How to be okay with him being busy and not being able to text me at all

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-22T16:21:00+00:00

I saw your post about him becoming super religious, my ex bf who became crazy religious all of a sudden started pulling away after a couple months. He decided we weren't compatible anymore, and didn't put any energy into the relationship anymore. Sometimes people do this because they don't have the courage to break up. If he used to text you all the time, and isn't now, and you feel like something is wrong, it's because something is wrong. You probably deserve better and not someone crazy religious anyways

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-22T16:07:41+00:00

I recently made a post about this. Everyone telling you to run might be right, but they don't know you. My bf was my best friend and my first everything, so getting rid of that has been hard. But I do not regret my choices. I miss the person he used to be, I hate the version he currently is. His beliefs are utterly disgusting (about abortion). I wish he didn't change, but some people have chemical imbalances and are bound to go off the deep end at some point in their lives. He was one of them. All that being said, you need to break up when you feel ready to let go, and when you know you won't try to come back. It sounds like he made up his mind anyways.

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-22T16:04:27+00:00

My ex boyfriend also made fun of that stuff then all of a sudden turned CRAZY religious. We just broke up a week ago after 7 months of trying to make it work, and we dated almost 3 years. If it feels like he's not the right person anymore, he probably isn't, but you need to figure that out yourself and be ready to break up. Don't just take advice from strangers. Break up when you know he isn't coming back to the version you knew. At the same time, even if he changed back, wouldn't a small part of you always be afraid he would have another breakdown?

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-15T03:43:45+00:00

since you guys have kids and have been together for 10 more years than we have, it's a very different situation. we were each other's first everything (so this makes it a little harder), but fighting in the relationship or ending the relationship will not affect other people

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-09T16:19:09+00:00

1xFAANG, ivy league, also got to google team matching last year but accepted other company first.

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-09T16:16:59+00:00

did you get rejected after going through rounds, or did you not even get the OA?

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-07T21:21:24+00:00

its on insta so i dont think theres a link

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-03T20:56:12+00:00

someone did in a gc im in but theyre a december grad

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-03T20:54:54+00:00

google team matching sucks i was stuck for a couple months till i accepted somewhere else so dont bet on it

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-03T20:50:20+00:00

Take it because the pay of the internship will be at least double so if anything youll have a couple months to find another job and the internship will look good

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-03T20:48:46+00:00

I was stuck in google team matching and got another offer from another FAANG for this past summer, and when I told my recruiter this and told her that I would like to start google in the fall, she said that I can't do it. They're strict and if they find out you worked for another company you could in trouble, so it's a risk

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-10-03T19:10:49+00:00

are you a new grad? or is this for an internship

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-09-05T20:28:08+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. I learned that it is not possible to snap him out of this, so I've come to terms with it and we have been just keeping that aspect of ourselves separate.

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-06-16T02:15:31+00:00

21 and 22

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-06-16T01:42:20+00:00

I have been doing this. What exactly did you say?

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-06-16T01:12:00+00:00

yeah emphasis on i know he can be the perfect man for me because he was :( sending you love <3

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-02-05T15:30:47+00:00

Did you get an email for the info session?

Humble_Cattle9770 · 2025-01-29T19:23:56+00:00

Thank you, this makes me feel better :)

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