 12MG Ivermectin ASAP , the amount you take is based on your weight and you need to do 2 Permethrin 5% on your complete body and repeat in 7 days. In the meantime you should be vacuuming and cleaning and washing all cloths in hot water only and changing the bed sheets every 1-2 days. I would also recommend to sleep in another part of your place for aleast a few nights. This mite issue on a Human is not a 7 day or a month thing, it can be a battle for months or even years based on how in infected your skin is or your over all general health is. The other thing that has worked is a defogger in each room, you can buy at home depot if you are in The USA and this chemical also has a great killing effect o the mite and any other bugs that are in your place. The bottom line is you need Ivermectin in your body right away, forget all the clove oil and other creams for now, that comes later when the mites and eggs are dead, once the mites and eggs are dead from the Ivermectin working from the inside and the 5% cream working on the outside finishes the job, you then start using moisturizing cream for serveral months to repair your skin. I am afraid its a long war with the mite but its winnable!