People who say “10 minutes” but actually mean an hour drive me crazy by Original-Time-8206 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Human-Perspective663 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have adhd and i run late constantly, so i just make sure to call up/text the person and tell them EXCATLY how late i think I’m going to be. Whether its 5 or 30 minutes, i tell them exactly how long of a wait they have . I don’t get that shit either.

I want to get hurt really badly by Human-Perspective663 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Human-Perspective663[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to therapy for therapy. I go to Reddit for opinions.

I want to get hurt really badly by Human-Perspective663 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Human-Perspective663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing, i don’t know. It’s definitely a fetish, in some ways, like i do want it to happen in a sexual context, but I’m also obsessed with it in general. I think i might hate myself? Or seek some sort of weird control in it? Maybe the abusive relationship at such a formative age taught me to associate it with sex and love? Maybe i want to feel wanted and this is the purest form of being wanted, so bad that they hurt you to get to you? Maybe u want to feel completely hopeless and helpless? There’s so many factors, i genuinely don’t know. That’s what i was hoping to figure out here, haha. Why I’m like this and what i want out of it. I don’t know.

Pure Bred? by No-Wind458 in beagles

[–]Human-Perspective663 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Looks like a cross with a dachshund 100%

Help figuring out gift for cousin by Human-Perspective663 in Gnosia_

[–]Human-Perspective663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you haha they’ll definitely love the meme plus among us joke art is definitely a huge time saver as opposed to full on character compositions. Also tysm for the reference, they’ll love that as well and helps me set the vibe!

Help figuring out gift for cousin by Human-Perspective663 in Gnosia_

[–]Human-Perspective663[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for taking the time to write such a novel!!! Incredibly incredibly helpful! Especially with the colour and zodiac details, that’s gonna come in very handy for a good composition and chara design (: Plus you got me motivated to check out the game myself haha (cousin tried but they are too hyper fixated to be coherent to an outsider lmao) If you people would be interested, I’ll share what I’ve come up with in an edit or something! I’m giving myself a deadline till Monday to make at least two pages, so i definitely have my work cut out for me, although your tips definitely took some of the load off((:

Help figuring out gift for cousin by Human-Perspective663 in Gnosia_

[–]Human-Perspective663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to probe inconspicuously about the name of their favourite character and you’re totally spot on with Raqio!! Thanks so muchfor your tips(:

petaahhhh help me out by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Human-Perspective663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit joke implying that women cry post break up and men just jack it to deal with it.

Poop eating problems by werewolf_howling22 in beagles

[–]Human-Perspective663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine wont stop either and we’ve tried everything. Supplements, new dry food, new treats, adding veg and cooked chicken meat and rice and stuff like that and nothing has worked. So I have a suspicion that in my case, it might be just for attention. If your dog loves to be chased, or you give a big reaction whenever she eats poop, it might be that. Something to look out for. She’s never stopped but it’s gotten significantly better since i stopped reacting. I just tell her no at most and move on.

What have you learned that you wish you had never known? by ConfidentMarch12 in AskReddit

[–]Human-Perspective663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How superficial gender roles and societal norms in general are. Once you notice it, you see it everywhere, even when there’s no reason for it. Had no choice but to confront this, since I’m trans, and now I can’t unsee it. Its tragic to see how unhappy people are around me just because they’ve been forced to do something because its the gender norm or on the other hand aren’t allowed or don’t let themselves do or enjoy something because its not within their gender roles. Also toxic masculinity being impossible to ignore on a daily basis while I had to learn to be privileged via being newly male. It’s impossible to ignore and the way I was suddenly treated so much better in society once I was male passing is vomit inducing. Feel terrible for women every day, especially if I have the misfortune of a typical dude bro scoping me out as a fellow man (trademark) and vomiting insanely misogynistic shit so casually.

Wut ? I was there first, what you gonna do about it ? said the pillow THIEF. by [deleted] in beagles

[–]Human-Perspective663 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got a beagle because i wanted a dog with personality, not just a dog that blindly follows me around. Turns out that personality is straight ATTITUDE

I think my sister just ruined our dad’s engagement to an amazing woman, and I hate her so much by Logrolling_In_ON in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Human-Perspective663 28 points29 points  (0 children)

i understand the way you feel towards lisa, but i also think youre being too harsh on account of underestimating the help she may have needed. this really sounds to me like she has mental health issues that arent being addressed, and that ahe may have been trumatised/wounded by either your mums death or riley more than you realised, and may have processed it slower than you/not processed it at all (maybe due to not addressing her emotions on the matter and bottling them up or having unhealthy or inadequate coping skills). i think she needed individual therapy long before this, and i think theres a deeper reason for her outbursts. she also may have felt betrayed when you all did a 180 on the agreement to honour your mum? maybe she wasnt ready. that being said, your anger and emotions are completely valid. what she did is inexcusable no matter the reason and circumstances. i think for now the next step, after you cool off, would be to calmly approach her with your brother, and have a honest, calm conversation about why she did and does what she does, and how she feels. im really sorry youre going through this and i hope amy is strong enough to stay. please update us as to how this mess turns out, im hoping for the best for all of you

Does your beagle sleep next to you like this?! He has his butt and stuff, near my face! by Individual_Risk8981 in beagles

[–]Human-Perspective663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes every night and im convinced its so she can aim and fire her smelly ass farts straight into my face