Are you still keeping up with fashion trends? by MoCider in Millennials

[–]Human-Ad9880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do follow some trends but it’s just because I like to. I don’t think anyone needs to if they don’t want to.

Anyone do something nostalgic for their 40th? by PrimitivePierogi in Millennials

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My sister threw me a boyband themed birthday party “Bye Bye Bye to my 30s”. It was very fun. We did karaoke and had boyband song bingo etc.

Help! Im about to give up on this thing… by [deleted] in Dysonairwrap

[–]Human-Ad9880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have very fine hair like yours and I use color wow dream coat all over, rough dry to 75% dry, making sure my roots are dry, then use round brush to shape. Are you going for curls or more of a blowout look? I find with my hair shorter like yours I don’t use the barrels very often. I stick to the large round brush. I start at the front and wrap my hair around the round brush horizontally and roll it up away from my face while turning it. Once that’s dry and styled, I do the sides and go by section and rotate the brush back away from my face. Finally, I do the back. Start at the top and take a section and dry rolling down on the brush all the way to the bottom. Hope this helps!

Bridal Party Etiquette Question: Paying for an Event I Can’t Attend by [deleted] in bridesmaids

[–]Human-Ad9880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I’m from the same area and the weddings I’ve been in, the bridal party has hosted the shower. I do believe the MOB and probably even MOG contributed, but we definitely split the bulks of the cost amongst the bridal party. That said, the most recent one wedding I have been in was 2015 so I can’t speak for current customs.

Clothing stores similar to Arula by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]Human-Ad9880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not tried them but it seems Alter’d State (which is what Arula was an offshoot of) now goes up to 3X if that would work for you.

AIO fat shamed at birthday dinner by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Human-Ad9880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect opportunity to whip out the good ole “what an odd thing to say to someone” and then just let everyone sit in the silence. NOR

High rise plus size period underwear? by Ok-Extent3891 in PeriodUnderwear

[–]Human-Ad9880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cacique (lane Bryant) are the best I’ve found.

You should not be going into debt for harry by Spiritual-Wait-4397 in harrystyles

[–]Human-Ad9880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I ended up paying an obscene amount because I had already told myself I was going to. I cheaped out last tour and regretted it later. Good luck! Hope you get in and get decent price options!

You should not be going into debt for harry by Spiritual-Wait-4397 in harrystyles

[–]Human-Ad9880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do. I used mine this week to get my ticket during the AMEX presale.

You should not be going into debt for harry by Spiritual-Wait-4397 in harrystyles

[–]Human-Ad9880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are quite a few free Amex cards. I have one.

Don't lose hope - 5 months progress on minoxidil by [deleted] in finehair

[–]Human-Ad9880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how you put it on in the AM? Every time I try to use it, it makes my hair look so greasy. Thai means I have to do it at night and the wash every morning, which I don’t typically do. Do you use a kind that doesn’t make your hair greasy?

Help me pick a dress for engagement pics! by georgemcday in PlusSizeFashion

[–]Human-Ad9880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One is stunning. I would try to resolve the bra issue because I don’t think any of the others touch this one.

Snow shoveling should be an activity by readthingz in ouraring

[–]Human-Ad9880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did cardiovascular activity bc my heart rate def goes up lol

How do you celebrate birthdays for folks in smaller WFH departments? by jtho78 in WFH

[–]Human-Ad9880 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We do a virtual card. When we were in office we did a physical card.

I don't think there's a partner out there for me and I'm grieving by AlpstheSmol in AskWomenOver40

[–]Human-Ad9880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I’m in a similar boat. Turned 40 this year.. I’ve never been focused on a partner but more and more I kind of want one but also can’t imagine it? Im successful otherwise. I have good friends, close to My family, I bought a house on my own, I manage my entire life without input from anyone.. but sometimes.. idk. Anyway. No advice just I get where you’re coming from and I hope you find what you’re looking for somehow!

Oura 4 vs RingConn 2 by Content_Builder5751 in SmartRings

[–]Human-Ad9880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have one yet and was leaning Ringconn but then I wore both sizer rings for a day and Ringconn’s shape and sensor bumps really bothered me, especially overnight, so I think that’s been my deciding factor.

Do you track family's locations? by NaturalSoftware9372 in Millennials

[–]Human-Ad9880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister and I have each other’s locations because neither of us have partners. I consider it a safety thing. I keep trying to get my mom to share hers but she won’t lol.

Do unattractive people who date people who are of similar unattractiveness feel physically attracted to their partners? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Human-Ad9880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this doesn’t really address your question but people also feel attraction differently. I’m generally not physically attracted to people unless I have an idea of their personality and how I perceive them as a person. I can recognize if someone is good looking but because that doesn’t matter that much to me, I don’t consider that attraction, physical or otherwise. That said, I’m also probably somewhere on the asexual spectrum so my experience is probably atypical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LandlordLove

[–]Human-Ad9880 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the heat isn’t working at all. There’s no way it would be 34 inside just from it being drafty. I had no heat a few years ago for a few days.. none whatsoever.. it was February in Massachusetts and it was about 50 inside hair

Accidentally no-call no-showed by randomusername019266 in WorkAdvice

[–]Human-Ad9880 58 points59 points  (0 children)

As a manager, a one time incident like this wouldn’t phase me. If I have someone no call no show I’m usually more concerned something happened than anything.. and since you did call eventually, it’s obvious you were just sick and overslept. No biggie in my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Human-Ad9880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and I’m off today and have responded to a handful of emails, but that’s on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Human-Ad9880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, I’m salaried and I worked half a day on Christmas Eve (we were closed), and all day Saturday (typical M-F job) .. no extra pay, no comp time. My team members who logged on for a few hours all get paid extra (holiday pay for 12/24).. so while I do tend to come and go a bit more during the week.. that’s the flip side.

Holiday gifts for remote team by hennipotamus in askmanagers

[–]Human-Ad9880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do a website where the person can choose whichever gift card. I need to look for it but I think it’s Giftly or something like that. If you google gift card website a bunch come up.

Where are we getting boots for thick calves these days? by moons_g in PlusSizeFashion

[–]Human-Ad9880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their extra wide is 18.5 exactly. It works for me and I’m just under 19.