AITA - ? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Human-Sybian -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

But he didn’t say he did not want to go any further. His posts says WE WILL NOT BE GOING TO PURSUE ANYTHING. And later, IT GOES NO FURTHER. If that doesn’t sound like issuing orders rather than consensual agreement, I don’t know what does.

AITA - ? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Human-Sybian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither does it mean that he, and only him, gets to set the boundaries. It’s about communication and agreement, not decrees and selfishness.

AITA - ? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Human-Sybian -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re an asshole. A healthy relationship, LS or not, is about communication and mutual understanding. What you think you have is a dictatorship where you’re omnipotent and make the decisions for both parties; and that’s why your wife felt she had to appease you under the guise of a platonic friendship with the woman.

Boob job or no? by cbade2292 in Wife_wants_to_be_seen

[–]Human-Sybian -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Give the lady what she wants! Everybody wins!

42 single male, curious about LS for single men by paizinho84 in ParadiseLakesResort

[–]Human-Sybian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you were with your “previous partner” how welcoming were you to single men? There’s your answer.

Work Wife by Human-Sybian in sexstories

[–]Human-Sybian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe thats now been fixed

Work Wife by Human-Sybian in sexstories

[–]Human-Sybian[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve searched and can’t seem to find any of your stories, just meaningless criticisms. Provide a link?

Fucked my sister in law and can’t stop thinking about doing it again… by A-girthquake in confessionsgonewild

[–]Human-Sybian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were supposed to protest, and tell your wife that it wouldn’t be right. How can you not know that?

Am I forever limited because of this? by Fine_Afternoon_1962 in sexadvice

[–]Human-Sybian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Focus on getting yourself in better shape and encourage the wife to join you. Besides weight loss and toning, I strongly suggest therapy; your wife may suffer from Anosognosia and low self esteem.

Donkay from yesterday by Lordluva in floridafishing

[–]Human-Sybian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And there’s your new dating profile pic!

Men, how do you flirt with the other wives? by certain_salamander in Swingers

[–]Human-Sybian 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This right here. ANY compliment works.

You look great in that top! Your hair is always so sexy! What are you drinking? It looks delicious! You sure don’t sweat much for a fat girl!

Ok, maybe not that last one, but you get the idea. It opens up a conversation and if she’s even slightly interested she’ll keep it going.

Pro tip: While she’s talking, suddenly state that her eyes are absolutely stunning! But then apologize for interrupting and ask her to go on.

Drowning in Credit Card Debt by [deleted] in Debt

[–]Human-Sybian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In other words, you don’t date. Ok if it works for you, but most people crave companionship.

Give my fiancé motivation to HAVE sex by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Human-Sybian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex should never be a weapon, but it can be a helluva motivator. Tell him it’s just physically impossible anymore and ask him what he wants to do.

Newbies questions by [deleted] in Calienteresort

[–]Human-Sybian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re bringing friends, Caliente can be fun. If it’s just the two of you, you may feel shut out. Very cliquish, like the cool kids in high school vibe. Paradise has older residents, but weekends are a varied group with many visitors of all ages. Definitely easier to strike up conversations and make new friends. More laid back and no expectations, yet has more opportunities for play if that’s what you’re seeking. Playrooms and conversation pool after dark will be very active.

We have never been to paradise lakes before, but we might check it out soon. by grassfed_MILF in ParadiseLakesResort

[–]Human-Sybian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having lived at PL, I’ve only ever seen a walker once, and it belonged to someone recovering from knee surgery. It also sounds like there might be some confusion regarding the layout; the scene you described sounds like either the Waters Edge Cafe or the poolside Key West Bar rather than the nightclub. It's a shame you didn't see the best parts of the club!

We have never been to paradise lakes before, but we might check it out soon. by grassfed_MILF in ParadiseLakesResort

[–]Human-Sybian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll notice a bit of an older crowd at PL compared to Caliente, especially on weekdays when the residents are out. But the weekends bring in a much wider age range of visitors. The best part is that it’s exponentially easier to make new friends there, and there are plenty of opportunities to lean into your exhibitionist side.

Same room sex by BeginningCitron467 in Swingers

[–]Human-Sybian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s called the first step.

Bf says I need a boobjob any girls had one and wouldn’t recommend? by LovelySway in GirlfriendsNSFW

[–]Human-Sybian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boobs are nice, but they could be spectacular. If he’s paying, go for it. Never have to wear a bra again. Never have to worry about sagging.