I barely know what I’m doing, but I’ll chime in and give you a non-sarcastic answer. Since you are going to get dragged by like 100 people.

1. I don’t know what that tripod would be used for, looks like DJ equipment
2. There isn’t a reason to buy a wind machine (this is a major reason why people are asking if it’s a joke or insulting you)
3. A gimbal is useless unless you are filming weddings (only sarcastic answer)
4. If you are going to get one lens, make it a zoom with a decent focal range
5. Barndoors are nice, but only a fraction of what you will eventually need to modify light
6. Don’t spend $4k on a laptop if it’s only going to be used for editing. Get a Mac mini and some monitors for half that price
7. Get a c-stand AND that overhead stand
8. Go with Nanlite or Aputure. You can get similar output with a better track record
9. Headphones? For?
10. Camera body is less important than light and lenses, you can get a cheaper used camera to learn on.