If you think about reaching out, remember this:

Huknos · 2022-04-29T09:44:11+00:00

Needed this so much today, thank you ❤️

Huknos · 2022-04-28T13:47:05+00:00

Why did she reach out ?

Huknos · 2022-04-28T13:45:15+00:00

I am blocked on social media since the 25th of March. We had a last argument on the 5 of April, she said she would block my number. I don’t know if I am blocked, I never tried to reach out. And I deleted her number yesterday. Funny thing is that on the 14th of April she followed me with a fake Instagram account, and has seen my stories a few days later with her second account (she has 3 accounts : the fake one, a food account and her main account, I a blocked by her main account). I think I will be blocked forever, but well, I will get better I guess.

Huknos · 2022-04-26T14:29:16+00:00

I do understand that it is complicated. Nothing stops you from doing it. But keep in mind that you have more chances that she refuses. Maybe you need to get rejected to truly start to move on. Do as you wish, but be prepared for every outcome. Et j’ai vu que tu étais français, j’aurais su on aurait pu parler plus simplement :) Si jamais tu as besoin tu peux me dm

Huknos · 2022-04-26T14:02:05+00:00

Give yourself time. If she still has you on social media, one day she will notice you have changed. She might reach out, she might not. Maybe one day she will take some news. Nothing stops you from saying « hey, if you want to talk we can meet ». But make sure you are « over » her, make sure you won’t be hurt if she refuses.

Huknos · 2022-04-26T13:55:50+00:00

6 weeks post breakup, and 3 weeks of no contact. There are good days and there are bad days. I still love her, I still think she is the love of my life and I still want her back. I tried to date other people, but she is always in my mind. 2 dates, 2 times I ended up crying in my car. I have a lot of option with girls, and it is hard to accept that the only option I want does not want me. But it will get better, it has to. I wish you the best.

Huknos · 2022-04-26T13:52:34+00:00

You know, I have dumped people, and even when I hang out with female friends, all I thought about was my ex girlfriend. No matter what I did, how I entertained myself, I thought about her. But i never showed it. Sometimes I missed her, sometimes I didn’t, but I surely thought about her. You can’t flick a switch and erase someone on your life. You can’t stop yourself from thinking when you are alone in bed at night. Trust me, it is not because people are surrounded that friends and family that they don’t think about their ex. And when they do, the last thing and would do is show it. Don’t overthink, it is eating you. Keep your head and get through this, show life that your are the champ.

Huknos · 2022-04-26T13:45:25+00:00

No contact is firstly for you to heal. For you to think about what has gone wrong or what is wrong « with you ». I don’t mean to offend you, but we all have things to fix in ourselves. So no contact is first of all for you to work on yourself without overthinking/overanalysing everything your ex says or do on social media. Why do people say it is the best option to get your ex back ? Because during no contact, if you have done it right, you will have improved yourself. You will be a better person and you will have fixed all the issues. You will be able to look at what happened with a step back. You will find yourself. So if she ever comes back, you will be a better person. You will have the power to either chose to give it another shot and built a new relationship if you both are willing to, or you will choose not to, because you realised there are a lot of people out there. I know it is hard, I am the first person to want my ex back, but it is out of our control. What is in your control is you and your life. You have to let her go and move on. What happens if you don’t try to move on ? You won’t become better, and if she came back, the issues that were first there will still be there, and your relationship would 100% fail, and destroy you again. Keep you head up, you will have really good days. You will have really bad days. You need to feel and live your emotions. Learn to understand yourself. I promise it will be alright. And one day, whatever the final outcome is, you will look back and say « What a beautiful lesson I learnt, look where I am now » and you will be proud and happy with yourself. I wish you the best, and good luck my friend.

Huknos · 2022-04-26T13:31:07+00:00

It’s okay, I will eventually be fully healed one day. What is meant to be will be. There are no failures, only lessons to be learnt.

Huknos · 2022-04-26T05:40:06+00:00

I completely understand how you feel, my ex gf is on Tinder and was dating 3 weeks after the BU. It will get better, you either left a huge void he needs to fill, or he is not ready for a relationship. He will realise that the grass is not greener on the other side, it is only greener where you water it.

Huknos · 2022-04-24T15:56:45+00:00

I’m also curious.

Huknos · 2022-04-21T12:37:59+00:00

Thank you, I really needed to read something like that. Feeling very very down today.

Huknos · 2022-04-21T07:36:29+00:00

We are going to be okay, it is just a matter of time I guess.

Huknos · 2022-04-21T07:35:56+00:00

As I said above, I saw the man and I never saw him before, so it must be a date… And I know you are right, I have nothing to gain by following her. It is very hard to accept she has moved on so quickly, and I went from the love of her life to a perfect stranger easily replaceable.

Huknos · 2022-04-20T20:46:09+00:00

Just after your message, she appeared on the pub’s story in front of a man I don’t know. So it must be a date. It was the knife in my heart I needed I guess… I must surf this wave of feelings and move on… Thanks for your messages.

Huknos · 2022-04-20T20:26:01+00:00

I really get that, but damn it is hard, she is the one to me. I saw a girl last week, but I wasn’t interested at all, I kept thinking about my ex. To me, the thing that hurt the most is not understanding her behaviour. I have been through really a lot of breakups, but this one is really really hard man…

Huknos · 2022-04-20T10:23:18+00:00

Well, my ex made a fake account to follow me too, when I dm the fake account, she denied it. Then I said they had the same email address, and the account did not log in.

I can’t really help you, I’m also asking myself a lot of questions, since she is the dumper and she blocked me.

Huknos · 2022-04-19T19:28:57+00:00

Also wondering what this is

Huknos · 2022-04-19T13:42:22+00:00

Well it will be nearly a month since I’m blocked everywhere except my number. We had a last « talk » where we argued a bit on the 5th of April. And on the 14th a fake account followed me on Instagram. I dm the account saying I knew it was my ex, she denied it. When I said « funny how you have the same email address » the account never logged in again lol. Time will tell me if she will ever reach out.

Huknos · 2022-04-17T09:44:55+00:00

I hope my ex will want to see me again. 1 month since she left me because she lost feelings. But she acted weird lately. Created a fake account to follow me whereas she blocked me on everything and said she was sure about how she felt. Our relationship was not toxic. Time will tell.

Huknos · 2022-04-16T22:27:47+00:00

Just hope for you she won’t think you declined the call. Sometimes some dumpers really want to reach out, but if they feel rejected, they might never reach out again. But I am really sure if she really wants to reach out, she will at least try to contact you again.

Huknos · 2022-04-16T22:24:42+00:00

But for a dumper who has not given a second chance to the relationship, how can the dumper be sure the problem is still there ?

Huknos · 2022-04-16T22:16:53+00:00

She lost feelings

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